Sex With Ashley

Unlock the truth about modern dating — especially if you're navigating love after leaving church culture or deconstructing long-held beliefs. In this eye-opening episode, relationship strategist Mike Speaks shares candid insights on how faith, societal expectations, and personal growth shape your love life today. Discover how to break free from limiting rules, embrace your authentic self, and buil...

nlock the truth about sex after 50—it's better, bolder, and more fulfilling than you've been told. In this eye-opening episode, 68-year-old sexuality expert Tanya shatters common myths, revealing how confidence, self-knowledge, and maintaining health can elevate your pleasure at any age. Whether you're single, partnered, or navigating health challenges like erectile dysfunction or vaginal atrophy,...

This week on the podcast, Dr. Jackie discusses the cultural stigma surrounding the vagina, sharing her personal experiences growing up in Mississippi, where the word was rarely spoken. She emphasizes the importance of dispelling myths and misinformation about women's bodies, referring to the vagina as the 'queen V' to promote empowerment and body positivity.

In this conversation, Dr. Jessica discusses the challenges faced by black women regarding hot flashes and menopause. She emphasizes the importance of understanding the symptoms and exploring various treatment options beyond hormones. The discussion highlights the cognitive impacts of prolonged hot flashes and the need for better awareness and resources for women's health.

In this episode, host Ashley Cobb discusses sex after endometriosis with guest Lillian Medhus, a women's health nurse practitioner. Lillian shares her personal journey with endometriosis, the challenges of painful sex, and the treatments that have helped her, including surgery and pelvic floor therapy. The conversation also covers the importance of communication with partners, the role of pelvic f...

In this episode of 'Sex with Ashley', host Ashley Cobb speaks with Jamila Williams, co-founder of Pursuit of Pleasure, about the transformative experiences of naturism and sexual exploration. They discuss the origins of Pursuit of Pleasure, the dynamics of nudist trips, the importance of consent, and the healing power of nudity. The conversation also touches on body image, self-acceptance, and the...

In this engaging conversation, Raheem DeVaughn, known as the Love King, shares his insights on love, intimacy, and sexual health. He discusses the importance of understanding love as an action, the dynamics of sexual relationships, and the significance of open conversations about sexual health, including HIV prevention and the use of PrEP. Raheem also touches on the role of sex toys in enhancing i...

Summary In this episode, Ashley Cobb discusses the importance of HIV testing, particularly among black women, with guest Kennedi Lowman, who shares her personal journey of living with HIV. They explore misconceptions about HIV, the significance of support networks, and the need for awareness and education in the community. The conversation emphasizes the importance of prioritizing health and the r...

In this engaging conversation, Ashley Cobb and Lyvonne Briggs explore the profound connection between pleasure and liberation, particularly for Black women. They discuss the importance of reclaiming spirituality and sensuality, the need to decolonize Christianity, and the significance of healing bodily trauma. The dialogue also delves into the complexities of non-monogamy, jealousy, and the role o...

In this episode, Ashley Cobb and Mikki Bey delve into the concept of emotional regulation and its profound impact on relationships and sexual experiences. Mikki shares her journey into emotional regulation, emphasizing its importance as a skill that can prevent severe consequences in life. The conversation explores how emotional states affect sexual desire and intimacy, the significance of vulnera...

In this episode, host Ashley Cobb and expert Chanel Jaali Marshall delve into the world of kink, discussing its various definitions, the importance of consent, and how it can enhance communication in relationships. They explore the misconceptions surrounding kink, particularly in the Black community, and provide insights on how to navigate desires with partners who may not share the same interests...

In this episode of 'Sex with Ashley', host Ashley Cobb speaks with Nikki Boyer, the creator of the podcast and TV show 'Dying for Sex'. They discuss the profound journey of Nikki's best friend Molly, who, after being diagnosed with stage four breast cancer, embarks on a quest for sexual exploration and self-discovery. The conversation delves into the emotional impact of Molly's story, the creative...

In this episode, Ashley Cobb and Dr. Tamara Rose delve into the complexities surrounding the Diddy trial and Cassie's experiences, exploring themes of survival, consent, and the challenges faced by women in abusive relationships. They discuss the societal perceptions of domestic violence, the psychological aspects of trauma, and the importance of support systems. The conversation emphasizes the ne...

In this episode of 'Sex with Ashley', host Ashley Cobb engages with Dr. Janelle Frederick, a pelvic floor physical therapist, to discuss the often-overlooked topic of pelvic floor health, specifically focusing on prolapse. They explore the symptoms, causes, and treatment options for prolapse, as well as its impact on sexual health and emotional well-being. The conversation emphasizes the importanc...

Summary In this episode, Ashley Cobb and Dr. Donna Oriowo discuss the complex relationship between self-esteem and identity, particularly for black women. They explore how societal messages, supremacy culture, and personal experiences shape self-perception and relationships. Dr. Oriowo shares insights from her book, 'Drink Water and Mind Your Business,' emphasizing the importance of building self-...

In this episode, Ashley Cobb engages with licensed therapist Nikquan Lewis to discuss the profound impact of trauma on relationships, self-esteem, and sexuality. They explore how trauma shapes partner selection, the importance of friendships, and the necessity of reauthoring personal narratives around sex and relationships. Nikquan emphasizes the need for awareness and understanding of one's traum...

In this episode, Ashley Cobb and Omisade Burney-Scott discuss the often-taboo topic of menopause, particularly from the perspective of Black women. They explore the importance of open conversations about menstrual health, the symptoms and experiences of perimenopause, and the impact of societal narratives on women's identities as they transition through menopause. The discussion also touches on th...

In this episode, we talk with Dr. Candice Hargons about her book, "Good Sex." We explore various definitions of good sex, the importance of communication, and the ingredients that contribute to a fulfilling sexual experience. Dr. Hargons shares her research findings on intimacy, pleasure, and the significance of being open and receptive in sexual relationships. The discussion also touches on perso...

In this episode, host Ashley Cobb speaks with midwife Leonne about the complexities of sexual health during and after pregnancy. They discuss the role of midwives, the safety of sex during pregnancy, the physical changes women experience post-birth, and the importance of communication and patience in navigating these changes. Leonne also addresses the impact of orgasms on labor and the significanc...

In this conversation, Ashley Cobb interviews Marla Renee Stewart, a sex educator and sexual strategist, about the complexities of sexuality in long-term relationships, the impact of purity culture, and the importance of communication and understanding in sexual dynamics. They discuss the changes that occur in sexual relationships after marriage, the significance of premarital counseling, and pract...

In this enlightening episode, Dr. Michael Reed discusses the evolving field of cosmetic gynecology, focusing on procedures like labiaplasty and vaginal tightening. He emphasizes the importance of understanding women's needs, both aesthetic and functional, and advocates for better education and training for practitioners in this field. The conversation highlights how these procedures can enhance wo...

In this conversation, Ashley Cobb and Reba Thomas delve into the topic of ethical non-monogamy, exploring its rising popularity, definitions, and various forms. They discuss the dynamics of ethical non-monogamous relationships, particularly within marriages, and emphasize the importance of consent, communication, and understanding personal boundaries. The conversation also touches on personal expe...

In this episode of Sex With Ashley, we are discussing the journey through polyamory .In this conversation, LeNae Smith and Ashley Cobb explore the complexities of polyamory, discussing the importance of safety, communication, and boundaries in non-monogamous relationships. They emphasize the need for honest conversations before entering polyamorous arrangements and share insights on how multiple p...

In this episode of Sex After, Ashley Cobb speaks with Sophia about her experiences with anorexia and its impact on her sexuality. They discuss the journey of recovery, the importance of self-love, and how masturbation played a crucial role in reconnecting with her body. Sophia shares her insights on the relationship between eating disorders and sexual health, offering advice for those struggling w...

In this episode of Sex After, host Ashley Cobb speaks with actress and sexual health influencer Toni Bryce about her journey as a transgender woman, her experiences with sex before and after her transition, and the importance of communication and consent in sexual relationships. Toni shares her insights on navigating intimacy, preparing for anal sex, and the significance of establishing non-negoti...