Social Skills Coaching

Better Small Talk: Talk to Anyone, Avoid Awkwardness, Generate Deep Conversations, and Make Real Friends By Patrick King Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/2Q5CWQM 00:00:00 Initial Impressions 00:10:41 Make the First Move 00:16:50 Find Similarity 00:27:35 Manufacture Connection https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0871N22LF Networking events suck, but they can suck less. What to say and when to say to be likabl...

Easily listen to Social Skills Coaching in your podcast app of choice at https://bit.ly/social-skills-home 00:02:55 Are You a Conversational Narcissist? 00:11:01 The Power of the Support Response 00:17:03 ALBRECHT’S RULE OF THREE FOR CONVERSATIONS Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/3N9lsjI • The biggest threat to connecting well with others is conversational narcissism—i.e., the tendency of centering...

Easily listen to Social Skills Coaching in your podcast app of choice at https://bit.ly/social-skills-home Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/3N9lsjI • This chapter is about how to steer conversations to different topics without making things seem restrictive. One critical aspect of talking to people is ability to transition between topics seamlessly. Many people struggle with this because they often...

The Confidence Formula: May Cause: Lower Self-Doubt, Higher Self-Esteem, and Comfort In Your Own Skin (Be Confident and Fearless Book 8) By: Patrick King Hear it Here - https://bit.ly/ConfidenceFormulaKing https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0994VF5XH 00:16:21 Low Confidence Characteristics 00:22:05 Am I Unconfident—or Do I Have Anxiety? 00:24:09 The Spotlight Effect 00:30:53 Feelings Versus Automatic Thou...

Easily listen to Social Skills Coaching in your podcast app of choice at https://bit.ly/social-skills-home 00:03:17.360 Constantly Interrupting 00:05:38.100 Using Qualifiers 00:06:53.900 Equating Your Experiences 00:08:02.139 Floundering 00:09:13.940 Waiting Instead of Listening 00:13:42.170 The Rapport Game 00:15:09.470 Mirroring and Matching 00:18:48.220 Way 1: Match and Mirror External Communic...

Better Small Talk: Talk to Anyone, Avoid Awkwardness, Generate Deep Conversations, and Make Real Friends By Patrick King 00:14:25.120 A Childlike Exercise 00:22:30.760 Your Conversation Résumé 00:29:56.769 Conversational Stages 00:39:29.950 Initial Impressions 00:49:59.349 Make the First Move 00:56:07.650 Find Similarity 01:06:53.740 Manufacture Connection Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/2Q5CWQM ht...

Easily listen to Social Skills Coaching in your podcast app of choice at https://bit.ly/social-skills-home 00:10:46 Four Easy Self-Disclosure Rules. 00:14:38 Mini Self-Disclosures. 00:17:30 How to Respond to Someone Else’s Disclosure. Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/3N9lsjI • Vulnerability is essential for human connection, and appropriate self-disclosure creates trust, authenticity, and intimacy....

The Science of Likability: 60 Evidence-Based Methods to Radiate Charisma, Make a Powerful Impression, Win Friends, and Trigger Attraction By Patrick King .00:02:19 Context-Dependent Memories. 00:10:07 The Power of Association. 00:15:36 Shut Up and Let ’Em Talk! 00:26:10 Equity Within Relationships. 00:32:04 Similarity Breeds Liking. 00:38:05 This is known as the chameleon effect 00:40:09 Three Sta...

Hear it Here - http://bit.ly/improvking 00:02:51 Conversation Equals Improv 00:09:03 Emotional Intelligence 00:12:19 Play 00:19:53 Takeaways Does your mind blank in conversation and create awkward silence? Do you run out of things to say and struggle to keep dialogue flowing? (A) Conversation isn’t scripted, (B) it’s 100% unpredictable, and (C) it can be terrifying at times. How do you prepare for...

Conversation Skills Training: How to Build Relationships, Navigate Any Situation, and Talk to Anyone By: Patrick King Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/3U8eoc5 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNPHL9PC You are missing out on so many relationships in your life. Communication is the bedrock of our relationships. But we often don’t know how to express ourselves, or truly hear others. Make sure that you are n...

Easily listen to Social Skills Coaching in your podcast app of choice at https://bit.ly/social-skills-home Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/3N9lsjI 00:08:18 Preconceived Attitudes 00:17:48 Judgment and Premature Evaluation. ••••••••••• #Conversation #ConversationSkillsTraining #Training #RussellNewton #NewtonMG #PatrickKing #PatrickKingConsulting #SocialSkillsCoaching #ConversationSkillsTraining #Id...

Take Rapid Action: Get Productive, Motivated, & Energized; Stop Overthinking & Procrastinating By Patrick King 00:04:28 Follow the Ostrich’s Lead 00:09:41 The Premortem Analysis 00:15:56 The Don’t-Do List 00:31:04 Err on the Side of Action 00:32:19 Get a Little Uncomfortable 00:39:04 Tiny Steps 00:45:25 The 40-70 Rule 00:50:14 Beat Indecision Hear it Here - https://bit.ly/takerapidactionki...

Easily listen to Social Skills Coaching in your podcast app of choice at https://bit.ly/social-skills-home 00:03:25 Why Stories Matter 00:05:23 Four Elements of a Good Story 00:09:28 Be Natural ... But Have a Plan 00:17:16 USING WITTY BANTER IN BUILDING RAPPORT 00:22:35 Technique 2: Use the Element of Surprise 00:24:03 Technique 3: Sarcasm 00:26:25 Technique 4: Being Self-Referential 00:28:15 Bant...

How To Say No: Stand Your Ground, Assert Yourself, and Make Yourself Be Seen (Without Guilt or Awkwardness) (Be Confident and Fearless Book 7) By: Patrick King 00:02:05 Why Saying No is So Essential 00:10:26 Why We Struggle to Say No 00:20:53 The Psychological Root of Never Saying No: Codependency 00:36:51 Getting Rid of Counter-Mindsets 00:44:54 Change Strategies for Counter-Mindsets 00:46:19 Rew...

Easily listen to Social Skills Coaching in your podcast app of choice at https://bit.ly/social-skills-home Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/3N9lsjI 00:01:53 Dr. David Rock created the SCARF model 00:05:34 Assertive Communication 00:09:17 What Makes Assertive Communicators Different 00:10:45 Ten Essential Assertive Communication Habits 00:22:06 Bonus: The Broken Record Technique 00:23:47 Give and Tak...

Easily listen to Social Skills Coaching in your podcast app of choice at https://bit.ly/social-skills-home 00:02:20 Identify Your Communication Style 00:04:20 The Passive Communicator 00:07:57 The Aggressive Communicator 00:11:15 The Passive-Aggressive Communicator 00:19:19 The Assertive Communicator Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/3N9lsjI • The best mindset to adopt in order to become a better com...

Easily listen to Social Skills Coaching in your podcast app of choice at https://bit.ly/social-skills-home 00:02:46 Psychologist Shelly Gable coined the term “active and constructive responding” 00:12:42 A truly active and constructive response Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/3N9lsjI • Your response to someone’s good news can vary, being passive or active, constructive or destructive. Aim for activ...

Easily listen to Social Skills Coaching in your podcast app of choice at https://bit.ly/social-skills-home Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/3N9lsjI 00:01:18 In an article published in the Journal of Managerial Sciences in 2009 00:01:48 The Different Types of Conflict 00:02:02 Not all conflict is the same—take a look at some variants: Affective Conflict 00:02:23 Substantive Conflict 00:02:45 Conflict...

Easily listen to Social Skills Coaching in your podcast app of choice at https://bit.ly/social-skills-home 00:03:22 The Perfect Apology 00:04:41 A Mistake Can Be a Good Thing! 00:07:37 1. Express your genuine regret 00:09:50 2. Explain what happened 00:11:20 3. Take responsibility 00:12:24 4. Repent! 00:13:58 5. Offer to make amends 00:15:14 6. Ask for forgiveness Hear it Here - adbl.co/3OJ4V72 •...

Easily listen to Social Skills Coaching in your podcast app of choice at https://bit.ly/social-skills-home 00:01:48 Karen Huang and colleagues 00:05:35 Chunking Up and Down 00:18:15 When to Chunk Up 00:19:13 When to Chunk Down Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/3N9lsjI • Research suggests that talking about yourself makes you a little less likeable, while asking questions makes you a little more likea...

Easily listen to Social Skills Coaching in your podcast app of choice at https://bit.ly/social-skills-home 00:00:48 Judi Brownell from Cornell University 00:01:07 Here are the components of Brownell’s model: H: Hearing 00:03:01 U: Understanding 00:05:01 R: Remembering 00:06:48 I: Interpreting 00:08:33 E: Evaluating 00:10:57 R: Responding 00:15:29 Don’t Be a Conversational Narcissist! 00:17:52 Refr...

Easily listen to Social Skills Coaching in your podcast app of choice at https://bit.ly/social-skills-home 00:01:43 How to Create Healthy Boundaries 00:03:29 How to Set Boundaries 00:14:24 Use DEARMAN for Polite Requests and Refusals Hear it Here - adbl.co/3OJ4V72 • Human beings are complex, and not all problems and conflicts can be solved by simply heaping on more and more empathy and understandi...

Easily listen to Social Skills Coaching in your podcast app of choice at https://bit.ly/social-skills-home Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/3N9lsjI 00:00:34 Part one of the Friendship Mindset is the Art of Active Listening. 00:06:12 Pay Close Attention 00:09:17 Be Mindful of the Little Things 00:10:52 Help People Think Out Loud 00:16:03 Restate 00:17:16 Summarize 00:18:10 Reframe • Give the gift of...

Easily listen to Social Skills Coaching in your podcast app of choice at https://bit.ly/social-skills-home 00:06:04 How to Use Funnel Questions 00:08:26 Here's a summary of How To Ask Funnel Questions 00:11:50 How You Structure a Question Matters 00:15:14 Rhetorical Questions 00:16:09 To conclude, here are a few Tips For Using Questions 00:17:03 How to Be a Truly Effective Listener Hear it Here -...

The Power of E.Q.: Social Intelligence, Reading People, and How to Navigate Any Situation By: Patrick King Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/3OJ4V72 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C3CC2RM3 Your success in life will depend on how good you are with people. Sorry, that's the harsh truth. But the good news is that this is a trainable skill - and this book is an amazing start. Make a smashing first impressio...