Patrick King

Social Skills Coaching

Society EN ↓ 244 episodes

While everyone wants to make themselves and their lives better, it has been hard to find specific, actionable steps to accomplish that. Until now...Patrick King is a Social Interaction Specialist, in other words, a dating, online dating, image, and communication, and social skills coach based in San Francisco, California. He’s also a #1 Amazon best-selling dating and relationships author with the most popular online dating book on the market and writes frequently on dating, love, sex, and relationships. He focuses on using his emotional intelligence and understanding of human interaction to br...

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Patrick King

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Jul 1, 2026

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Follow-Up Questions That Make People Want to Keep Talking 01.07.2026

00:01:00 Chunking Up and Chunking Down 00:10:27 We’ve discussed a few methods 00:14:51 Let's summarize these with the primary takeaways from this episode. Behavioral Tells: Read the Hidden Signals Behind Every Action. What People Reveal Without Saying a Word. (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 46) By Patrick King https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DYKN5V6H Do you struggle to ask follow-up quest...

Why Your Questions Are Making People Like You Less 24.06.2026

00:00:54 The Art of Asking the Right Questions 00:01:51 The Kipling Method 00:08:38 Assumptive Questions 00:12:29 Here are the main takeaways from today's episode. Behavioral Tells: Read the Hidden Signals Behind Every Action. What People Reveal Without Saying a Word. (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 46) By Patrick King https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DYKN5V6H Do you struggle to ask the ri...

How To Spot A Fake Friend By Noticing The Baseline Shift 15.06.2026

Unlock the hidden code behind human behavior—before it costs you opportunities, relationships, and influence. Most people think they’re good at reading others. They’re not. They project, assume, and misinterpret—then wonder why conversations stall, deals fall apart, and signals get missed. Behavioral Tells cuts through the noise and shows you what people are actually communicating beneath the surf...

The Power of Gaze: Decoding Dominance and Flow in Group Dynamics 11.06.2026

00:00:27 Behavioral Tells is the new book from Patrick King. 00:01:23 Watch Where Attention Flows 00:03:03 The VDR is a way to visualize attention 00:09:32 Understanding “Group Flow” 00:18:32 Here are the takeaways from today's episode. Behavioral Tells: Read the Hidden Signals Behind Every Action. What People Reveal Without Saying a Word. (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 46) By Patric...

Why You Can't Always Trust Facial Expressions 01.06.2026

00:01:04 Why You Can’t Always Trust Facial Expressions 00:07:25 Let's take a look at the main takeaways from today's episode. Behavioral Tells: Read the Hidden Signals Behind Every Action. What People Reveal Without Saying a Word. (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 46) By Patrick King https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DYKN5V6H Unlock the hidden code behind human behavior—before it costs you op...

Vulnerability's Timing: Share, Don't Spill 11.05.2026

Unlock the secret to becoming more likable by mastering vulnerability's timing in our latest episode! You'll learn how to share modest pieces of your truth that align perfectly with the conversation at hand, as backed by a 2015 study showing increased likability from well-timed self-disclosures. Discover when and how to pause after sharing to let your words sink in, fostering deeper connections wi...

Schrödinger's Cat: How Thought Experiments Challenge Your Beliefs 22.04.2026

Patrick King explores how thought experiments, like Schrödinger's cat, challenge our beliefs and assumptions. Learn to question your own knowledge and open the door to new ideas and perspectives. Discover the power of systematic thinking in understanding complex issues. ⏱ CHAPTERS 0:00 Intro 1:39 The Struggle for Knowledge 3:12 Thought Experiments Overview 5:49 Virtues and Drawbacks of Thought Exp...

Navigating the Trust Spectrum: From Dynamic Agents to Earned Faith in a Shifting Environment 15.04.2026

00:02:58 Stimulus Generalization as a Mechanism for Learning to Trust 00:03:26 Trust in Close Relationships 00:03:57 More Is Better 00:08:42 Attitudinal Effects of Mere Exposure How to Extract Info, Secrets, and Truth: Make People Reveal Their True Thoughts and Intentions Without Them Even Knowing It (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 12) By: Patrick King Hear it Here - https://bit.ly/Ex...

Ditching Small Talk: Finding Depth and Direction Through Engaging Conversation 🎧 08.04.2026

00:00:44 Create Motion 00:05:48 Joseph Campbell 00:06:39 The Hero Cycle Better Small Talk: Talk to Anyone, Avoid Awkwardness, Generate Deep Conversations, and Make Real Friends By Patrick King Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/2Q5CWQM https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0871N22LF Networking events suck, but they can suck less. What to say and when to say to be likable, connect, and make a memorable impression...

Shift Your Perspective, Solve Your Conflicts: Mastering Empathy & NLP for Workplace Harmony 🎧 02.04.2026

00:00:18 Hello listeners 00:01:31 Let’s begin by asking, what is empathy, anyway? 00:11:49 Summary The Power of E.Q.: Social Intelligence, Reading People, and How to Navigate Any Situation By: Patrick King Your success in life will depend on how good you are with people. Sorry, that's the harsh truth. But the good news is that this is a trainable skill - and this book is an amazing start. Make a s...

Decoding the Mind: Personality Traits, Intuition & The Power of Body Language 🧠🗣️ 25.03.2026
Taming the Digital Beast: Mastering Media Consumption for Productivity & Growth 18.03.2026

00:00:29 Hello listeners, welcome to Social Skills Coaching 00:01:04 Limit Consumption for More Production. 00:03:36 1. Survey your information consumption. 00:03:39 2. Remove at least 50 percent of the least valuable content 00:03:50 3. View descriptions of information pieces as pitches for your time and attention. 00:03:57 4. Say no more often. 00:04:01 5. Consider cutting entire information for...

Navigating the Tightrope: Self-Disclosure, Oversharing and The Art of Authentic Connection 11.03.2026

00:00:00 Hello listeners 00:01:39 Set the Mood - Divulging 00:03:24 Sharing More 00:13:47 No Judging 00:21:40 In 1997, Arthur Aron found 00:26:59 Self-Entertaining and Amusement 00:37:07 Takeaways How to Engage, Connect, & Captivate: Become the Social Presence You've Always Wanted To Be. Small Talk, Meaningful Communication, & Deep Connections By: Patrick King http://bit.ly/EngageConnectKi...

We Are On A Break - The Science of Self 13.10.2025

Brief Break, Back Soon Louisa: [00:00:00] Hello everyone, and thank you so much for tuning in to our series. We wanted to take a moment to express our heartfelt gratitude for your continued support and engagement. Your enthusiasm inspires us to keep creating and sharing meaningful content with you. As you may already know, we'll be taking a short break. But don't worry, this pause is just an oppor...

From Indecision to Action: Strategies for Making High-Impact Decisions 18.09.2025

00:01:11 Colin Powell, former Secretary of State 00:08:17 Beat Indecision 00:18:36 Here are primary takeaways from today's episode. Take Rapid Action: Get Productive, Motivated, Energized; Stop Overthinking and Procrastinating By Patrick King Hear it Here - https://bit.ly/takerapidactionking https://www.amazon.com/dp/B082YZ95LV Practical, psychological methods to turn your thoughts into reality, i...

From Felon to Mentor: Ken Miller's Journey ***HIGHLIGHTS*** 18.09.2025

From Addiction to Entrepreneur: Ken Miller's Inspiring Journey Hear the full conversation at https://player.captivate.fm/episode/73428ea9-244c-473c-ab9f-63f9144490a9/ See the full conversation at https://youtu.be/fZy3UJpjDII In this episode of Social Skills Coaching, join us as we dive into the incredible story of Ken Miller, a three-time convicted felon turned successful entrepreneur and mentor....

Integrating Fun for Growth: Jolynn Ledgerwood on Playful Practices ***HIGHLIGHTS*** 15.09.2025

Unlock Productivity with Play: A Conversation with Jolyn Ledgerwood See the full converstaion at https://youtu.be/VleRbyL5L0Q Join us on Social Skills Coaching as we delve into an insightful conversation with Jolyn Ledgerwood, a consultant, coach, and founder of Elevate Your Talent. Discover how Jolyn transitioned from corporate training to personal coaching, using innovative methodologies like Le...

Unlocking Potential: Mentorship, Coaching, and Personal Growth ***HIGHLIGHTS from Sonya Figueiredo*** - The Science of Self 06.09.2025

Unlocking Deeper Connections & Overcoming Trauma with Sonya Figueiredo See the full conversation at https://youtu.be/JFLM-8xD07Y In this insightful episode of The Science of Self, host Russell interviews Sonya Figueiredo, founder of Mindful Transitions. Sonya shares her personal journey that led her to start her coaching business, focusing on professional women in the corporate world. She emph...

Thinking Beyond Intuition: Unpacking System 1 and System 2 Thinking 04.09.2025

00:00:25 Welcome to Social Skills Coaching 00:00:37 Our featured book today is Practical Intelligence 00:05:05 Two Systems of Thought 00:08:25 Skepticism and critical thinking 00:16:30 Takeaways Practical Intelligence: How to Think Critically, Deconstruct Situations, Analyze Deeply, and Never Be Fooled By Patrick King Hear it Here - https://bit.ly/practicalintelligenceking https://www.amazon.com/d...

Transformative Wellness: From Self-Care to Other Care ***HIGHLIGHTS from Iuri Melo*** - The Science of Self 29.08.2025

Finding Joy through Helping Others: Insights from Iuri Melo on Wellness and Prevention See the full conversation at https://youtu.be/S8-vJTRqQHw In this episode, Iuri Melo, a licensed clinical social worker and co-founder of School Pulse, shares valuable insights on improving wellness through 'other care' and proactive prevention. He discusses the impactful journey of creating School Pulse in resp...

🤯 **Unlock Your Mind's Potential: Riddles That Will BLOW YOUR MIND! (Learn To Think Using Riddles by Patrick King)** 28.08.2025

00:01:16 Chapter 2. Situational Riddles 00:02:23 The Man in the Bar 00:06:14 Death in a Field 00:10:10 An Unusual Birth 00:13:49 Adam and Eve 00:16:44 A Woman Shoots her Husband 00:23:06 Takeaway Learn to Think Using Riddles, Brain Teasers, and Wordplay: Develop a Quick Wit, Think More Creatively and Cleverly, and Train your Problem-Solving instincts By Patrick King Hear it Here - https://bit.ly/u...

From Sleepwalking to Self-Awareness: Life Lessons with Cary Prejean ***HIGHLIGHTS*** - The Science of Self 24.08.2025

Discover Your Inner Satisfaction with Cary Prejean | The Science of Self Podcast See the full conversation at https://youtu.be/9Eva0A2oKRI In this episode of 'The Science of Self,' we welcome Cary Prejean, an experienced business consultant and CPA, to talk about personal satisfaction and growth. Cary shares his journey from the financial world to coaching business owners on doubling profits and s...

The Single Most Important Social Skill You Need Now 22.08.2025

00:03:33 A 2009 paper by Aram and Aviram 00:04:11 A 2014 Journal of Applied Social Psychology article by Capozza 00:09:38 Tip 1: Choose Your Fiction Wisely 00:11:10 Tip 2: Sample Widely 00:12:52 Tip 3: Read ACTIVELY 00:15:39 Tip 4: Be Discerning Train Your Empathy: How to Cultivate the Single Most Important Relationship Skill By: Patrick King Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/3shIydQ https://www.amaz...

Endless Possibilities: Unlocking the Growth Mindset with Dr. Carmen Bell-Ross ***HIGHLIGHTS*** - The Science of Self 17.08.2025

The Mindset of Lifelong Learning with Dr. Carmen Bell See the full conversation at https://youtu.be/v9nuF6CBdic In this episode of The Science of Self, host Russell welcomes Dr. Carmen Bell to discuss the importance of maintaining a mindset of continuous learning and growth throughout life. Dr. Carmen shares insights on professional and personal development, emphasizing the value of always being o...

Overcome Insecurity and Boost Self-Esteem 13.08.2025

00:02:14 Chapter 2. Core Beliefs and Automatic Thoughts 00:05:15 Where Lack of Confidence Comes 00:13:31 See if you can notice any of these patterns in your own thinking 00:23:27 Takeaway The Confidence Formula: May Cause: Lower Self-Doubt, Higher Self-Esteem, and Comfort In Your Own Skin (Be Confident and Fearless Book 8) By: Patrick King Hear it Here - https://bit.ly/ConfidenceFormulaKing https:...

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