Sex Love Psychedelics

What do you think of when you hear the terms sex work or stripping? In this episode we talk with author + sex worker Lana Shay about expanding the concept of sex work to be seen as a potential for sacredness, a gift, + an expression of personal agency + power. In this episode you’ll hear: What it’s like behind the scenes working at a gentleman’s club How sex work can be empowering for the performe...

Starting a new love? Or maybe you’re just running into the same barriers to intimacy? This episode I share with you some of the common patterns of relating that may have helped you survive your young years, but doesn’t help when it comes to finding + keeping love now. In this episode you’ll hear: What are the concepts of authenticity + self love + why can they be a challenge to practice? Defense m...

What makes a good dominant? How does one even start on the path of exploring BDSM? Professional + lifestyle dominatrix, Mistress Justine Cross takes us on a little walk through the fun + exciting exploration of the different personas that exist as parts of you. She shares with us about different styles of domination, as well as, practical tools to help you lean into the edge + try it on. In this e...

For many men + women who have experienced trauma in the past, the thought of having pain free, stress free, or maybe even enjoyable sexual experience may feel out of our reach. It may feel like our body + brain are not working on the same team, causing us to feel overwhelmed + at times hopeless. Luckily, I’ve got some strategies to help you along your journey of reclamation. In this episode you’ll...

Do you identify yourself as a sexual person? In what ways do you act in order to keep yourself from expanding even more? Alexandra Roxo is here to take our hands through the path of sexual liberation, rewriting the narratives of what we’ve known ourselves to be in order to create space for our highest sexual expression. In this episode you’ll hear: Practices to heal our wounds that block us from o...

What’s your relationship like with your breasts? In this episode we are going to second base with Raea Campbell here to teach us why it’s important to titillate our titties to orgasm, how self care can be super sexy, + the how to reestablish a relationship with your breasts after trauma, cancer, or surgery. In this episode you’ll hear: The poor relationships we have with our breasts due to social...

Have you ever started dating someone only to realize that you’re repeating a pattern of dating the same type you did before? We tell ourselves, I’m never going to date someone like that ever again...and then we do. Only in a different package. A smokin’ hot, babe of a different package...but same none-the-less. In this episode we get into some of the more complex layers of attachment theory so you...

What if kindness was cool + we took effort + interest towards compassion of others? What if we gave ourselves more self love + permission to be where we are at? What if we turn obstacles into opportunities to learn more about who we are as relational beings? Well that’s what Dr. Jeremy Goldberg of Long Distance Love Bombs talks about it with me in this week’s episode. Whether you’ve got too much t...

Is this quarantine bringing to the surface how boring and disconnected your sex is? Perhaps you’re both speaking different sexual languages, assuming the other should be speaking the same. Or maybe you’re single, homebound, + horny! Not to worry, Ian Ferguson, master trainer of the Erotic Blueprint Methodology is here to save your sexy ass from falling to the perils of boring sex. In this episode...

Have you ever been curious about non-monogamy or opening your relationship? In this episode I muse about my own experiences, common misperceptions, challenges, and strategies to help you start the conversation + considerations for navigation. As the concept of ‘relationship’ evolves, let’s make sure we are making decisions based on what is true for us so we can better co-create love the way that w...

In seven seconds, your first presentation makes a lasting impression and judgement from those you meet. Scary thought, huh? Holistic stylist and fashion guru Kim Apadoca shares with us the psychology behind the fashion we choose to wear and how it’s impacting our confidence and potential in dating success. Kim takes us through her tips and tricks to keeping your closet the perfect expression of yo...

How we define beauty influences the actions we take to achieve it. Unfortunately, some of those trending actions are also causing destruction to our bodies...and we don’t even know it. Here we’ve got my former co-host Diane Kazer back talking to use about toxic beauty regimens, the physical impact of botox + implants on our internal systems, + how we can make efforts in changing the social convers...

How can we be both a man who is safe + a man women sexually crave? Destin Gerek talks to us about the complex changes in our social climate around what it means to be ‘masculine’ and how it’s impacting our sex + love lives. He shared with us his newly launched book around being an ‘evolved masculine’ and how one can master his sexuality while still maintaining strength in integrity, safety, and co...

Can we be single on purpose? John Kim of The Angry Therapist suggests this is a key in co-creating the relationships we want without the repeating toxic patterns of former love. Tune in as we get SUPER real and raw about our own past dating patterns, the importance of being authentic, and how to mitigate the fears that arise around being seen as ‘creepy’ or ‘too much.’   In this episode you’l...

Have you ever been curious about what happens at a sex party? Or maybe you’ve had fantasies about going, but just don’t know how to go about it. In this episode I share with you my top tips on navigating with as much ease and pleasure as possible. From the time you get the invitation to the post decompression after, you’ll be sure to get the best advice and story shares from me.    In th...

We grew up in the age of low-fat, fat-free, no-carb, sugar-free, Atkins diet culture. Telling us that juicing and detoxing is the way, and yet...we still aren’t feeling good. Enter Whitney Catalano to flip these concepts on their head and bring us back to the intelligence of our bodies. We talk about the challenges + misperceptions around emotional eating, breaking the binge cycle, and the impact...

Is it a good idea to become friends with our exes? In this episode I muse about my thoughts about forming friendships after the partnership has ended. What are some of the considerations we need to make? I share with you the reasons why it would be a bad idea and then how it could be good. You’ll hear some of my own personal insights from relationships that did evolve into the best friendships whi...

Can boudoir photography be an empowering experience or is it an objectification of the female body? I join my favorite boudoir photographer Kabir Cardenas as we dive into the transformative experience that this type of photography can ignite. He shares with us tips and tricks for photographers and women alike, as well as, his experience being a male in the industry and the importance of making wom...

Finding a good gynecologist with whom you resonate with can be a trick. Dr. Lisa Valle gives us great tips on interviewing and advocating to your doctor the best health for your vagina. She even shares with us some of the common and rare conditions she sees in her office and regular practices you can get into to support your sexuality. What you'll hear in this episode: Tips on finding a gynecologi...

Dating can be confusing and frustrating for everyone trying to decipher the cryptic messages of the other involved. I get it! In this episode, Dr. Ali Binazir shares with us his tips on dating for the badass, powerhouse woman from the perspective of a man and the Tao eastern philosophy. This is a great episode to help you reflect on your own patterns, internal dialogue, and misassumptions that may...

With so many events and change to our social climate, how is this impacting our men in the dating and relationship world? Robert Kandell is here to lay out a powerful image of what he’s seeing impacting men’s ability to connect with themselves, the powerful modern woman, and the true tactics to leading a love life more optimally.  In this episode you’ll hear about: Social pressures and their...

What we’ve been taught about the herpes has been widely miseducated, misunderstood, and been the source of major fear and shame in our society. Luckily, it doesn’t have to be OUR story. In this episode we talk with Adrial Dale of The Herpes Opportunity about how a diagnosis can be a powerful experience for us to challenge shame narratives, what we understand as ‘sex’, and ultimately find greater s...

What does it mean to be a WILD WOMAN and how does one come to embody this? We’ve got Rachel Pringle author of the juiciest erotic poetry book, Wild Open, here to share with us the difference between sensuality and eroticism.  We get into practices of reclaiming and loving the self, turning yourself on, and unlocking new ways of being that is more liberated and expansive. In this episode you’l...

How can we prepare our bodies, souls, + lifestyle to best support the entering of children into our family. In this episode we talk with Jocelyn Gordon about navigating the stages of birth most effectively while maintaining intimacy with our partner throughout + following. In this episode you’ll learn:  How you can prepare for conception consciously + on many levels  Keeping intimacy str...

How do we continue to liberate ourselves, come into our fullest expression, AND navigate the deep cultural conditioning about what our bodies and sensuality have meant? In this episode you hear my musings on what's going on in our society regarding the Free the Nipple movement, 'toxic masculinity', and the wounded past that affects it all. I share with you what happens when we trigger others for b...