Sincerely Tanj

We’ve all seen it…assumed characteristics based on stereotypes seem from TV or small encounters. What odd is how some characteristics are easily accepted when portrayed by another ethnicity…

Weddings are a beautiful thing but as somebody who HATES crowds and fake smiles, I’m opting out for a private experience…

These rings come in so many forms and I’ve watched all of them up close and even participated in a situation myself. Maybe some of these situations sound familiar to you…maybe not…

Baby showers are a beautiful thing but I can’t help but think somewhere along the way it became more of a show and less about the life being celebrated…

It definitely takes a village to raise a child but what happens when that village is tired …?

A lot of time when somebody is accomplishing more than you, it’s quick to assume the cards just aren’t in your favor…but what if it could be and you’re KEEPING it from happening, would you fix it ?

It’s okay to keep some things to yourself. Even though people think they may be helping, advice is just advice…no need to do as someone suggests.

I’m all for close relationships with our children, as a mother myself, but I have noticed some have no idea what boundaries are and where they should be placed…

Happy New Years Guys 🫶🏾 I just wanted to share some events that have taken place and have a little chitchat to catch you guys up !

In the black community, I see a lot of woman talk about how much mothers dote on their sons as if they do NO WRONG and I agree…can’t relate, but I agree. Let’s shed some light on why I think this is…

Sometimes what you want may have not been in the cards for you at the time and that’s okay. Watching people I care for get the opposite of shitty experiences I had is a beautiful thing…

The last episode of this series ! Hope you guys enjoyed and maybe it brought some clarity for whoever needed it.

Nobody like a combative attitude. Some people think it’s cute…until it’s not.

Part 2 in this series of communication.

Communication styles really make a difference in any relationship you have with others in general. It can explain why some people in your life just don’t mix well with you. What is your style ? How do you express yourself ?

It’s been forever since we’ve done an episode and this is the longest yet, I think ? Lots of loaded questions in today’s episode

We’ve all heard about this…at least I think so and I’m just hear to say it has WAY more involved than just luck sometimes.

The “honeymoon” phase is something I feel like isn’t talked about enough and I’m sick of people assuming it’s JUST a phase. Let’s discuss this more…

When being a particular race warrants you to be more ATTRACTIVE…let’s really dive into this.

The last part of this series…I hope you guys enjoyed it especially during black history month. Protect those black babies !

Continuation of this fascinating study. Enjoy !

As little girls, we have all heard this phrase whether it was towards us of towards somebody else but where did this even stem from ? A study about the comparison of Black and Caucasian girls told me way more than what I expected…

To make something less of a headache, take away the obstacles and watch how much easier it is to get it done…

An old episode I recorded but still a valid point made. Be safe, ladies.

“What makes us special ?” I mean we could name quite a few things but our individual answer lies in this episode…