Sophie-sticated Mom Podcast By Dr. Sophia Reed

In a world in which the divorce rate is at about 50% some of you out there may be wondering, how should husband love your wives?  We know that the Bible says that husbands should love their wives like their own flesh. BUT okay fine, what does that really mean for marriage? Link to original post including mentioned blog post: https://www.sophie-sticatedmom.com/2015/11/24/what-does-it-mean-to-love-y...

Are you tired of having your heart broken and feeling unwanted? You try to do everything RIGHT and be a good girlfriend BUT YET you are still the one getting broken up with or your man does something that leaves you heartbroken? Link to original post including mentioned blog post: https://www.sophie-sticatedmom.com/2015/12/01/why-he-doesnt-deserve-you/ My free ebook with these pieces and more that...

If you want to know where to meet singles in your 30s, then you need first to put yourself in a mature mindset. If you are over 30 trying to meet single men at an 18 and up club on a college campus, then this is problem number one. You are at the wrong place, and you have the wrong mindset on where to meet men.  I also encourage you to visit my blog "How to have a grown and sexy ladies night...

Who Is The Holy Spirit Bible Verses That'll Break It Down For You In Plain English In this post, I am going to explain who is the Holy Spirit with Bible verses in the most simplest and straightforward way that you can imagine. The fact of the matter is that I grew up in the church, I said the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit but I did not REALLY know what it is was. I did not know what ex...

In this post, I am going to try to answer the question of why does God allow suffering because most people do not understand it. God and suffering seem like an oxymoron. If God is love and God loves us then why does he want us to suffer? Link to original post including mentioned blog post: https://www.sophie-sticatedmom.com/2016/09/08/if-god-loves-us-then-why-does-he-allow-the-world-to-hurt-us-und...

As a single mother, one of the Bible verses that I love is father to the fatherless defender of the weak. Because God is pretty much saying that he is going to be there for you and your child by being your husband, father, and defender. It can sound a little like incest a first, but I promise I will lay it out to you in a way that you can understand. Let's take the actual Bible verse. Link to...

Let's talk about how to stop being lazy and unmotivated. The short answer to why am I so lazy and unmotivated is that most people want to be successful but they never put in the work they need to put in succeed or they cannot muster up the "motivation" they need in order to actually get something done.   Sadly,  the end result of sitting around and wasting your life away and a life...

In this post I am going to teach you how to read the Bible and most importantly the key to understanding the Bible. Because what is the point of reading anything if you cannot understand it? And I  know what you may be thinking, that you go to church and there is no real reason for you to know how to understand the Bible because your pastor can teach it to you.   Link to original post including me...

Two women fighting over a man is crazy. Competing with another woman for a man has become our new normal.  So normal that we do not realize how ABNORMAL it is. The reality is that when women are fighting over a man, they are fighting each other instead of fighting the man that is cheating on them both.   Link to original post including mentioned blog post: https://www.sophie-sticatedmom.com/2015/1...

I am going to give you some PRACTICAL tips on how to survive financially as a single mom. And know that I am the best person to tell you this because there was a time when I was a financially struggling single mom.   Link to original post including mentioned blog post: https://www.sophie-sticatedmom.com/2018/05/15/financially-struggling-single-moms/   My free ebook with these pieces and more that...

If he wants you he will pursue you. I do not want to hear about what day and age it is. I do not care about his past childhood issues. I do not care that you think he is shy, tongue-tied, emotionally damaged, or does not like talking on the phone for more than 10 minutes. Link to original post including mentioned blog post: https://www.sophie-sticatedmom.com/2015/11/19/stop-chasing-men/     My fre...

Dating vs a relationship there is a difference, but sad to say most women actually don't know that. Knowing the difference can alleviate a lot of hurt feelings. Link to original post including mentioned blog post: https://www.sophie-sticatedmom.com/2015/11/20/real-relationships-versus-casual-dating-they-are-not-the-same-thing/   My free ebook with these pieces and more that will teach you how...

According to Proverbs 18:21 Life And Death Are In The Power Of The Tongue. In case you are at a loss of what in the world that even means I am going to break it down to you so that you can know if you are speaking life or death into your situation.   Because some people are out here speaking death into their life and they have no clue that they are even doing it. And then they wonder why their lif...

If you are a single mom dating a childless man then it is very easy to get your signals crossed.  You have the responsibilities of a child while he has none. And it may be tempting to forget all about your motherly duties and ride into the sunset with this new man. Link to original post including mentioned blog post: https://www.sophie-sticatedmom.com/2015/11/19/single-mothers-who-want-to-get-marr...

Knowing how to cope with being a single mom can be hard because so many single mothers are conflicted thus leading to single mom guilt. They want to be good mothers, but then they spread themselves so thin that they all of a sudden feel guilty that they cannot be any and everything to their child. Link to original post including mentioned blog post: https://www.sophie-sticatedmom.com/2015/11/13/th...

Knowing how to cope with depression as a Christian can be confusing. Coping with depression can absolutely and totally suck. And so many Christians are at a lost on how to cope with depression.  And I know what you may be thinking. What do I know? How do I know about depression? And what makes me so qualified to tell you how you can cope with your depression. Link to original post including mentio...

I am going to give you 5 inspirational quotes for single moms. These quotes actually come from my best selling book.  Fix It Jesus! For Single Moms Only: The Straightforward No-Nonsense Guide to Passion, Purpose, & Prayer. Link to original post including mentioned blog post: https://www.sophie-sticatedmom.com/2018/07/12/biblical-inspirational-quotes-for-women/ My free ebook with these pieces a...

In this post, I am going to go over the types of leaders and how you can deal with each of them. You can have a crazy boss, a lazy boss, or a boss that just doesn't know what they are doing.   All of them fall within these 5 types of leadership styles. So trust me, I do have you covered. But before I continue you have to know that you cannot control your boss no matter how insane or sane they...

One of the best ways to understand and receive unconditional love from God is to understand that God's love is unconditional kind of like a mother.  I mean think about it a mother's love is the closest thing to God's love. I know it can be weird thinking of God as your mother, your father, and sometimes even your husband. How can God be all these things when the world that we live i...

I used to hate going out alone as a single woman because I always felt like people were looking at me like I was all lonely and whatnot.  And low-key feeling sorry for me.   But guess what? People do not care as much as you think they do and all the things that you think other people are thinking about you are more than likely in your head.  That is why I am going to teach you some tips and tricks...

6 Tips For How NOT To Feel Lonely And Single Not only am I going to tell you what the Bible says about being lonely and single, but I am also going to encourage you to cultivate that relationship with God for Him to get you through your single and lonely state. Anyone can read the Bible and quote a few verses, BUT it is not really going to sink in until you allow God to help you determine how the...

As a Christian becoming a friend of God is the most important thing you can do. I know it can sound pretty crazy because there are some Christians out there who see God as some strange eye in the sky looking over us and that is pretty much it. But if you are not having a relationship with God and if are not a friend of God then you are literally missing out on the best part of being a Christian.  ...

Being a mother can lead to a lot of emotions and I understand we all need a little encouragement. For me, that encouragement comes from God. The Bible is like your road map to encouragement and how to do things, following it will not steer you wrong.   This is why I am going to give you 10 of the best Bible verses to encourage moms in whatever situation you may find yourself in. No matter if you a...

In this post, I am going to give you 10 of the most powerful Bible Verses about overcoming adversity.  So many of us Christians think that because we are Christian that we are exempt from experiencing any kind of hardship.   But God does not promise that we are exempt from pain and adversity will come. I know what you may be thinking, that if we are going to have adversity anyway then what is the...

Before you get your panties all in a bunch thinking that I am some cynical angry woman since I gave up on love I want to tell you I have a very good reason or better yet 10. Not only did I give up on love for a while, as in YEARS but I think that you should too. And here’s why. Link to original post including mentioned blog post: https://www.sophie-sticatedmom.com/2020/06/01/10-reasons-why-i-gave-...