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Life is already tough as it is sis. Don’t make it harder, by criticizing yourself. Criticizing your looks, your thoughts, your decisions…let it go. Allow yourself to just be yourself. Sometimes people, family, and even friends will say something to you, that will make you question who you are. The things that they say will make you question yourself, and who you’ve decided to be. But there is no v...

There is more to your life than what you’ve already seen sis. Sometimes we get so focused on our day to day, our to do lists, and responsibilities that we forget to look at the bigger picture, that is our life. There is so much more to who you are, there is more of what you will do, more of what you will see, and more of what you will experience. You are not here by chance sis. Just like the stars...

You can make 100 plans and have 100 things to do, but that means nothing if you don’t have your priorities together. The year is coming to an end, and now is the time (before the turkey & the holiday shopping of course) to sit down and think about what you want the next 12 months of your life to look like. A lot can happen in a year sis, but only if you make your dreams, goals and ambitions a prio...

Your life can sometimes be just like a puzzle: some pieces are together in one corner, and a a few pieces together in another. But there’s still a pile of things that you haven’t connected yet, pieces that are still in the box. In life, when you take a leap of faith, and follow your heart – the results don’t happen right away, you can’t see the full picture. Sometimes we find ourselves in a waitin...

When you find yourself living in a dream you once had, or you’ve accomplished a huge goal, it can be both beautiful & ugly sometimes. Everything in life has a price boo, and we’re not just talking about dollars and cents. The life you want to have, you will have to pay for it in some way. And sometimes that price can feel very expensive. But don’t get it twisted sis….just because it’s expensive do...

The words you speak to others and most importantly to yourself, have power sis. The things you say out loud have the power to make you or break you, and you have to be mindful about what you speak. The words that you speak become the house that you live in, and if you wake up speaking from an awful, negative, ugly place – then that is where your mind will stay. If you wake up, and speak of all the...

Hold on to that vision of yours sis, like your life depends on it. The vision you have for yourself, for your future, for your family – hold on to it, and do not ever let it go. Even if your vision seems impossible. The thing about impossible, is that it only seems impossible until it’s done. But if you put in the time, and put out the focus…anything is possible sis. Literally….anything. It’s Offi...

Never settle for anything, just because it’s available sis. If you settle for less than what you rightfully deserve, then you will get less than what you rightfully deserve. Whether you are choosing to be single, in a relationship, married or divorced – it is still a journey. And sometimes other people won’t understand that journey. But sis, hold on to your values. Hold on to your worth. Hold on t...

Contrary to popular belief, your confidence can not be purchased sis. You can not find your confidence in the makeup aisle at Sephora. It can not be found in your likes and views on your social media. Confidence isn’t in what other people think about you, but most importantly how you think about yourself. It’s about how beautiful YOU think you are. It’s about how smart YOU think you are, or capabl...

A blessing can change your life in the most beautiful way, but sometimes blessings…can be heavy sis. Often times the big opportunities, the moments that change our lives, the blessings that we work for – don’t look so good in the beginning. We think that these opportunities and moments will make our lives feel good immediately, and everything will make sense, and all will be aligned. But most time...

Worrying will get you nowhere boo. Worrying will have you spinning your wheels, trying to solve a problem that you may not even have to solve. Calm down boo….rest your mind. There’s a chance that what you’re worried about might happen. But there’s also an even greater chance that it wont. Intrusive thoughts have the power to ruin your day…and even your life if you let them. Don’t let your thoughts...

Sometimes it feels like we are going to break, right before a breakthrough. Often times right before everything starts to come together, it feels like your world is coming apart. Today, we just wanted to remind you that it’s okay. One day, you’ll look back and be glad that you didn’t stop. If you’ve been feeling down and out, ready to throw in the towel on what you’ve been working towards, and jus...

Some of you are still waiting to move forward with your ideas, out of fear that it won’t happen the way that you want it to. Some of you are holding back on your plans, because you want it to be perfect before you get started. We’re not the experts, but sis…you can’t be a NY Times Bestseller – without a first draft…you know? You can’t be an Oscar winning actress, without a first audition. Those ar...

You have to be super mindful about not just the things that make you happy, but even more mindful about the things that don’t. Protecting your peace, gives you a peace of mind sis. What good is achieving your goals and dreams if you don’t have the peace to enjoy them? What good is getting a bag, if you don’t have the peace to enjoy it? Some of us are working hard and finally starting to make moves...

You can’t control what happens next, but you can do your best to be prepared for it. Planning for your life, your business, and even your family is just preparation. Preparing for the things you want to happen, and sometimes preparing for the things that you don’t. Anything can happen, and there is always a chance that it will…but your plans, keep you prepared, in the event that they do. What plan...

It’s a lot going on in the world right now, or maybe it’s a lot going on in your life and it’s easy to feel hopeless. But no matter what’s happening to and around you, make a decision to get up, and get yours anyway sis. You make the decision for what comes next in your life. You make the decision for how you want to move forward. Do not let people, family, friends, society, or whoever dictate the...

The more you work, the more progress you make. But also, the closer you get to burning out. You can’t always be “on” sis. You are not a machine. Sometimes being unproductive is just as important as being productive, and this week we’re showing you how. No matter what’s on your plate, no matter how many responsibilities you have or the number of your to do lists – you deserve to rest. You can’t kee...

Remember 12 year old you? What you looked like? What you struggled with? Before you start beating yourself up today about how you’re not getting anywhere in life, or mad at yourself because you don’t feel like you’re making progress and your life is going nowhere – remember your 12 year old self. Believe it or not, you’re doing much better than you think you are sis. If you take a minute and remin...

The reality is, bad things happen sis. Sometimes they happen to us, and sometimes they happen around us. But it’s our job to not let it get the best of us. Do not let bad situations, bad people, bad experiences, ruin the very good that is you. If you are still here, there is still time to love the people who love you, create the things you want to create, dream what you want to dream, and go to th...

Sometimes the situations you find yourself in, and the outcomes you’re waiting for will happen the way that they are supposed to happen, and when they are supposed to happen. That means that there will be moments of your life where you can only do what you can do – and the rest is no longer up to you boo. A lot of us are trying to control things that we have no power in controlling. But instead of...

The friends that you have today, may not be the friends that you have tomorrow. As you evolve and change, the people around you evolve and change too – and sometimes they don’t grow in the same directions that you’re growing. It can be tough making new friends as an adult, but you set the standards for your life…even within your friendships. We all have experienced jealousy, competition, and “weir...

Some of you are sitting on some really dope ideas. Some of you have been wanting to step it up, and take your business to the next level. Take your projects and creativity to the next level. Take your life, to the next level. But you have not moved, because you are concerned with whether or not the world, your peers, your family, or your audience….will be pleased with what you do. But the reality...

A lot of us know, what will ultimately make us happy. We know the things that we need to do to bring us happiness…but because there’s so many steps, and so many changes that we have to make to get there…we put it off. Doing things that bring us joy can sometimes be an inconvenience. It takes time out of our day, and not a regular part of our schedules. But sis….happiness is a choice. Happiness is...

It’s okay to be disappointed that your life doesn’t look the way you thought it would by now. But never forget, we live life on our own terms sis. Not by the terms of your family. Not by the terms of your friends, and certainly not by the terms of society. Don’t feel bad because you haven’t checked all the “life boxes” that you thought you should have checked by now. No matter what age you are, no...

Did somebody say Season 5?! We’re back boo, and to say “we missed you” is an understatement. If you’ve ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, anxious about where your life was going, scared to take risks, or ever felt like you just couldn’t do what you’ve dreamt of doing – today’s season premiere was signed, sealed and delivered just for you. Not going to spoil this episode for you, but all we’ve got to sa...