Sex Without Fear

Send us Fan Mail Inspired by a new book coming out that covers the memoirs of survivors of The Potters House cult, I share my story of when my family found themselves members for a few short years and why I left.  This first part is a background story on what was going on in my life leading up to joining this church, and part two will cover my experience in the church itself.   Stay tuned for a de...

Send us Fan Mail Now we get into the juice of the church! Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Conner from The Bliss Blueprint had me on Humboldt Air Live for a discussion on Dead Bedrooms.  If you missed it, here's the playback for you!  We plan to come together for a part two to this episode because there was just so much we didn't get to cover!  I think you'll be hearing a lot more collaborations from us on many future topics, so stay tuned! Support the sh...

Send us Fan Mail You get to hear live, from my booth at Pride in Redding, CA.  What was it like?  What did I see?  What did I feel?  Who did I meet?  Here's my report as a vendor for the first time, in my hometown of Redding, California, a very conservative and religious area, doing their best to create a queer community. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Is this a case of people hating girls for being girls, or are Swifties involved in a capitalist-loving cult?  I brought on a self-proclaimed Swiftie to help me sort out my feelings!  You can find Stephanie's fan group on facebook as "Swifties On The Beach" to find other Swiftie friends in California! We will be back on the patreon soon to talk about the songs she re...

Send us Fan Mail Hey guys, a little update on where I'm at right now, and an hour + of your listener questions you sent in!  As always, I love you guys and am so glad you're here.  <3 Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Hope you guys are having a great Love Month!  We are extending the topics of love and pleasure, into this discussion with my midwife, Tesa, who has a midwife known to "prescribe orgasms"!  Her focus on pleasure and touch is something we will bring her back on to talk about more, but today we took your listener questions and do our best to answer them from both of our per...

Send us Fan Mail So excited about this new company friendship (what you business heads call a sponsorship)!  Erothc and I have partnered up to bring you your two favorite things: SEX and THC.  Erothc is a woman-owned, minority-owned, Vegas-based company that's main focus is producing THC-edible panties to bring you higher as you go lower!  Today's episode we introduce the owner, Lauren,...

Send us Fan Mail We welcome Conner to the pod to talk about polyamory!  Conner has a sex Ed podcast call The Bliss Blueprint on Spotify, and their Instagram is the_bliss_blueprint   Make sure to follow them because this won’t be the last time you hear from Conner on the show! What do we cover here? Oh boy!  Types of poly, ENM in general, jealousy, balancing time, forgiveness, pros and cons, resour...

Send us Fan Mail Todays episode to start off the new year is a little different.  For one, I apologize for the HORRIBLE AUDIO.  Something happened that wasn't obvious until after recording and in the editing process.  I swear this wont happen so badly again.  Haha.  Anyways, I'm pretty well known for having a few wild ride stories up my sleeve, and this is one of them.  This may not feel...

Send us Fan Mail Years ago I sat down with TLC & National Geographic's celebrity Adult Baby, Stanley Thorton who experienced his 15 minutes of fame and months of fraud investigation.  I took a while to come back to this and formulate some thoughts on what this visit meant to me and what I took from it all.  This is a shorter episode but I cover a lot and you will probably leave with very...

Send us Fan Mail Some general housekeeping and a fun announcement!  Find my new podcast I'm co-hosting!  Stay tuned for this next year of exciting stuff!  Love you all! Support the show

Send us Fan Mail You asked for Ginko to return with a life update, and here it is, just in time to wish them a Happy Birthday today!  If you haven't heard Ginko's first interview from two years ago, scroll back to find the episode titled "La Vie Boheme" to hear about how their trans art was censored in our art community, so that you can enjoy today's episode all about how...

Send us Fan Mail Today you're going to hear from the side that wants to stop Moms 4 Liberty from infiltrating their panic into our school systems.  If you are completely unaware of what Moms 4 Liberty is this is a great episode for you.  We focus on on the local headquarters and how it's affected our personal community, but we are not unique.  This has been a national issue for a while,...

Send us Fan Mail Like everyone, I dressed in pink and headed to the theatre to watch this summer's biggest hit: Barbie.  This isn't so much a movie review as it is a memoir of my relationship with barbie and my own expression of womanhood.  Enjoy this little piece of me on my birthday!  Happy birthday to me!  And thank you to everyone who has stuck around this long, even for episodes lik...

Send us Fan Mail From Sound of Freedom, to Wayfair, to Epstein, to Qanon, what is all this about human trafficking?  It can be so confusing to navigate this huge topic, and filter out media hype and misrepresentations.  I brought on Jenny Davidson to school us on the ins and outs of sex trafficking, human trafficking, domestic violence, and sexual assault topics, so that hopefully anyone who wants...

Send us Fan Mail I asked for your stories, and amongst the many audio files sent to me was the abortion story that really shaped my adolescent years of discovering what being a safe woman really meant and how early that really starts for us girls.  In this episode you'll hear a few short abortion stories from our sweet listeners and then you'll hear an hour long interview with someone ve...

Send us Fan Mail Today we welcome Megan Gumm to the podcast to talk about the ins and outs of full term breastfeeding.  Megan is a lactation peer counselor for wic and together we are gonna school you on everything from toddler formula to the global average age of weaning.  You might be surprised!  This episode was recorded on two seperate days, and piecing together the content was a little tricky...

Send us Fan Mail In part one I covered topics around wether or not this adventure is for you or your relationship, how to have these conversations with your partner, communication and boundary tips, vetting, pros and cons, terminology, things to expect, and a lot of my own threesome trauma that got me here today.  This time, in part 2  I cover what setting up the actual event can look like, and so...

Send us Fan Mail This is my most requested topic from you listeners, and it's finally here!  I could possibly write a book on my experiences, thoughts, and advice, but if you are completely new to the lifestyle of group sex, then this is a great starting point! In part one I cover topics around wether or not this adventure is for you or your relationship, how to have these conversations with...

Send us Fan Mail First off, I hope everyone enjoyed your Father's Day!  I'm sorry this week's episode is a little late, but we made it up to you by putting together a little father's day surprise for ya'll at the beginning of this episode. Today's guest, Melissa Pomish, is an IVF influencer here to share her story and a little bit of the process of in vitro fertilizat...

Send us Fan Mail You may have first seen them on Showtime's Polyamory: Married & Dating in 2012, but what the show didn't show views was their work in activism, writing, and big plans to change the world.  10+ years later, and Vanessa has a charcuterie board of work to show and resources to offer the queer and sex work communities.  Join the convo to hear them talk about their Death...

Send us Fan Mail You may know him from his tiktok, his comedy videos, or as a cousin of the sister wives family...no matter how you discovered him, I'm sure you're glad to have discovered him.  Benjamin is wealth of knowledge on religion and mental health, and has so much experience on self growth, I can't help but look up to him!  Today's episode we talk about everything from...

Send us Fan Mail If you did not listen to part 1, please start there! A christian boarding school near my hometown hit the news a few times before eventually being shut down.  A buzzfeed article came out with some pretty gnarly accusations about gay conversion therapy, forcing them to eat only peanut butter for weeks and months at a time, and more.  I had to get to the bottom of this since no one...

Send us Fan Mail A christian boarding school in my hometown hit the news a few times before eventually being shut down.  A buzzfeed article came out with some pretty gnarly accusations about gay conversion therapy, forcing them to eat only peanut butter for weeks and months at a time, and more.  I had to get to the bottom of this since no one else was talking about it.  I brought two victims on fr...