Slay Girl Slay

If you’ve ever looked around at your friend group and wondered if these are really your people, this episode is for you. In this episode, Ashley talks about why friendships take intention as an adult and what it looks like to curate your circle like you curate your content. You’ll learn how to evaluate the friendships you have right now, how to ask if your friends match your goals and values, and...

Ashley is unpacking why a lot of people who win big end up right back where they started, and what that means for the goals you’re chasing right now. You’ll learn how your identity works like a thermostat, how to repeat new thoughts until they feel normal, and how to let go of the old patterns, people, and plans making it hard to hold on to what you worked for. ___ Giveaway alert! Active Ashmedia...

If you've been knocked down so many times you've started bracing for the next hit, this episode is for you. Ashley kicks off Season 9 by getting honest about a summer of curveballs that left her feeling further from who she planned to be, and why she's calling this a comeback season anyway. You'll learn how to quit looking over your shoulder when an opportunity shows up, how to tell when you're re...

If you are in a season where life just hit you with something you were not ready for, this episode will meet you right where you are. Ashley spins back one of her most powerful episodes, sharing how she processed one of the hardest weeks she had in recent memory, and why holding steady through the moments that knock the wind out of you is the only way through. You will be reminded that your feelin...

Before a new season begins, something has to be released, and this episode is your reminder of exactly that. Ashley pops on the mic between seasons to give you one powerful piece of homework before Season 9 kicks off — letting go of whatever, and whoever, is keeping you stuck so you can actually carry what God has next for you. She also shares a major update that makes everything she has been buil...

If you've ever felt like you failed, lost everything, or watched your dream take a completely different route than you planned, this episode will remind you that it's not over. Ashley spins back one of the most pivotal episodes in Slay Girl Slay history, sharing the raw, unfiltered story of losing her job, leaving LA, and choosing her dream in the middle of a pandemic with nothing but two suitcase...

This episode is a free session from the Ashmedia App designed to help you get radically clear on the life you actually want. Ashley guides you through a powerful writing experience with five prompts that push you past the edited, responsible version of your dreams and into the biggest, boldest, most audacious vision for your life. Grab your journal, find somewhere quiet, and give yourself 15 to 20...

If you've been throwing everything you have at your goals and still feel like nothing is sticking, this one is for you. Ashley spins back one of the earliest episodes of Slay Girl Slay to revisit a question that hits just as hard today as it did in 2018 — are you going to cry about it, or are you going to boss up? You'll be reminded that resilience isn't just about pushing through, it's about doin...

If you're in a season where nothing feels resolved and you can't force an answer no matter how hard you try, this episode was made for you. Ashley walks you through a guided affirmation practice centered around uncertainty, the uncomfortable middle, and learning to move forward in peace without having it all figured out. You'll leave with affirmations and scripture to anchor you when the waiting f...

Stop waiting for life to get better before you let yourself feel good — this episode is your reminder that joy is your birthright, not something you earn. Ashley gets vulnerable about her health journey this past season, what she learned about accepting hard things without losing herself, and why joy doesn't have to be on layaway until everything is figured out. If you've been holding your happine...

Healing is not linear, and this episode meets you wherever you are in it — whether that's the physical stuff your body is carrying or the emotional wound that never fully closed. Ashley leads you through a powerful set of affirmations for healing, backed by scripture to anchor you in truth and remind you that restoration is already happening, even when you can't feel it. Download the Ashmedia App...

The Ashmedia App is officially live and available to download for iOS users right now — and in this episode, Ashley breaks down everything you need to know. From mood-based episode coaching across all 8 seasons, to affirmations, exclusive video content, and ad-free listening, this is the next era of Slay Girl Slay built entirely around you and exactly what you need, when you need it. Download the...

After eight years and eight seasons, Ashley closes out Season 8 with the most personal finale yet, looking back at how Slay Girl Slay grew from a bedroom floor recording into one of the top podcasts in the country. She shares the quiet fear that's followed her the whole way: what if it all just fades away? But buried in an old 2018 journal, she finds something that changes everything about what co...

The gap between where you are and where you want to be isn't talent, timing, or resources — it's execution. In this episode, Ashley breaks down why self-trust is a skill you build, not a feeling you wait for, and what it actually looks like to bet on yourself. If you've been all vision board and no action, this episode is your wake up call. ⁠⁠Book your Summer Intensive 1:1 with Ashley here!!!⁠⁠ To...

Feeling like you keep ending up in the same place no matter how hard you try? That's not a coincidence, that's a test sis. In this episode, Ashley gets real about her own season of uncertainty and breaks down why some lessons in life keep showing up until we finally face them. You'll learn how to identify the test you're currently in, why execution is the only thing standing between you and the ne...

In this episode, Ashley gets honest about what it looks like to navigate fear and grief at the same time. After an unexpected loss in her family and some scary news of her own, she opens up about why feeling the hard thing and feeding the hard thing are not the same. This episode is about learning the difference between sitting with something hard and letting it consume you, and why the most chaot...

The way you talk about yourself, your life, and your circumstances is either building you up or breaking you down and most of us aren't even clocking it. In this episode, Ashley breaks down the science behind neuroplasticity, why your words are literally rewiring your brain every single day, and why science and faith have been saying the exact same thing all along. Today’s Sponsors: Use our code S...

Stop bracing for an impact that might not even be coming. Ashley breaks down why worry is just fiction you're writing about a future that doesn't exist yet, and why valid feelings and useful feelings are not the same thing. You'll learn how to catch yourself mid-spiral, how to stop living by imaginary deadlines, and why letting it come to you first might be the most powerful thing you can do for y...

Sometimes all you need to hear is "keep going." In this episode, Ashley shares a vulnerable moment that reminded her why she does what she does — and why those two words matter more than we realize. When you're deep in the middle of something you started, the results haven't shown up yet, and your inner critic is driving the car… this episode is for you. Interested in 1:1 coaching or a mentorship...

Get back in alignment, clear what’s been weighing you down, and step into habits that actually support the woman you’re becoming this spring! In this episode, Ashley shares her spring ins and outs to help you release what’s no longer serving you and realign your space, routines, and mindset in this new season. A fresh perspective on what to welcome in, what to leave behind, and how to move these n...

Stop feeling overwhelmed by everything on your plate by learning how to separate real problems from simple inconveniences and take back control of your energy. In this episode, Ashley break down how we unintentionally make life harder than it needs to be, how to “pick a struggle,” and why not everything deserves your full attention or emotional weight. If you’ve been anxious, stuck, or mentally dr...

Time isn't running out, it's passing, and that one shift in perspective changes everything about how you show up for yourself. In this episode Ashley breaks down why the season you're in right now is already working, even when it doesn't feel like it. You'll learn how to stop measuring where you are against where you think you should be, how to use your own past wins as proof for what's coming nex...

This episode will help you stop avoiding change and step into the next version of yourself with intention. Ashley unpacks why we say things like “I’m not ready” or “that’s not me,” and how those beliefs quietly keep us in comfort instead of growth. Through a real-life story and honest reflection, you’ll learn how to shift your mindset, move with change instead of resisting it, and take control bef...

Let's be honest, sometimes WE are the problem. Not your circumstances. Not your timing. You. In this episode, Ashley gets real about the sneaky ways we block our own blessings without even realizing it. Over-preparing instead of launching. Outsourcing your gut to everyone but yourself. Silencing your own desires in the name of gratitude. Sound familiar? This episode will help you shift your perspe...

Real confidence isn't something you borrow from other people's opinions — it's something you build by keeping promises to yourself. In this episode Ashley breaks down why external validation is fragile, and how self trust is the quiet foundation that holds everything else up. We're getting into the daily habits, the honest self audit, and the mindset shift that changes everything. Today’s Sponsors...