Sluts and Scholars

Welcome back to another season! This time around we are doing things a little differently. I am going to be doing monthly themes; sort of like mini seasons. This episode kicks off our Back to the Basics month of September. In this episode, I have two guests: Somatic Sex Educator Cosmo Meens and Sexological Bodyworker Melissa D. of BodyJoy Intimacy School. We talk about navigating desire, sensual r...

Strap in for some strap on information with Sex and Pleasure Educator Luna Matatas. In this season finale episode, we talk about pegging, anal play, cunnilingus, eating ass, and why it is so hard to just recieve pleasure. Nicoletta also goes on for too long (or not long enough?) about the intersection of Taco Bell and sex.    Events: - Sexpert event with Nicoletta:  https:// sexpertconsultants.com...

This episode welcomes actress, mental health advocate, and podcast host of EmotionAl Support. We talk about living with and navigating Bipolar Disorder as well as equine assisted therapy, acting, medication, and more.    Ads: Event with Nicoletta:  https://sexpertconsultants. com/tickets   Like A Kitten: 15% off AND free shipping when you go to LikeAKitten.com/sands   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram...

Therapist and newly published author Kate Loree returns for a part two on opening up relationships. She gives us a deeper peak into her new book Open Deeply; we talk about how to create more compassion in relationships, non-monogamy with mood or personality disorders, individuality versus intimacy, and some common pitfalls of opening up relationships, as well as successes and opportunities for gro...

This episode features therapist and wellness speaker and educator Alyssa "Lia" Mancao of Alyssa Marie Wellness. We talk about EMDR, decolonizing beauty, perfectionism, and more.    Ads: 15% off and free shipping  www. LikeAKitten.com/ SandS   Lia:   https://www. alyssamariewellness.com/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to:  SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com...

In this episode we talk about the specialization of sexual medicine with Dr. Lisa Valle, founder of Oasis Women's Sexual Function Center. We discuss when and why to go to a sexual medicine specialist, some common diagnoses and treatments, the potential limitations of general OBGYN care, and what you can do to improve your sexual functioning and health.    Ads :    - Everlywell is offering a specia...

This episode is a two-parter with Cami and Niki of the Double Teamed podcast. We talk about twinship (and why people love twins), nature versus nurture, reverse harem erotica, and knives (sexy or not?). Want more? Tune in for Part two on the Double Teamed podcast.   Ads: - 15 % off and FREE shipping www. LikeAKitten.com/SandS - Extended 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/sands   Do...

Dr. Jess O'Reilly is an acclaimed international sex educator, author, and podcaster. This episode we talk about core erotic feelings, sexual values, "laziness" in relationships, and even why you shouldn't JIC (just in case) pee!   Dr. Jess: https://www.sexwithdrjess.com/   Book mentioned:  https://www.amazon. com/Laziness-Exist-Devon- Price-Ph-D/dp/1982140100   Past episode on pelvic floor therapy...

Rachel Steele pioneered the MILF niche as America's Mom. In this episode we talk about the popularity and taboo of incest porn, being a good Mommy (and a Mom), relational age disparities, grief, fantasies, ageism, and more. Happy Mother's Day!   Ads: 15% off and free shipping:  www. LikeAKitten.com/ SandS   Rachel Steele: https://rachel-steele.com/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send ques...

This episode welcomes back Vanessa Marin, who has now teamed up with her awesome partner Xander to become the dream duo for partnered sex and relationship advice. The three of us talk about farting and pooping in front of partners (are you for or against?), mental loads, trying new things in the bedroom, how to come back to the moment when you get distracted during sex, and more.  Check them out:...

Come learn about love tech with Lovewick app founder Ali Maggioncalda . We talk about how to work on your relationship by staying committed to curiosity. We even answer some of the questions on the Lovewick cards about our own sexual and relational preferences. Also included: sologamy, aftercare, and Zelda!   Ads: 15 % off and free shipping www. LikeAKitten.com/SandS   Lovewick: https://www.lovewi...

This episode feautures clinical sexologist, sex coach, and author Cyndi Darnell. We talk all about how to have more pleasure through erotic embodiment.   Ads: Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/sands   Cyndi:  https://cyndidarnell. com/   Cyndi's Journal Articles:   https:// cyndidarnell.com/published- works/ FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send...

This week I am joined by Rachel Facio & Stacey Sherrell, the duo behind Decoding Couples. We talk about the silliest fights we've had with our partners (and what they were actually about), fighting fairly, best and worst things to do during a disagreement, initiating and declining sex, and some fun facts with Dino Nuggets and Petey Pablo (you'll understand when you listen).    Ads: 15% off AND fre...

This episode features Dr. Mitchell Tepper- sexuality researcher, educator, filmmaker, and coach. We talk about his documentary Love After War: Saving Love, Saving Lives, which tells the stories of intimate partners who have won the battle for love. We also cover spinal cord injuries and pleasure as well PTSD, different kinds of disabilities and how they affect sex and relationships.   The Doc: htt...

This week I am joined by internationally renowned author, counselor, and speaker Michaela Boehm. We talk about erotic archetypes,  listening to our bodies, and her  Non-Linear Movement Method® , a somatic release modality which utilizes principles of trauma therapy, polyvagal theory and movement for nervous system regulation (with a demo!).   Ads: 15% off AND free shipping when you go to LikeAKitt...

In this episode, I co-host with burlesque icon and past guest Michelle L'amour! This episode is actually PART TWO of a bonus feature about pleasure in honor of our upcoming event InToPleasure (on April 2) and features 2022 Sexpert of the Year Amy Baldwin from the podcast Shameless Sex. You can catch part 1 on Shameless Sex wherever you get your podcasts.   event:  https://intopleasure.com/   FOLLO...

This week The Funny Dom returns to answer listener questions. These questions range from tips for the beginner kinkster to ideas for the seasoned player. We cover how to meet kinky people, how to vet potential partners, how to get started into kink/ bdsm play, DDLG fun in public and private, getting in touch with your inner child, handling jealousy, and why jelly beans are hot. If somehow none of...

Did you want to hear more about Jessica's relationship from last weeks episode? I certainly did! This week features Jessica and her partner Lauren. They talk about how an accidental threesome turned into a beautiful polyamorous love story and shared business. We discuss how to negotiate threesomes in and out of the bedroom, how to manage multiple partners, jealousy, goddess retreats, loving women,...

This week I am joined by Jessica Esfandiary, retreat leader and host of the Open Late podcast. We talk about how an accidental threesome turned into polyamory. We also discuss how to work through opening up your relationship, falling in love again (with yourself and others), hysterectomies, vaginal health, and more.    Ads:  65% off Beducated's yearly pass http://beducate.me/sands Extended 30 day...

Ifetayo Harvey of the POC Psychedelic Collective joins in for a conversation about psychedelic assisted therapies as well as her own experience with the war on drugs and plant medicine. We cover drug policy reform, cultural roots of psychedelic medicine, harm reduction, and Ifetayo's own healing experiences.   Ads: - Join me at my upcoming event IntoPleasure: https://intopleasure.com/ - Like A Kit...

Bex Caputo is a sex educator, blogger, speaker, podcaster, and professional pervert. We talk about how to get more comfortable and confident with sexting, "dirty" talk, and erotica.   Ads: - Check out Lioness.io for some amazing technology! You can even enter to win a free Lioness on my Instagram  https://www.instagram.com/tv/ CaEEqgLF2iU/?utm_source=ig_ web_copy_link - Upcoming IntoPleasure: A Pl...

Goddexx Daphne (They/She/Daddy) is a Pro Dominatrix and FemDom clip creator in Portland, Oregon. As a queer Domme, Daphne enjoys embodying the role of a Femme Daddy and playing with submissives, or subs, of all genders. We talk about Daddy culture, different types of consensual non-consent (including something called coerced bisexual), using BDSM to work through sexual shame, and more.    Ads: - L...

Challenging the status quo of the media, medical field, and internal belief systems about the identities of those living with a sexually transmitted infection, Courtney and his organization Something Positive for Positive People are bringing awareness to the interconnectedness of mental health and sexual health. We talk about herpes and other STI's, how to negotiate sexual play, and how to deal wi...

Welcome back to a new season! This episode focuses on surrogate partner therapy, sexological body work, and somatic sex coaching.   Ads: - 20% off and free shipping  www. LikeAKitten.com/SandS - Extended 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/sands   Court Vox:  https://thebodyvox.com/   Back to the Body:  https://backtothebody.org/   Squirm:  https://www.everybodysquirm. com/   FOLLOW...

Ian Ferguson is a Master Trainer of the Erotic Blueprint™ Methodology and co-founder of Jaiya, Inc., a company dedicated to radically transforming how society discusses and experiences sex. You may have seen them on Sex, Love, and Goop. Tune in to learn more about your blueprint and bust the myth of sexual compatibility.  https://missjaiya.com/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send question...