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When you don't know the answers to everything in your life, anything is possible in your life. When you feel lost and not sure about your next move, it can be frustrating. But it's okay to feel a little lost sometimes boo. Sometimes we know exactly what we want but we have no clue how or when we're going to get there. One thing is for sure, a season of uncertainty will always bring forth a season...

You may not be at the exact place you want to be in life right now, but you certainly aren't where you started. Sometimes we get so focused on the future that we forget to appreciate our past. It took a lot for you to get yourself to this moment in your life sis, and for that you should feel really proud. Remember where you came from sis, and do not ever forget where you started. Thanks To Today’s...

Stop telling everybody your business boo. Set some boundaries, and stop being vulnerable with people who do not deserve your vulnerability. You have to have discernment about who gets to experience the best parts of you. When you start sharing all of your personal business with people, you start involving them in things that they aren't even qualified to be involved in. Learn how to stand on your...

Although we'd all like to be wined & dined and for someone else to take care of us for the rest of our lives....the peace of mind you get when you have your own is unmatched sis. Whether that be your own place, your own car, your own bank account, your own opinions, your own ideas, and even your own identity. Something that no one can take away from you. Do not ever be out in these streets, and th...

We don't believe in coincidences sis. It is not by luck that you are here, doing your thing. Everything happens in life, for a specific time & a specific reason. There is always a plan at play. So when you find yourself in a season of getting blessing after blessing, or if you're in a tough season and just trying to figure it out. Remember...it was meant to happen, because you were meant to happen...

Stop waiting for a specific moment, time, or place in your life to feel special. Your party does not have to stop because there is no one there to celebrate. In every case, you will always be the best company you will ever have. So start treating yourself like you are the moment sis. Like you are the special occasion. You will see that the more you start treating yourself like you are the special...

A lot of us are getting overwhelmed when we try to focus on everything, all at the same time. Then we end up overthinking it, and end up doing nothing at all. But it's simple sis. If you could focus on one thing for the next 6 months to a year, what would life look like for you? The problem is, we're all in a hurry trying to get "there", and we're trying to run towards all the things we want to do...

This week we're answering more of your questions! Ashley gives some solid advice on how to get revenge on someone who has hurt you, cheating & infidelity, and letting go of trying to control others. She talks not spending so much time caring about what others think, and learning how to listen to your own voice as you create the life you want, and enjoying that life no matter what is happening arou...

Stop stressing boo. You do not have to have all the answers right now. Some parts of your life will make sense, and other parts still need work...and that's okay. Sometimes when we are in a season of searching, and we don't know what to do next we feel stuck, frustrated, and overwhelmed. But you have to take life one day at a time sis. Just keep doing the next best thing, for your job, your career...

Today's episode is hands down our favorite episode to date! In this very special episode, and for the first time ever on the podcast, Ashley is sitting down with her Dad. This podcast is the product of many questions and conversations Ashley has had over the years with her Dad. It was because he pushed her (& continues to push!) to keep finding her answers, and throwing her ideas out into the worl...

Time to check in! Are you on track with your goals this year? Are you burnt out, or maybe need to pivot? Remember, the more you grow and change, the more your dreams will grow and change. This week Ashley takes us through her goal setting (& executing) process, and how to build a life around your goals, and not your goals around your life. Having some control over your life, and not just drifting...

There is always something to be thankful for sis. Even in the things that don't work out, the things that worry you or bother you...there is always something to be grateful for. Because what you think, is what you see. If you keep your mind in a bad place, that is where it will stay. No matter how good life may be going, or if you're in a tough season...challenges will always present themselves. B...

Change the energy around sis. Fill your life with the people and the things that make you a big deal. People that don't play with you or about you. There are people in your life that genuinely, authentically, and deeply love you...just for who you are. So why are you so pressed about the people that don't? Why keep making space, for people, for things in your life, that no longer serve you? People...

You asked, and she's answering! Ashley answers your questions, and shares her experience with being afraid to take new opportunities, working through fear and anxiety, how to deal with negative family members, and much more. She talks how to let go of things that no longer serve you, taking small steps to create something meaningful, and even shares some great advice she got from a therapist! Than...

You have to know how much you're worth, and not be afraid to ask for the things that you want. Other people, jobs, companies, and brands have no problem telling you what they want. Stop being scary, and start telling others what you want too. Reciprocity, is how we're moving sis. Accommodations require accommodation. You cannot continuously pour into everything and everybody, and nothing is pourin...

Why do you do what you do sis? Are you here to educate, to serve, to teach something, to lead by example, to change your life, to change your families life...why do you chase the dream? Or is it for likes, downloads, having a K next to your posts on social media, to be trendy, and popping for everybody else? Being recognized for your gift is complimentary sis, not mandatory. But if you stay focuse...

There will be times in our lives where we have tons of friends, our calendar is full of events, and our lives feel full. There is a reason for that season. But there will also be times where our lives where it's just us. We don't have a lot of friends, we don't relate anymore to the people we used to relate to, and we feel separated. We feel isolated, and there is a reason for that season too. Wit...

Sometimes we will find ourselves in a season of uncertainty. We don't know what's next, we don't know what the outcome will be to a certain situation, we're not sure if our prayers will be answered. We get upset, and frustrated, and even disappointed because things aren't going the way that we planned. But good things take time sis, and God would never bring you this far, to only bring you this fa...

When you keep a plant in a small pot for too long, you stunt it's growth. Same goes for you sis. If you stay in the same place too long, in the same mindset, same routine, around the same people, you stunt your growth. Sometimes you have to change the pot, change the soil, change the environment....to change your life. Subscribe To Our YouTube! Watch the video component to the podcast on our YouTu...

Well well well...if it isn't SEASON 6 gracing us with her presence! Welcome back boo, we missed you!!!! (for real, for real) The last few years have been filled with ups and downs, trials and triumphs, and sis....you did that. But this season is personal. This era is personal. And you can't afford to move how you used to move, think how you used to think, or act how you used to act. It's time to d...

Miss you boo! Popping in to remind you of our new show coming out on Monday, January 9th! Subscribe Now To The Good News Podcast! An AshMedia Network Production… Click here to subscribe to The Good News podcast now on all audio platforms or wherever you get your podcasts! Streaming new episodes on January 9th. Get Your Podcast Merch! Get your podcast merch here at shopslaygirlslay.com ! Subscribe...

Sometimes, you can’t afford to wait for an opportunity to fall into your lap. You can’t always wait for a door to be opened for you sis. Sometimes…you have to kick it in. Create your own opportunities. Create your own table to sit at, chair to sit in, and door to walk through. As we say goodbye to yet another season of the podcast, we’re also saying hello…to something new. In this next year, and n...

As we wrap up another year, don’t start evaluating all the things that you did not get to do. Do not, for one second, try to add up where you stand next to everyone else this year. Accomplishments come and go sis. But you are forever. The girl that you were earlier this year, last year, and years before – is not the same woman listening today. She has new goals, new dreams, and new values. That is...

Sometimes you have to let go, and trust that things will work out the way that they need to. If it worked out beautifully before, it will work out beautifully again. The things that are big to us, are nothing to Him. And we have to learn how to step back, and stop trying to fight all of our battles, take all of our wins…and let God be exactly who He is….God. Sometimes life, sometimes your circumst...

Just like we always know the leaves will change in the fall, and that the flowers will always bloom in the spring. That your time to bloom…will always come too. That there will always be a time in your life that you will produce new things, new seasons, new glory, new life, and new experiences too. No matter what life is looking like right now for you, something good is always on its way to you. B...