Sophie-sticated Mom Podcast By Dr. Sophia Reed

 Here is to all my women with daddy issues and I am here to tell you and to give you permission to let that mess go. Now! I understand that you may not know what daddy issues are.  It is possible that you may have been told or someone has told you that you have daddy issues and you are not even sure what that means.  Link to original post including other mentioned blog posts and videos:  https://w...

I have learned to be content in all things and YES it was freakin hard.  Learning to be content in all things no matter what your situation is very difficult.  As a Christian it sounds all nice in the sense that we should be content with what God gave us in whatever situation we are in. But the reality can be very different.  Different in the sense that you can want more money, a better job, a rel...

Being a single mom is hard but there are some benefits of being a single mom, but not in the way that you may think. It is factual that with hard things in life that these are the things that actually make us stronger if we are able to successfully cope with them.  And there is a word for this known as resiliency.  Link to original post including other mentioned blog posts and videos:  https://www...

What would you rather do? Soar like a eagle or sit like a duck? If you read my blog then you know that I am a huge person of metaphors if you are new here then welcome I am a huge person of metaphors.  You may be wondering what in the world I am talking about and why on Earth am I comparing you, a human being, to a bird.  In my brain (which I like to call Sophia brain) the difference between an ea...

As a woman, you may have been told not to appear TOO confident because then you will look like you are too independent and a man won't want you. Instead, you must come off as being a little "needy" to show a man that NEED him. You don't need anyone but Jesus, and if you are of that mindset then you need to snap out of it. That makes no logical sense. Link to original post inclu...

I am of the belief that if a man does not work he does not eat. And by man, I men those men who want to sit around and be with women yet they do not want to do anything to contribute to the household. I am talking about men who use women for money and men who live off women.   If you are a reader of my blog then you should know that I am a no-nonsense kind of girl. I am not of the belief that a wo...

What does it mean to believe in yourself?  Let me tell you this, believe in yourself and you will be unstoppable. When people don't believe in you, you always have the power to believe in yourself.  In fact that is exactly what you NEED to be doing.  You cannot expect to get validation or purpose from other people.  If they give that to you, then great? But don't expect it and don't...

So many women are so blind to the obvious signs he's playing you because men have mastered the art of making us women think that the crazy behavior that men dish out to us is normal. And in some way, it is like many of the players get together, come up with the same ways, do the same things, so that when we date them we start to mistake these things as normal "male" behavior and we...

Here are the top mistakes women make when dating and how to not interact and engage with men using a real-life example from Brianna sweet life Los Angeles.   Link to original post including other mentioned blog posts and videos:  https://youtu.be/lKyxpY3qzLw Related Videos:  How to weed out men on the first date: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l9ToC28Ixi0 My free ebook with these pieces and more...

There are very real and actual important spiritual benefits of celibacy. I know what the world wants to tell you. That having sex before marriage is good, that having sex with alot of people is good, it feels good, and that it is a wonderful free experience and no one should tell you any different. That you can take a test drive of the merchandise before you try it out, and that if you do not have...

Are you interested in how to start a blog and make money FOR FREE BUT you don't have any money to invest.  Good news for you, that I am the queen of cheap and doing things for free or on a budget and I am going to tell you how to start a blog in the cheapest MOST none money having way possible. Not just start a blog but also make money from it.  I have been blogging for a long time.  Link to...

Waiting on God is one of the hardest things that you. Or at least for me it was and still is as I am sure it is for most people and probably for you if you are reading this blog. Especially when you are waiting on God. As people we want what we want when we want it and we don't want to wait. Link to original post including other mentioned blog posts and videos:  https://www.sophie-sticatedmom...

Having a God centered relationship with your boyfriend is important if you are Christian.  But it does not have to be some holier than though weird thing were you sit around and put on this religious show to show how spiritual you are. A God centered relationship is important but it should also be authentic and purposeful.   Link to original post including other mentioned blog posts and videos:  h...

You may be thinking why on Earth would I want to fast and now can me doing this actually help me spiritually.  And that is exactly what I am going to tell you. Link to original post including other mentioned blog posts and videos:  https://www.sophie-sticatedmom.com/2017/10/05/3-important-spiritual-benefits-fasting/ My free ebook with these pieces and more that will teach you how to make a capsule...

Works of the flesh as explained in the Bible in great detail and it is something that we as people are not supposed to do.  Although, in my opinion when you read the works of the flesh it is really is common sense that they are bad for you BUT they are also behaviors that so many people display, on a regular basis, and cannot control.  There are some people who legit will try to argue with me abou...

Have you heard the saying that God answers prayers in 3 ways, well it is true and I am going to explain to you exactly what that means and why?  Because even if God gives you a big fat no, that is still an answer and when God chooses to answer your prayers in the way that He answers the prayers (even if you don't like it) you have to trust that God's answer is the best answer.  Even thou...

How many times have women got tricked into being a man friends all while giving them girlfriend benefits.  This is what to do when a man says he is not ready for a relationships but wants to be your “friend.”  Grown woman status video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l44tICTZHJ4&t Link to original post including other mentioned blog posts and videos:  https://youtu.be/xuwNSVcCZ6Y   My free ebo...

In this post I want to talk about why you are not getting promoted at work and why. I have seen and have been at jobs where no matter how great of a job you do the best performers do not get promoted because perhaps the culture in the company is to promote those they know or favor and are not based on merit. Which I have a video on down below on my actual workplace experiance. Link to original pos...

It is easy to get discouraged by people who bring you down, but one thing you have to realize that people who bring you down are no match for you.  Which is why I am going to explain to you the art of dealing with people you can't stand and those who want to bring you down.  Link to original post including other mentioned blog posts and videos:  https://www.sophie-sticatedmom.com/2017/10/18/r...

I am going to give you morning routine ideas for single moms. Here is an example of what a great single mom morning routine will get you. This morning I was 10 minute early getting out of the door and my son was able to tell me that we were 10 minutes early. And that time when I oversleep by 20 minutes it was my son that came into my room to wake me up to tell me what time it was because we were g...

Want to know how to deal with a workplace bully, then you have come to the right place because I am not only going to tell you how to deal with workplace bullying but I am going to tell you how to master them, conquer them, and  like a boss.  As someone who has dealt with workplace bullying (or at least they tried it) I am very very familiar with the issue.   People have tried to bully me for my r...

So many women think that it is hard to find a good man. When I say how to find a good man what I should say is where to find a good man and then draw him in with your attractiveness and positive energy.  This is more about putting yourself in position to find a good man not about jumping through hoops, being desperate, and doing the absolute most to grab the attention of a man.  Link to original p...

The easiest way to get away from men that you don’t need to be which is to emotionally detach, and here are the 5 steps on how you can do that.    Link to original post including other mentioned blog posts and videos:  https://youtu.be/B0rlbaMXJGM   Related videos:  When women use sex to justify toxic relationships. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7qF6KWO0Xdc   My free ebook with these pieces and...

Are you tired of struggling financially as a single mom? What if I told you that you can be a wealthy single mommy.  That as a single mom your life does not have to be full of struggle. Then welcome, today you are going to learn how to NOT be broke.  As a single mother, it can be hard not living paycheck to paycheck and which is why you may be in a situation where you have had to borrow from Peter...

Why am I single still? Are you sitting around asking yourself that question that every single day or even multiple times a day? There are times where you are single and nothing could be wrong with you, you are a completely normal human being, but it can be harder for you to find the type of high caliber man you want because these days they can be like unicorns. The idea of them came from somewhere...