Sex Stories: How To Do You

TW: includes formative kid-to-kid exploration stories. What do horny neighborhood boys do when they know it’s wrong to pressure a lady outside of wedlock, but still want to practice sex? Each other, apparently — at least in the neighborhood Oscar (60s straight cis male not super into labels and has learned the fun of cock play and sometimes will describe himself as “bi” on apps, from Southwest Pen...

Three hot audio sex stories from on-the-job ready by Wyoh. (1) Yummy-ma on reddit has her (it sounds like?) first physical encounter with a coworker who found her OF . (2) A dude at a print print shop makes a (possibly initially cringey without more context) move on his coworker and she spooks — and then he gets a surprise. (3) A physical therapist does his best to stay professional with a very bo...

Marina (42 bi cis F submissive alpha; secular Jewish upbringing, born in Russia, lived in Israel for 20 years, now in the US) is having the best sex she’s ever had, and she’s had some very hot sex with partners who had very yummy butts in the two decades she lived in Israel. Her current partner is in tune with her mentally, physically, spiritually—and exploring sex with a power dynamic is hot. The...

What started with self-empowerment has transformed into a career of full-body self-love. Jacquie Ray, the artist behind High Creatives, quit her full-time job five years ago, and has been creating art that has rewritten an old narrative of self-hatred and shame, and it even sounds like she’s healing some generational sh*t, too. She talks about creating beauty — using food in her highly colorful se...

His first partner knew what she liked, his second one was super open to exploring, his mom was *not* happy when she found his (kink-filled) journal as he entered adulthood, and later on in life, he had a greater understanding of why exactly. Master Wolfe (30s cis M queer leaning hetero-romantic; long-term monogamish life partnership / works in wellness & as a ProDom from the PNW, into power dy...

Wyoh’s monthly update episode & listener emails that might be relevant to the larger conversation including topics of squirting of penis-owners, shaming dude bodies, especially around penis size, and Wyoh’s sex work (or: sexual artist) journey. Then, details on the development of Dante, Wyoh’s Dominatrix character, PlayShip updates, snippets of visions for the full service creativity resort dr...

Sky Wind (34 he/him straight but open-minded cis male Black American, ENM, partnered, into hedonistic play and exploration, a creative professional from the South) is now a 1 on the shame-o-meter, has learned his sexual lessons through trial-and-error, and is as creative in his sex life as he is in his work as an artist. He talks about prioritizing partner pleasure, learning about different social...

What did the condom manufacturer say when Melanie Cristol, founder & CEO of Lorals was honest about the fact that she was looking to produce silky latex undies that are ultra thin super stretchy for oral sex, fingering, scissoring, for people who are sensitive to beards, periods, for nervous rimmers, shy people & more? Melanie and Wyoh talk about the value in learning implicit communicatio...

TW: first P-in-V sex was not consensual, and cultural messages led her to believe she wasn’t desirable post-virginity “loss,” so she went through a phase of dating heroin addicts until she left the states for an island life. Since then, Jaclyn (28 pansexual kinky submissive, monogamous, behavior analyst, works with individuals with disabilities and is getting her PhD studying human sexuality), has...

Wyoh shares an almost-sex-at-work story that is the origin of hot sex at work fantasies, works her way through a Reddit thread with a few sex stories, and wants to know what your sex at work *fantasy* of the moment is.   🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod! SDC: A place for swingers to connect FIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code L...

Axe (31 straight cis male; a switch and Librarian from the South) was married for four years and never penetrated his wife; he lost his virginity on a first date at age 30 just before the pandemic hit, and has been exploring kink and poly and what a compatible form of family might look like.* We talk of the desperation of wanting to learn as a submissive, and the moulding, forming and changing wor...

What are your sexual values? Cindy Gallop, founder & CEO of MakeLoveNotPorn, is on a mission to make it easier for every single person in the world to talk openly and easily about sex — in the name of world peace. Her mission aligns and overlaps with Wyoh’s vision of a more loving world, and in this Sex at Work episode, she tells us about how seeing real-world sex is already positively impacti...

Wyoh answers her own set of Sex at Work questions and talks about Mission 69 and catches up on her sexy work-related emails in this episode:   00:00 Hello lovely humans 33:52 a Listener YAY re: talking to his 17-year-old son about sex! 37:22 how an arthritis diagnosis led to a big load 38:32 I want to explore this brave new sexy world…where should I start? 43:40 beyond vanilla explorations, threes...

Adriana helps vagina-owners when it comes to money and sex and tells us how she works with clients to answer questions like, where does *my* desire come from? What does arousal mean? We talk g-spot orgasms and pussy ejaculations, learning from her mentor Deborah Sundahl, leading explorations in small groups, the pee feeling that goes with these deep explorations, bodies & vaginas as sacred, be...

What to do when you can’t finish your job right away… and there’s private space? This is a tale of horniness, storminess, curious friends, sharpies, sounding and includes contemplation of cum eating–and the danger of getting caught. Also includes an intro by Wyoh to explain the new Sex at Work format (interview / sex-at-work story / interview / Wyoh’s sex-at-work updates, repeat) and introduces F....

Cake creates specialty lubes and is out to make sex fun — this brand is a Mission 69 ally for sure, and there is even an on-pod surprise discount code offer. Mitch and Wyoh talk small condoms, how specialty lube fits into the list of FDA-approved items helps with social platforms, the silly hint of shame that still sticks with him, his experience as a sex-related startup finding investors, snug vs...

TW: extreme kink fantasies. Work-sexy is what sells, private-life-sexy is *very* kinky, and yes, there’s overlap. Mistress Venus, a full-service sex worker who has worked at a brothel and with private clients, gives their perspective on the sexiness of sex work, what they love about it, the eye-rolling offer they get from clients over and over, the thing people wanna do to their bellybutton, what...

Turns out, selling an after-sex cleanup tool is sexy, just not in the way you might think. Awkward Essentials isn’t talking about the pleasure parts, they’re talking about sticky, gooey, often embarrassing parts. Founder Frances Tang never expected to be the face of what’s known on TikTok as The Cum Sponge, but her personal displeasure at post-sex dribbling led her to found this hygiene company th...

TW: assault/rape. Drawing kinky queer people having sex in consensual ways set Sam (28 gender fluid mono/poly queer kinky brat) on a path of exploration and education and led them to create Shimpteeth, a place of sexy support. Sam and Wyoh talk Funishment Fridays, a monogamous first, the journey from corporate to learning & teaching about kinky/poly/sexy things, from juggling multiple partners...

Sex at Work is a look into the jobs, businesses and brands that help shape attitudes and norms around sex. Guests include sex educators, workers, and researchers, as well as media and industry leaders whose brands are relevant to sex lives everywhere. The goal is to explore ideas around sex and sexiness in different contexts, the ultimate goal is to create a more compassionate world. Wyoh Lee an a...

Exploring impact play, swinger parties, and the power of dominant caregiving—Windham shares how shame gave way to full-spectrum connection. 📈 STATS | 53 straight white cis man, divorced, partnered, kinky dom/daddy, former journalist, current higher ed professional, lives in Boston, into: chains, padlocks, saliva, pee, group sex, impact play, spanking benches, restraint furniture, homemade porn, a...

TW: sexual assault // partners AND a stranger. “I wanna be spoiled, I wanna be fucked, I wanna be cared for” …but GG (30 cis F Queer Queen Art XXXhibitionist Double Scorpio Witch & co-host of the Basic Witches Podcast, Actor Writer Comedian Sensual Artist, a Sexual Assault Survivor) *also* gets wet if a cock or pussy is in her mouth and she’s giving. These days, her partners all love going dow...

It’s not the size of Leo’s penis, it’s the way he feels when he uses his entire body to connect deeply with a lover. Controlling when he cums has been a struggle since his first partnered experience, but Leo (45 hetero-flexible cis M, boarding school teacher in Denmark) spent 18 years with his wife with whom he still has a beautiful and daily relationship with, and the last few years have been a n...

TW: grooming, assault, self-harm. “Fuck” is a bad word for “making babies” is an early memory of learning about sex, but sex ed in school also taught her about blowjobs. Lia (21 cis F kinky sub/brat lesbian studying psychology) & Wyoh talk childhood horniness, pretending to be a fly caught in a spider web on a rope jungle gym, and how curiosity and exploration led to interacting with an online...

TW: details of top surgery, mention of non-consensual & boundary-pushing experiences. Charlie (26 he/they w transmasc of center, polyamorous and partnered, a sub-leaning switch, filmmaker in Los Angeles) had to ask for a sex talk, was told masturbation could lead to hurt, and watched the same sex ed pancake video as Wyoh in school. They discovered a bratty side with their first boyfriend in hi...