Single You "The Podcast"

Just in time for that New Year Resolution; Single You the Pillow Collection; Shop Here.  0:00 Is self love biblical and what is the definition of self love?  4:30 Scripture to bak up self love.  If the home is worthy, let your peace rest on it; but if it is not, let your peace return to you. And if anyone will not welcome you or head your words, shake the dust off your feet when you...

The full interview with Zee is here.  Single You the Pillow Collection; Shop Here.  --- I know this lane of relationships has caused you a lot of frustration and pain. And right now you’re at your wits-end and have promised yourself that you will never again allow a man to disrespect you, mishandle you –nor will you give your heart that fast. You’ve professed that 2022 is the year of you...

Just in time for Christmas; Single You the Pillow Collection; Shop Here.  She was also on Episode 5 of Season 2. Here is her last episode , titled; Lanaya on: her happy marriage, waiting until 'he' becomes something and staying after he cheats. . Lanaya is happily married, holds a lot of wisdom on dating and she’s a coach inside of Single You Academy. 0:00 Who is Lanaya and how long she's bee...

Bonus episode because I wanted to tell you 5 things. Tapping into yourself trust. Mindset > behaviors > frustration with men. Can I help you? I'd like to BUT you say: "Surely I don’t need to talk to anyone about being single because I’ve been doing it for a while” – yet look at your track record with men sis? Plus you have a call on your spirit that something needs to change. Plus how SYA he...

Just in time for Christmas; Single You the Pillow Collection; Shop Here.  Nikita on: What Single You Academy gave her that advice from friends couldn't! She's a former client and this is her testimony.  Today I'm so honored to have another client of mine discuss her journey through Single You Academy. Watching a clients growth will never get old. I'm so in love with her story.  Who...

Single You the Pillow Collection; Shop Here.  Stacey is a 54 year old woman passionate about educating women in money. Throughout her life she has always stood up for what she believes in and questioned everything. As she weaves her own unique tapestry of life she has overcome many struggles and learned valuable lessons. She is excited to share those lessons with you today, around both relati...

Single You the Pillow Collection; Shop Here.  Happy Thanksgiving!! Decided to drop a day early. Enjoy!!  Today's Guest: Candyce (Ce) Anderson, LPC Licensed therapist. She can be reached here: https://ceandersonlive.com 4:57: Prepare yourself for that which you hope to manifest (a Russell Wilson type). Why? So you can honor, grow it and keep it. How do we prepare? 10:17 break down Fu...

FYI; in this episode we cuss. :-) Single You the Pillow Collection; Shop Here.  Love & Loyalty. What it means to do the 'work' and finally be happy single. Plus we'll mention what we can learn from DaniLeigh and DaBaby. Let's talk... a conversation with my cousin DJ! "Single You Academy helped me fall in love with myself by doing the work in this particular area. This has been an area of...

Could your view of love/relationships be underdeveloped, over fantasized, over spiritualized and toxic?? God is not going to gift you, show you, provide you a man just cause you prayed for him. It's like the woman with the issue of blood. She wanted to be healed so she did the work of finding Jesus and knowing all she had to do was touch the hem of his garment and she would be healed. There is wor...

I have a lot of clients who have a therapist while working with me and/or before they worked with me. I always ask why and here are a few of their answers. There is a difference, not better or worse and I define it on this episode.  Single You merch. available now; www. SingleYou. Shop Let's talk... So who am I? ⁣ ⁣ Hi 🙋🏽‍♀️ I’m Reka the founder of Single You the Podcast and creator of...

When I asked this question on Facebook a woman left me a comment saying "well my motto is don't date and you'll never be hurt" ... I cringe at that motto. I also have empathy because I know it's coming from a place of pain. For those that still desire a husband (my clients) - for me, it’s beyond the bitterness and the pain men left behind for me to crawl out of. Now, I’m looking more and more at m...

TODAY WE will touch on;  Why My Clients Made the Investment and joined Single You Academy (I'll share testimonials). How to get over him?  How do I know when to leave him?  What it's costing you to stay/be in dysfunctional relationships. Let's talk... So who am I? ⁣ ⁣ Hi 🙋🏽‍♀️ I’m Reka the founder of Single You the Podcast and creator of Single You Academy. ⁣ ⁣ 𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗜 𝗱𝗼...

If I were ta ask you "do you know you worth" while you're allowing a man to treat you like trash... you would say ...YES! This episode is why you'd say yes. Here is why that doesn't make sense. Think about it; in THAT situation-ship, marriage or some dude you're dealing with... you're so good at Masking... Sweeping things under the rug... Believing that this is the 'hard' of relationships so it's...

The cycle of dating I was in was; we meet, it's "wonderful" ...I pass up red flags and start day dreaming on how great we could be. Then 2 years later it ends in disaster because I passed up red flags... THAT IS OVER FOR ME!! That was hard. That’s what I describe as hard.  I’d much rather be doing what I’m doing now when it comes to ‘dating’... it's easy for me. This what I learned on my real...

Nah but the real flex is when you can walk away from a man who "looks good on paper" but your gut is telling you "he ain't for you sis." ⁣ ⁣ You’re gonna have to start trusting yourself and believing that your gut feeling is future you, God, trying to stop you from some BS that you’ll regret 3 months from now. ⁣ ⁣ If you need support on ☝🏽all of the above… then I know that I can help you!⁣ ⁣ So w...

Bold statement I know. So let's talk... ⁣ Yes I believe that a lot of your praying over that man— is null and void sis. ⁣ ⁣ God can become the center of your relationship but it does require that HE also wants that. Is God at the center of his character and identity? (Think of his behavior sis)⁣. If no-- then your prayers are putting the cart before the horse. ⁣ This message is for you if; ⁣ ⁣You’...

I know most of you will say harder but what was the 'easier' about relationships when you were younger? The ignorance?  Plus what is a self love journey? What does it actually do/look like and what I've learned about dating from my self love journey!   questions for you; who do you think it is harder for you? Why do you think crying over a man is bad?  Let's talk...  Find me on...

You're a faith based woman and you're career is together. However you desire marriage and kids. You're dealing (or have dealt) with men longer than you should have. Let me offer you a new perspective ... it's probably because you have a lot of shame around sex and you don't want another body, so here you are... settling. Who gave you education on faith based relationship intelligence? Let's talk.....

When I did this live on FB, I got the following message; It was a godsend that I happened upon this conversation!! Such the message I need. I hope it does the same for you.  The problem is you don’t trust yourself because when you trust yourself you will take clear, definitive action the moment you feel an inkling or see a sign that something is off. - Iyanla Vanzant Question; Why do you thin...

I won’t find another one like him (fears that are holding you back in getting the relationship you actually want). The problem is you don’t know who you are. You don’t understand how to have a relationship with yourself or relationships. Especially with men. Especially when it comes to getting the relationship you want…. So you settle sis. Cause God forbid you be single. Single feels like a stain...

What does that even mean? Doesn’t everyone die alone? Kids and/or a husband are not a guarantee you’ll be taken care of in your older years. So why are you only scared of ‘dying alone’ because you’re single? You have all these feelings about being a failure and that’s the reason why you want a man? You have got to think differently about your singleness so you can move different. I want a co-commi...

This episode explains why I think this saying is problematic.  Be a good person is for you and your character. Not to get people to be who you want them to be. Life is still a will of choice. We have free will! Men have free will and can choose to treat you any way they want. Where we mess up? By thinking we can change him.  Question for you > Why do you think that you bypass red flag...

You want a man to treat you with respect, be loyal and show you love. You need to be seen/heard and valued. What you’ve tired to that is following advice that says; don’t tell him how to treat you. ' I don’t want to go through another stage in my life where I’m telling someone how they should treat me.’ How sway? That’s passive aggressive. Is that how we are with your family and friends? How well...

The mind of a woman who is asking this question is sitting somewhere thinking that she is bad (a failure) because she doesn’t have a man. You want to be called the good woman behind the man, no matter what. You not having a man doesn’t mean you’re intrinsically bad or a failure. I wish you would stop seeing single as a punishment, or that it's a waiting period for something greater than the life y...

Does love really conquer all? Here why I think it doesn't....  Is it true... that if he loves you, he'll change for you? Here is why thinking that keeps you in a relationship that's an emotional roller coaster... Sometimes we’re too spiritual for our own good. Which causes us to take the responsibility out of dating. Did you take anything away from this episode? Do you want me to go deeper on...