Sincerely Tanj

So we’ve all been told at one point as a kid “Oh, they’re just being mean because they really like you…” but can we talk about how harmful this way of thinking is ?

I meant to release this around the new year but I dropped other episodes before that. You’ll still enjoy my point though…

To be able to have a choice on daily things can be so quickly overlooked when it’s your “everyday” routine..

I’ve yet to be married but I know watching people close to me going through a divorce can be A LOT. So what does dating look like for them ? What are some things they wish they knew beforehand ? Would they do it again ? I asked a MAN for this last part to switch things up a bit…

Part two to my series of married couple but all from different aspects. This couple I used to work with finally got married and I had to get their opinion on their experience so far…

Marriage isn’t everyone’s end goal but I love a successful marriage as much as the next person. If it’s on your mind, maybe some of the advice from this series could help…

Let’s start the year up with making the first part of our day a pleasant one, shall we ?

The pressure to find your people is indeed real even moreso these days just make sure it’s where you ACTUALLY want to be…

It’s been awhile guys but bringing something a little extra and sharing a little extra with babe in today’s episode! Have a Merry Christmas ❤️

It’s one thing to think about what you want but to live as if you already have it ? That’s another…

So coparenting can already seem difficult trying to manage your child from two households but there are ways to navigate the hot/cold actions of others…

What happens when you’re forced to slowly pick up the pieces of your life…

You’re allowed to love your kid but hate being a mom sometimes. Regardless of what people think, there’s a big DIFFERENCE between the two…

Being young is great and all but life doesn’t get boring because you get older…it’s whatever you make it

Dedicated to my older sister, some of you guys HAVE to stop projecting your life/goals onto others. Everything AIN’T for everybody…

Something I hope to show or that he’ll come across one. Just a sum up of lessons I wish somebody told me. Granted, I tell him these things everyday but another reminder when things are hard is never bad either

So who would have thought men are taking up most of the space on dating apps ? I could give you a few reasons just based on my personal observation..

“If it was the last time y’all spent together ?” I never liked the idea of this question but it’s definitely a reality for some people..

“Mind the business that pays you…” is what I like to think of in this situation. There’s no point in trying to warn the next PERSON and I’m going to tell why…

Now I see A LOT of content all over social media about this lifestyle and though I don’t care for it, the message of the MAJORITY of the women are SENDING, is dangerous…

For some reason, we feel the need to defend ourselves to make sure we’re understood. STOP that. Who cares if they do or don’t….not your problem

So I bet like me, you thought there was only one KIND huh ? Like there’s no way there could be more but surprise SURPRISE there are…

Now I’m not sure if you’ve heard of this term but if you’ve ever felt like somebody is literally DRAINING all that you are…you might wanna rethink your company

Now you guys didn’t think I forgot about y’all, did you ? When you hear about narcissists, I always hear about the MALES but FEMALE ones do EXIST …they just aren’t as widely talked about in my opinion. Let’s dive in, shall we ?

So this went WAYYY longer than expected but you’ll enjoy it for sure…