Shift Your Perspective

This part of my life, this journey of freedom from my past is over - it's time for me to create something new. NEVER forget that you are a Child of God and that valuable and worthy of a life beyond your fears, pain, and self-doubt. But you can never live your life beyond them if you don't walk away from them and begin anew. Listen in for my final thoughts and encouragement in hopes you will know t...

You are not responsible for the inflected Childhood Trauma that is causing your perspective of "It's Impossible for me!" (Those 'sins' are others to pay for, for THEY made THOSE choices!)   However, you are responsible for maintaining that perspective, AKA: Your actual prayer request, that you are repeating in the center of God's Temple, AKA: The center of yourself. (I Corinthians 3:16) nothing wi...

In this experience, this life on planet Earth – AKA: "Fantasy Island, where all of your fantasies come true" – AKA: As you believe in your heart, so be it unto you (Proverbs 23:7) is yours to command (Deuteronomy 30), the only question you EVER need to ask yourself is, What the F*%k am I believe in!" Listen in as I show you a life beyond childhood trauma, a life bolding walking through the wildern...

People are free to choose the direction of how their lives will play out; some will fail, some will succeed. It is because some people are better or more blessed than others? No! It is because very few people have the courage to not listen to "the negative report" and simply run into and "seize the Promised Land." And that boils down to whether they believe "it's possible for me" or "it's impossib...

The Dream is continually unfolding. The only thing you need to be concerned with is which side of the Dream are you choosing. The version where the dreams crumble before your eyes, or the one where your Dream comes to fruition? I also have discovered a deep meaning of the Inherited Negative Self-Image Root. (Hint: It hasn't anything to do with any patterns of abuse or trauma.) Listen in as I show...

What are you doing with your time? Spending it? (which, in reality, is wasting it.) Or are you investing it? I understand the initial engagement is uneasy, but I also know the flow takes over once engaged. So, how do you get yourself to "engage" with the Divine creative flow? Make yourself so bored you crave the relief of creativity. What do I mean, make yourself bored? Start observing your curren...

If today makes your tomorrow, hadn't you switched your focus from 'past and future' to 'now,' should you not stop and observe what you are thinking and doing, the choices you are making right now? So how do you do that? Listen in as I show you a life beyond childhood trauma, a life bolding walking through the wilderness, fearing not because you understand the power within you. Follow and engage wi...

Who influences your thoughts about what is possible for you and your life? Do you use the opinions of others to put a limit on your dreams? What is done is done; the present moment is old news; it is old thoughts made manifest; make peace with it. And then let us focus on creating a new tomorrow but choosing carefully our thoughts and actions today. Listen in as I show you a life beyond childhood...

Remembering that we can achieve greatness if we take ownership of our actions and live in the present moment is crucial.  We must stop shifting the blame to external factors when things go wrong and instead focus on our unique talents. It takes courage and passion to pursue our dreams and take risks, but the rewards are immeasurable. We must actively participate in life to discover our talents and...

How do you transmute negative experiences, so you don't stay stuck in trauma? How do you live your life free from having to please people in order to "earn" their love? Listen in as I show you a life beyond childhood trauma, a life bolding walking through the wilderness, fearing not because you understand the power within you. Click here to view my "official portrait" on Instagram. Click here to d...

The past is the past, and the new is here now, waiting for you to create it. So, what are you creating? Listen in as I show you a life beyond childhood trauma, a life bolding walking through the wilderness, fearing not because you understand the power within you. Follow and engage with me on: https://www.instagram.com/the_billyj/

Saying good-bye, but one last piece of wisdom before I leave it all behind… Listen to Episode 109: Prof. Bruce Lipton talks about how our environment shapes our lives and futures. Follow and engage with me on: https://www.instagram.com/the_billyj/

Love is letting go of all fear. The fear of failure, rejection, and even the fear of releasing one's false God – the martyr, the victim self-image that the world has told us we are. Love is to know who you are and not to be afraid of it. Love is to turn your back on the world and all of its lies. To throw off all of the mantles we have acquired on our journies and to be what we are – despite the o...

You have waited long enough for others to do right by you, to take accountability for what they have done to you, so you can live your life, and be who you know you're supposed to be. You also cannot set yourself free by trying to undo what has already happened. You can only break the cycle of trauma and pain, of karma, by going through, by going forward, by completely the circle of the story of y...

You have every right to be a victim (what they did to you was wrong and it will always be wrong), but what if I told you that pursuing your "justice" will only keep you trapped in the cycle of abuse? What I am saying? I am saying that if you want your life to change, to stop the karmic cycle, you must give it up; you must exchange it for something different, for something new. So how do you do tha...

You don't "cut" cords to the toxic people and things in your life, you cut the cords to your old self-image of being a victim. If fact, you cut them at all – you burn them! If you don't, those "cords" will seek to "re-attach" themselves to people and things that feed that victim consciousness; it must, it's in its nature; that consciousness is fighting for its survival. So how do you "burn" those...

Everything changes; all creation comes and goes. However, it seems as though nothing has changed; no matter where you go or whom you are with, you seem to be continuously abandoned, rejected, abused, and constantly failing to realize your dreams. This lack of change is due to your constant gazing at what is (AKA: the negative cycles in your life), all stemming from what was (AKA: your childhood tr...

When we want to change our lives and break free from trauma, abusive relationships, and karmic cycles, we often desire it in the face of our current circumstances (which is nearly always NOT what we want.) So what do we have to do to remain in faith (or even have it to begin with) that The Divine will bring to pass the promise of freedom from those experiences? Listen in as I share the truths of p...

Have you ever noticed how people try to keep you at their level, within their comfort zones, limitations, and beliefs, and how readily we agree with them? Why is that, do you think? Limiting yourself does not serve the world; there is nothing noble in dimming your inner light so others won't feel insecure around you – God created you to shine in this world. So what are you afraid of; why deny your...

If you believe in things like the Law of Attraction or 'we become what we think about,' have you ever stopped to wonder why you keep experiencing abusive relationships? I am here to tell you that unless you get to the root cause of it all, nothing will ever change in your life; no amount of reading, list writing, or other practices will create the change you seek. You only need to ask yourself, "W...

If you want to stay out of negative energy, you must stop resisting it and allow it to be. Once you stop fighting it, you must engage in a desired activity that holds your attention. When you focus on the desired task, it is not open to other distractions; concentrated thoughts narrow the bandwidth, blocking the negative energy naturally with no effect on your part. Listen in to learn more. Follow...

Why do you feel shitty about the things that other people have done to you? Why do you feel guilty for making the decision to protect yourself? Why do you feel bad for getting back up and moving forward? Those feelings come from the '5 stones'    of your negative self-image thrown at you as a child. How do you stop feeling that way; how do you throw back those stones and set yourself free? Listen...

If you are trying to heal that inner child, AKA: you are trying to get your loved ones to stop rejecting you and take accountability for what they did to you, things aren't going to change. So what are you supposed to do? "Pull a Penelope!" What do I mean by that? Listen in and hear what I have discovered on my journey of carving a path beyond fear and abuse and into the wilderness of self-soverei...

All you've ever been doing is looking for a respectful, loving partner and friend to walk this life with. As a result, you've learned some hard lessons. The question is, "What will you do with that education?" It's time to accept the dream you've been dreaming of. Let go of the past and begin anew. Don't fear the unknown; the path can only evolve if you walk it in blind faith.   The only guarantee...

You haven't given up yet, so why are you so worried about what other people think about you? Why are you beating yourself up for the things that other people have done to you?! In order to be unstuck from your karmic patterns, you have to be Enlightened. But what does that really mean? Listen in as I share lessons learned, but also a quick way to start breaking your karmic cycles and free yourself...