Shift Your Perspective

In order to free yourself from inherited conditioned patterns of limiting self-belief, worthiness, violence, abuse, and perpetual rejection, you going to have to go on a "bloody rampage of revenge." How can we use the journey of the 'Yellow-Haired Warrior' in Quentin Tarantino's film, "Kill Bill" as a guide to free ourselves from our personal hells and pasts into a life of our choosing? Listen in...

You want the truth?  Only LOVE can pass through The Gates of Heaven!   What do I mean by this? Listen in as I share the lessons learned from my transformational journey. 

Why do we take on other people's crap when they do us wrong - why do we examine it, investigate it and try to figure out the reason they did it and what we did?! Why not call it what it is and do what we are supposed to do with crap - flush it down the toilet? Granted it isn't an easy thing to do, but what you are doing to 'heal' from it is actually keeping you stuck in the cycle of pain and abuse...

Why are you 'holding on' and not 'letting go' of your past? Is it because of what others will think, say, or do? Or is it because you think 'this is just how life is' or 'it's always been this way, so it must be the truth?' Whether you realize it or not, this life is a journey of letting go of 'what was' for 'what is' and 'what will be.' Anything else will keep you stuck in your karma cycle of pai...

If you keep focusing on your inner child wounds you are only going to keep yourself stuck in a cycle of the never-ending healing of childhood trauma.  If you believe that what you focus on expands, why do you think it would be any different when you focus on things that happened in the past? (You've been doing that for a while now, right? How's that working out for you?) Listen in to lessons learn...

I get it! Everybody is out here telling you to "follow your inner voice," to trust your Divine GPS.  What most people don't know (or do and not telling you) is that your inner voice (AKA: God) is both the light and the dark, both positive and negative energy. So, if you are holding onto a negative self-image (AKA: your beliefs of failure and impossibility) the Divine will guide you towards that ne...

Have you ever noticed that people can be jealous of you? I am not talking about your gifts or skills, I am talking about your healing journey. You've done the work to break free from limiting beliefs and karmic patterns, so why are people envious when they should be happy for you? Listen in to hear lessons learned on this journey of living our lives beyond fear; beyond our past traumas. 

The journey out of your personal hell; breaking free from your karmic pattern is tough. And though not everyone makes it, it can be done.  Staying focused on your path out of darkness is critical, but there will be tests along the way that will provoke you to give up.  How do you cross the threshold of old beliefs into a state of joy and peace; Heaven consciousness? Listen in for lessons learned o...

Why do we do it? Why do we stay loyal to those who have clearly chosen to betray us; why do we keep coming back for more abuse? And when we do walk away, why do we feel guilty for standing up for ourselves, for choosing ourselves over others' BS that they try to impose upon us? Listen in as I share lessons learned about the emotional ties that bind us to the cycles of abuse. 

You've been through a lot; people have done some terrible things to you - I get it! But that isn't a good enough reason to stay down and accept life as it seems at this moment. And though you may not be able to see it at the moment, if you begin today to have the courage to get up and take tiny steps forward toward a brighter future, it will come to pass even quicker than you realize.  Listen in a...

There's only one way to release yourself, to break free from toxic cycles and individuals - you have to release your addiction to co-dependency. It's easier said than done, but the truth is it can be done, and here is how. Listen in to lessons learned about letting go of the past, and I mean all of your past.

People (family, friends, lovers, and society) tell you who you are, what you are capable of, and what you are worthy of; they attach labels to you, and they expect you to be a certain way. And if you are not careful, you might just end up believing them and lose control of your life; you'll end up being stuck in a cycle of abuse and neglect.  But how do you reject those labels; how do you live you...

Feel like you're not getting anywhere; like everything you are doing isn't making a difference? Breaking away from the old, toxic relationships, families, friends, and even society, is a very hard thing to do - most people will never do it, so isn't it time to give yourself some credit?! Isn't it time you stop beating yourself up for always getting back up and trying to move forward? Listen in as...

It is hard to end toxic relationships, especially romantic ones. There is so much involved. Everything from the karmic family patterns and cycles to childhood traumas. Not to mention all of the guilt and shame of just being yourself. But there is hope; there is a way out. However, are you willing to face and give up the very thing that keeps you stuck? Listen in as I share lessons learned about be...

You want things to change; you want your suffering of the past to end and to begin experiencing a world filled with all of your dreams coming true. I get it! But it isn't going to happen until you take back control. Control over your mind and self-identity, AKA, YOUR LIFE!  Listen in as I share lessons learned on this path of transformation. 

Why are you rushing? Are you trying to escape the pain and suffering you have experienced in life; trying to move beyond the trauma you have experienced? I totally get it; been there and done that! So what should you do? Listen in as I share lessons learned about how long it takes to transform yourself and then your world.   

If you truly want to change your life, you need to take control over your mind - nothing you haven't heard already, right? But what does that mean exactly; it's not like you haven't been already trying to do that, no? Listen in as I share my discoveries on what you need to look for and how deep you really have to go in order to set yourself free and transform your world and everything you experien...

You know all about your childhood trauma, the inherited negative self-image root, those ancestral karmic patterns. But why are you still holding on to it? Listen in to lessons learned about how to truly set yourself free from those cycles and move on with your life, beyond fear, self-doubt, pain, and suffering. 

"Do this! Do that! That's not how I'd do it! Who do you think you are?! You're too confident!" scream the outside voices. So much so that you're own voice is drowned out, leaving you confused and not knowing which way to go!  Have you ever stopped to question why? That perhaps they are trying to manipulate you for their gain, whatever that may be. Listen in on lessons learned about turning your ba...

We are told that making a list of all we are grateful for changes our lives and opens us up to more miracles and blessings. How's that working out for you? Hastily making your list every day isn't the answer, that's just lip service, that's just trying to earn that 'gold star?' So what is gratitude really? Listen in as I share lessons learned about really taking in the astounding gift that is call...

What's really holding you back? Your childhood trauma? Things people have said and done to you in the past? Could it possibly be that you are refusing to let things be just as they are and move on? Listen in as I share what I have learned about leaving the past in the past and moving on, free of guilt, shame, or blame. 

Confusion! Confusion! Confusion! Everybody tells you what to do, where to look, and how to be, and most, sadly, do it to control and manipulate you, for purposes that serve them. But the truth is, you do the very same, even if it is only trying to get others to treat you right or correct the wrongs that they have genuinely inflicted upon you. So how do you move through the muddle of the self-servi...

Yes, you've been wounded, hurt, neglected, abandoned, betrayed, lied to, and cheated on, these are facts. But what if I told you that everything you are doing to heal from these is keeping you stuck in the vicious cycles you find yourself in? What if I told you that all you have to do is let it all go and move on; that you are in reality chasing ghosts, memories that no longer exist? Listen in as...

People have caused you a lot of pain and suffering, that is a fact!  Are you still trying to get these individuals to understand what they have done and treat you right, aka seeking justice? Guess what? It's a trap that will keep you stuck in your karmic loop cycle.  Listen in as share lessons learned about letting go and letting God make things right in your life.   

Why do we do it; why do we stay or go back to abusive people and relationships? Does it ever change? NO! So why do we keep thinking that this time will be different? Listen in as I share what you need to do in order to break free and closed down those karmic cycles once and for all.