Sluts and Scholars

Keeley is a sex and relationship coach. She works with individuals and partners who want to embrace their innate desires, build sexual confidence, and fully realize their sexual potential. In this episode, we talk about how to prepare for sex clubs, sex parties, and sexy events. We cover how to find the right event as well as emotional, physical, and relational considerations for before, during, a...

In this episode, I interview Kevin Patterson, author of Love's Not Color Blind and Educator with Unf*ck Your Polyamory. We talk about compassion, freedom, and control in non-monogamy, polyamorous weddings, race and non-monogamous spaces, pitfalls in long-term polyamory, communication skills, and more!    Ads:  -  Dipsea  is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/sa...

In this episode, I talk with Somatic Sex Therapist Tallulah Sulis about sexological bodywork and somatic sex therapy/ education. We discuss what it is, who it is for, and how it helps. We also discuss Tantra, female ejaculation, and provide some ways to prepare the whole body for more pleasure.    Ads: Manscaped: Get 20% off and free shipping with our code SCHOLARS at Manscaped.com   Featured trai...

This episode features professional Dominatrix Colette Pervette. We talk about her spiritual approach to the art of kink, what kink and psychedelics have in common, how to find your inner Dom, electroplay, heartache, pain, power, and of course- pleasure!    Ads:  - Dipsea: For listeners of the show, Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/sands -  Stop thro...

Is everyone a little bit trans? Can gender change over time? Guest Jacob Tobia   (they/them) is an actor, writer, producer, and author of the national bestselling memoir  Sissy: A Coming-of-Gender Story .  In this episode, we talk all about the nuances of gender from sissy play to Harry Styles.    Ads: -    Enjoy porn you can learn from. Use XOSCHOLARS and get a seven-day free trial at  https://af...

Guest Ginger Banks has been involved in the adult entertainment industry for the past 14 years. This episode covers a lot of ground… and space! We talk about how to challenge systemic issues in the adult industry while destigmatizing sex work, sex worker rights, empathy, Ron Jeremy,  redefining "normal," and even some fun with psychedelics and aliens!   Ads: Green Chef: Go to GreenChef.com/scholar...

This week I am joined by the hosts of the podcast CockTales: Dirty Discussions. We talk about airport sex, Valentine's Day, self love, cheating, and more!    Ads:  - Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/sands. - Enjoy porn you can learn from. Use code XOSCHOLARS and get a seven-day free trial at https://afterglow.ubpages.com/ xoscholars/   Check out Coc...

Welcome back to a new season of the podcast! This first episode features Lila; she is an intimacy specialist, writer, actress, public speaker, curator, and host of the hit podcasts Horizontal with Lila and Positively Sex! We talk about intimacy, loneliness, keeping desire alive, and what to do if you get distracted during sex.   Ads: - Get 20% off with promo code Scholars at whatdoyoumeme.com/lets...

This is the final episode of the season! I chat with sex therapist, educator, and author Yana Tallon-Hicks. We talk about keeping things sexy while being a parent, co-parenting, ENM and Kink while parenting, postpartum depression, good enough sex, and more!    Ads: - $10 off of my retreat on 2/4-5 using code Pleasure at  https:// thepleasureconnection. eventbrite.com/ - The Desire Summit on 2/11 ...

This week I am joined by the co-founder and CEO of Soulfire Productions podcast network, Kelli Moore. We talk all about pregnancy and sexuality including: infertility, IVF, sex and desire while pregnant, non-monogamy and pregnancy, hormones, and more. Tune in to find out what happens when Kelli tries to have a four-way for the first time while pregnant.   Kelli:  https://kellimoore.co/   FOLLOW US...

This episode features Samantha Zipporah, a fertility, sex, and cycle educator, author, & activist. We cover the womb continuum from fertilitily awareness methods, to the history of abortion, contraception, hormones, births, and more.   Ads: Check out and/ or advertise with the Pleasure Podcast Network:   https://www.pleasurepodcasts. com/   Samantha:  https://www. samanthazipporah.com/   FOLLOW US...

In this episode, I chat with performer, producer, intimacy coordinator, and sex work consultant and activist Lotus Lain. We talk about pleasure, consent, voyeurism, types of porn, how sex work is portrayed in media, and sex work and parenting.    Ads:  - Dipsea: For listeners of the show, Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/SANDS - Rocket Money: Get ri...

This episode is about sex and relationships during grief. I talk with Life Coach, grief expert, and podcaster Krista St-Germain about losing her partner, different theories on grief, sexuality and relationships after loss, "wid-hoes," post traumatic growth, and more.    Ad:  Back to the Body Portal Event:  https://backtothebody.org/ events/permission/ https://backtothebody.org/   Krista:   https:/...

This week's guest is Dr. Tara of Luvbites. She is a sex and relationship expert, tenured professor, TED speaker, award-winning researcher, and published author. We talk about her personal experiences with Psilocybin and Ayahuasca and how plant medicine has been healing and life changing for her (sex) life.    Ads:  - Back to the Body:  https://backtothebody. org/events/permission - Rocket Money: G...

Remember this season we are doing new themes each month, and November's theme is sex and culture. This month will highlight Some of the many ways that sex fits into our broader experiences, relationships, and life. We will be covering topics around social values, spirituality, music, psychedelics, and more. This week features somatic pleasure coach and sex and intimacy educator Irene Morning. We t...

Welcome to another month of the pod! Remember this season we are doing new themes each month and November's theme is sex and culture. This month will highlight some of the many ways that sex fits into our broader experiences, relationships, and life. This first episode features author and Somatic Wellness Coach Pamela Madsen, founder of Back to the Body Inc. We talk about sacred intimacy, sexologi...

This episode features columnist, sex expert, and activist Zachary Zane. We talk about his new book Boysl*t, the frequency of anal douching, bisexuality and pansexuality, what it means to be a sl*t, "casual" sex, and more. Zachary even reads a really steamy erotic story...   Ads:   Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/SANDS. FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram...

This episode features International Pleasure Coach and Sexpert Tyomi Morgan, better known as Glamazon Tyomi. We talk about shower sex, best positions for oral, how to ride and stroke better, sex furniture, and more. GiddyUp!     Ads:  - Start creating deeper intimacy with Coral at https://mycoral.co/SandS - 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at  CALM.COM/SandS   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Faceb...

ASMR Daddy returns to chat about all of the things: breeding kinks (especially with the curent state of abortion rights), vasectomies, bodily fluids, semen art, public sex, praise kinks, what makes great sex, and more!   Ads: - 15% off of an OG Flow at Tracysdog.com  - Visit mycoral.co/sands to download Coral and begin creating deeper  intimacy with yourself and/or your partner today   ASMR Daddy:...

This week I am joined by Dr. Anna Randall and Kaylie Engel of TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities  Health  Research Alliance). As champions of Kink competent healthcare, TASHRA supports empirical research on this misunderstood and often pathologized sexual-minority. We talk about research on Kink and BDSM, talking to your healthcare providers about alternative sexualities, Kink in the media, and m...

This episode features Monika, the owner and founder of Twisted Intimacy, which is a combo of sexual health and body movement techniques. Monika is a certified Sexual Health Professional from Indiana University, a certified Twerk Technician, and a certified 1.0 Liquid Motion Instructor. We talk about intimacy and how sensual movement can change your (sex) life.  Spoiler: even if you think you aren'...

This week continues our Back to the Basics theme of September with Reba C. Thomas, aka Reba the Diva. She is a sex and pleasure educator and cannabis advocate. We talk about the importance of a pleasure practice, pleasure as an act of resistance, "good girl" conditioning, cannabis and parenthood, and how to feel more deserving of pleasure as a human right.     Ad: OMG Yes is offering 10% off at OM...

On this third week of our back to the basics month, I chat with Erin Tillman. She is a Certified Intimacy Coordinator, Certified Sex Educator, inclusive Dating & Consent Empowerment Coach, Author, Speaker, and Media Personality based in LA. She is also the current Executive Director of sexuality nonprofit Sex-Positive Los Angeles. We talk about intimacy coordination (what it is and how it works) a...

I am joined this week by Dr. Nazanin Moali, sex therapist and host of the Sexology Podcast. We talk about what it means to be "good" at sex, mixed orientation couples, shame induced pelvic pain, sexual boredom, and what exactly sex therapists do and how being a sex therapist impacts our love lives. For Part 1 where Dr. Nazanin interviews me, check out her show this week!    Ads:  Calm app: 40% off...

This bonus episode features my co-hosts for an upcoming partnered retreat: The Pleasure Connection (happening Sept 24-25th at a private ranch in Malibu). We talk about how to create and maintain connection, what gets in the way of connecting, and some delicious teasers for the event.     The event:  https://thepleasureconnection. eventbrite.com/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questio...