Sex Unshackled with Becky Crepsley-Fox

In this episode I speak with Johnny Vajra about how to release anger to make space for sexuality, how kink can be healing and how pleasure is our birthright.    About Johnny: Johnny Vajra is a Spiritual Alchemist, Intimacy Coach and Pleasure Educator. Johnny incorporates sacred sexuality, kink, and mindful meditation to promote conscious community via workshops and immersion experiences. ( johnnyv...

In this episode I speak with Imi Lo about what an emotionally intense and highly sensitive person is, some problems they might encounter and ways for them to navigate sex and relationships.    About imi: Imi Lo is a Psychotherapist, Art Therapist, and Consultant for emotionally intense and highly sensitive people. She is the Founder of  Eggshell Therapy and Coaching  and author of the book  Emotio...

In this episode I speak with Deya and Hugo about conscious communication, the importance of joining and noticing unhelpful patterns in relating.    About Deya: Deya is a Cacao sorceress, Creative Meditation instructor, student of Tantra, workshop facilitator and the founder of CacaoAmor. Her mission is to inspire others to find their own healing powers, connecting to their innate joy and love. She...

In this episode I speak with Rachel Overvoll about intimacy, receiving pleasure and how tuning into the senses increases our erotic capacity.    About Rachel: As a young woman growing up in Evangelical Christianity, Rachel was raised feeling immense shame around her body, her sexuality, and intimacy. It was not until she decided to embark on her own journey of self love, pleasure, and sensuality,...

In this episode I speak with Dr Ashley Townes about issues affecting Black women's sex lives, the lack of sex education in both America and the UK and how negative stereotypes can directly affect peoples sexuality.    About Dr Ashley Townes PhD, MPH: Dr. Ashley Townes is an ORISE Postdoctoral Research Fellow at the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention in Atlanta, GA. Her research background...

In this episode I speak with Silva Neves. We discuss what compulsive sexual behaviour is, what people could do if they are experiencing these difficulties and how to handle these topics without inducing shame.   About Silva: Silva Neves is a COSRT-accredited and UKCP-registered psychosexual and relationship psychotherapist, a trauma psychotherapist and an EMDR therapist. He is a Pink Therapy Clini...

In this episode I speak with Portia Brown about how to create your own pleasure rituals, about the importance of tuning into your body and how your actions outside of the bedroom can have a direct impact on your sex life.   About Portia: Portia Brown is the founder of Froeticsexology , a blog and social media platform that helps women and femmes identify who they are as sexual beings. She primaril...

In this episode I speak with Paul Sockett about writing erotica, asking for what you want and how to tell your own story in and out of the bedroom.    About Paul: I am a storyteller and creator. I am a lover of words, the Earth and a pun (the cheesier the better). I love starting things but not necessarily completing them. I am a professional actor and voice artist. I help people realign with thei...

In this episode I speak with Rebecca Wilson about how trauma can get stored in the body, how we can work on releasing blockages in the womb space and how these blockages can effect our sexuality and connection with self.    About Rebecca: Rebecca Wilson facilitates Shamanic Womb Healing & Rites Blessings. She is the Founder of Womb Connection- Healing- Awakening, which has been birthed from her pe...

In this episode I speak with Rebecca Harrison about consensual non monogamy. We chat about the different forms this can take, what the benefits are to having this type of relationship style and how to work on jealousy.    About Rebecca: I'm Rebecca, a queer, kink and non-monogamy positive sex and relationships therapist. I work with individuals, couples and groups to help them communicate more ope...

In this episode I speak with Hayley Cannon about the healing power of Transformational breath. We discuss how breathing in a specific way with added pressure points and affirmations can aid in recovering from sexual trauma and how this breath can help open us up to the idea of love and sex.    About Hayley Growing up I loved to write and play musical instruments. For as long as I can remember I've...

In this episode I speak with Dr Stephanie Minchin about the role of social media on our relationship with our bodies, how trauma can effect our relationships both with partners and our own sexuality as well as some yoga therapy tools on how to work on these issues.   About Steph: Dr Stephanie Minchin is a Clinical Psychologist, Yoga Therapist and Yoga Teacher who integrates yoga and psychology for...

In this episode I speak with Rob Keates and Julie Havelund from Acroyoga Collective. We discuss the importance of physical touch, how Acroyoga can help build trust and connection as well as why movement is good for our mental health and eroticism. About Acroyoga Collective: Combined, we have taught yoga, dance and AcroYoga for over ten years in institutions, studios and corporate settings. Buildin...

In this episode I speak with Stella Anna Sonnenbaum from StellaWithLove about the pressure penis owners feel to perform when in partnered sex. We discuss how this pressure can take them out of their pleasure and some techniques and ideas that can be used to bring the focus back on enjoyment.   About Stella: Stella Anna Sonnenbaum MPH CSSE is a Somatic Sexologist and Certified Somatic Sex Educator...

In this episode I speak with Aoife Drury about the orgasm/pleasure gap. The orgasm gap is the disparity between heterosexual men and women experiencing orgasms in coupled sex.  We zone in on the cultural attitudes to this, why this may be and back this up by research we have read.   About Aoife: Aoife is an Accredited Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist and is currently carrying out a Doctorat...

In this podcast I speak to Rosie Battimelli about the concept we are calling our partners are our mirrors. We discuss relationship dynamics, how people often fall into relationships where one person is a Lion and the other is a Unicorn (more on that in this podcast) and how this is backed up by ideas from attachment theory. About Rosie: Rosie is a mindset mentor, yoga teacher and womxn's empowerme...

In this episode I speak with Clara Gomez Santos about how to harness a healthy masculine energy. We discuss ways to cultivate this state and what the benefits are of doing this.  About Clara: Clara is an Intimacy & Empowerment guide, women’s mentor and facilitator of transformative processes. She has supported thousands on the path to wholeness and erotic empowerment through retreats, private sess...

In this podcast I speak with Viktoria Krug who is the owner of Vulvarium where she does vulva sculpting. We discuss connecting to the vulva, the anatomy of the vulva and how to battle shame around this topic.  Viks information is below: My name is Viki and I am the person behind Vulvarium and the vulva castings. On paper, I am 27 years old and Austrian, but it sometimes feels as if I have lived qu...

In this podcast I speak with Liz Joy Oakley about anxiety and how this can affect us in our bodies and in our relationships. We also discuss how this can affect our sex drive and the ability to tune into our bodies for pleasure.  About Liz: Liz Joy Oakley is a Holistic Well-being Coach, Yoga & Meditation Teacher and Writer based in London specialising in Yoga Therapy for Anxiety & Stress. Liz is a...

In this podcast I speak with Tom Corbishley about what we call 'being a square watermelon'. We discuss how our childhoods can shape us and how we may unconsciously choose our partners. Toms information and how to find him: After gaining a degree in Physics I worked in industry and marketing and then ran my own manufacturing business for over 30 years.  Following a 'life swerve' I was trained in ps...