Susan Feldman and Phyllis Berger

So When Do I Take My Clothes Off?

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We’re women who never stopped talking, questioning, debating — and occasionally challenging one another — about how to keep moving forward. We still love gathering, laughing, and talking things through, often with a glass of wine in hand, trying to make sense of what life has taught us so far… and what we’re still figuring out. Because the truth is , life doesn’t come with instructions — and the questions don’t stop just because you’ve lived a little. Which brings us to the title. So When Do I Take My Clothes Off? isn’t really about sex (though that may come up). It’s a metaphor for those mome...

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Susan Feldman and Phyllis Berger

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Sound Bite 4: Regret 04.03.2026 7:54

Looking back on our lives, there are so many different paths we could have taken at different points in time. Is it normal to feel a twang of regret about our past decisions as we age? How do we prevent having 'should've, could've, and would've' feelings? This podcast is proudly sponsored by Caddis, eyewear designed for people who see life clearly at every age. Use code "SOWHENDOI20" at checkout t...

The Intricacies of Female Friendship: Why Does It Still Feel Like Junior High School? 01.03.2026 19:21

Welcome back to another episode of So When Do I Take My Clothes Off? Today, we’re doing a deep dive into the intricacies of female friendships. Do friendships get easier as we age? Do we really not care what other people think about us?  It turns out, there’s actually a biological reason that social rejection affects us so deeply. So, how do we flip the narrative when we don’t feel included i...

Sound Bite 3: Just Say Yes! 25.02.2026 2:42

It's my daughter's 35th birthday, and she is celebrating by taking a quick trip to Paris for the weekend. It might sound crazy to go visit another continent for only a weekend, but it got us thinking... why not? At any age, sometimes you just have to say yes! This podcast is proudly sponsored by Caddis, eyewear designed for people who see life clearly at every age. Use code "SOWHENDOI20" at checko...

Dr. Suzanne Gilberg-Lenz: When Do I Start Taking Hormones? 22.02.2026 46:23

It seems like everybody is talking about taking hormones these days. Is there a right time to start? Should all women entering menopause even take hormones? Today, we’re sitting down with an expert on hormones, Dr. Suzanne Gilberg-Lenz, to answer all our questions. Dr. Suzanne is not only a board-certified OB-GYN, certified menopause practitioner, and the co-author of Menopause Bootcamp , but she...

Sound Bite 2: A Little Reminder to Proofread Your Texts 18.02.2026 1:36

We hope today's mini episode reminds you that it's normal for your adult children to mock you (lovingly) and to proofread your text messages a bit more carefully... This podcast is proudly sponsored by Caddis, eyewear designed for people who see life clearly at every age. Use code "SOWHENDOI20" at checkout to enjoy 20% until 5/16/26. Don’t forget to follow for more: > Instagram: https://www.ins...

Ali Wentworth: Using Humor to Cope with Tough Times 12.02.2026 34:33

Everyone says laughter is the best medicine… But is it really better than botox for us aging women? Today, we’re talking all about using humor to deal with tough times with Ali Wentworth.  You might know Ali from her appearances on In Living Color or The Tonight Show with Jay Leno , or you may have read one of her five New York Times bestselling books. Maybe you know her as “Shmoopie” from Se...

Sound Bite 1: How do you really feel about aging? 11.02.2026 3:34

In this mini episode, we're being honest about how we are feeling about aging. Of course, aging is a privilege, but as the number grows, our perspective of time starts to shift a little bit. So if you're suddenly feeling the same way, you're not alone. Tune in for a small tidbit on how we can we stay optimistic and embrace everything that has yet to come. Don’t forget to follow for more: > Inst...

So When Do I… Start Something New? 01.02.2026 22:16

Welcome to the first episode of So When Do I Take My Clothes Off?, a place for women to feel connected as we navigate new stages of life. Today, we're reflecting on moments where we felt inspired to start something new, whether it’s a creative hobby, sport, or entrepreneurial endeavor—just like creating this podcast.  Together, we'll recount stories through laughs, a couple tears, and shared...

So When Do I Take My Clothes Off? And Other Questions Girlfriends Ponder… 27.01.2026 5:45

Welcome to So When Do I Take My Clothes Off , a podcast where we talk about love, confidence, reinventing yourself at any age and all the questions that start with “So when do I…?” When do I take hormones? When do I stop obsessing about my weight? When do I finally kick my grown adult kids off the cellphone plan? And, yes, I just started dating again… When do I take my clothes off? We all need the...