Susan Feldman and Phyllis Berger
So When Do I Take My Clothes Off?
We’re women who never stopped talking, questioning, debating — and occasionally challenging one another — about how to keep moving forward. We still love gathering, laughing, and talking things through, often with a glass of wine in hand, trying to make sense of what life has taught us so far… and what we’re still figuring out. Because the truth is , life doesn’t come with instructions — and the questions don’t stop just because you’ve lived a little. Which brings us to the title. So When Do I Take My Clothes Off? isn’t really about sex (though that may come up). It’s a metaphor for those mome...
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Jun 28, 2026
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Shelley Zallis: The Power of Community 28.06.2026 33:56
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Monica Corcoran: Women Are "Quietly Quitting" Their Marriages 21.06.2026 46:09
In this episode, we sit down with journalist and author Monica Corcoran to discuss the conversation sparked by her viral article about women who are quietly leaving their marriages without actually getting divorced. What begins as a conversation about marriage quickly expands into a thoughtful look at emotional labor, evolving relationships, friendship, identity, and why so many women are redefini...
Is It Ever Too Late for Therapy? 14.06.2026 23:24
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Paulina Porizkova: Finding Love Again After Loss 07.06.2026 44:58
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Nate Berkus: Make Your Home Reflect Who You Are Now 31.05.2026 55:06
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Putting My Phone Down and Being Present 24.05.2026 24:27
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Wendy Finerman (Producer, The Devil Wears Prada): Trust Yourself 17.05.2026 41:23
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What Would We Tell Our Younger Selves? With Our Daughters, Jenna and Jackie 10.05.2026 38:18
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Dr. Deborah Blacker: Brain Health and Alzheimer's 03.05.2026 49:04
Alzheimer’s is something so many people are affected by, yet so few truly understand until it touches their own life. In today’s episode, we’re breaking it all down—what it is, how it progresses, and answering the questions so many people have but don’t always know how to ask. We also talk about the quiet anxiety that can come with getting older, including wondering what’s normal, what’s not, and...
Sound Bite 12: How a Little Act of Kindness Made Someone's Dream Come True 29.04.2026 7:24
What if a simple conversation with a stranger could change someone’s life? In this mini episode, we share the story of a chance encounter on a flight: what started as someone just deciding to remove their AirPods to chat ended with a man fulfilling his life-long dream inspired by Frank Sinatra. It got us thinking about how often we default to distraction, and how small acts—starting a conversation...
Marci and Lynn: Dating After 50 and Opening Your Heart Again 26.04.2026 41:34
Today, we're explore the question that inspired our podcast: So when do I take my clothes off? However, the real question is much deeper: When do we let ourselves be seen again? We’re joined by Marcy Dinkins and Lynn Williams, two women navigating dating after 50 following the loss of their husbands. Through very different journeys, they share what it’s really like to re-enter the dating world—awk...
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Bobbi Brown: Embracing Beauty Without Chasing Youth and Feeling Beautiful As You Are 19.04.2026 38:50
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Sound Bite 10: Having A Lonely Day? Here’s What I Did 15.04.2026 6:43
When your schedule suddenly clears and it feels a little off, it can breed a quiet kind of loneliness we often don't talk about. In this mini episode, we reflect on how a simple, unplanned weekend became a reminder of how powerful small moments of connection can be. From quick errands to brief conversations, even the tiniest interactions can shift your mood and bring you back to yourself. If you’r...
Barbara Corday: Telling My Best Friend I Have Alzheimer's 12.04.2026 28:49
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Sound Bite 9: A Little Thank You Goes a Long Way 08.04.2026 5:08
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Stacy London: Style, Visibility & Dressing for Who I am Now 05.04.2026 48:41
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Sound Bite 8: And Suddenly... I'm 76?! 01.04.2026 5:23
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