Heather Shannon

Sex For Couples with Heather Shannon

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Sex For Couples is a podcast for committed couples who feel stressed, guilty, or frustrated about their sex life—and want to feel excited, close, and playful again. New episodes are released every Monday. Hosted by Heather Shannon, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist with 19 years of experience as a counselor and coach, the show breaks down the emotional and psychological reasons intimacy fades and what actually helps couples reconnect. Heather has been featured on BloomTV and quoted in Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health, SELF, Glamour, and more. She is a Gottman-trained couples counselor, an Internal...

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Heather Shannon

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Health

Podcast website

heathershannon.co

Latest episode

Jun 29, 2026

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Episodes

Why High-Achieving Women Lose Desire (It’s Not Hormones) 22.12.2025

Looking to get out of your sex rut? Book a free consultation with a member of the Ask A Sex Therapist coaching team! https://form.jotform.com/253156356665060 AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and host Heather Shannon speaks with Naturopathic Doctor Jordin Wiggins about the challenges faced by high achieving women in their intimate relationships. In particular, Jordin share how women's "supertraits" c...

How to Have Incredible Sex Without a Perfect Erection 15.12.2025

If sex is feeling stressful, book a free Unlock Your Passion call with Heather to find out about her Pathway to Passion coaching program. https://HeatherShannon.co. In this episode, Heather introduces Kristin Vyas, a sex and intimacy coach who has joined the Ask A Sex Therapist team. Kristen shares the top sex issues she sees with clients including erectile dysfunction, mismatched libidos and sham...

The Real Benefits of Ethical Non-Monogamy When You Do It Right (ep 154) 08.12.2025

Certified Sex Therapist Heather Shannon discusses ethical non-monogamy, addressing common fears, misconceptions, and the various forms it can take. She emphasizes the importance of timing, communication, and setting boundaries in non-monogamous relationships. The conversation also explores the emotional complexities involved, including jealousy and compersion, and how non-monogamy can serve as a m...

How a Former Disney Employee Learned to Embrace Dark Sexual Fantasies Without Shame (ep. 153) 01.12.2025

Tap into your sexual creativity and get past fear and repression. Embrace your darker fantasies without having to make them real! Certified Sex Therapist & Host, Heather Shannon, interviews guest Bria Rose about her journey from working at Disney to becoming a successful author of dark, sexy fairy tales. She discusses the importance of exploring fantasies through fiction, and her personal jour...

The Science of Sexual Desire: The 1 Factor That Changes Everything (Ep 152) 24.11.2025

Learn about Dr. Jack Morin's equation for sexual desire and how you can make that equation work more in your favor! One of the most common things we all want in our sex lives is feeling wanted. And yet it can be elusive! Even when we have mutual physical attraction with our partner, it doesn't always spark sexual desire. Listen in to learn why feeling wanted is important to us, how we feel affecte...

Become Sexually Magnetic: Best-Selling Author Shares How (Ep. 151) 17.11.2025

This week on Ask A Sex Therapist , we explore how aligning with your authentic feminine energy can transform not only your confidence but your sex life. With the help of Inna Segal, an intuitive energy healer and award-winning author of The Secret Language Of Your Body, we break down how polarity builds sexual attraction, why balance within is magnetic, and how shifting your energy can reignite th...

Listener Q & A: Double Penetration Strap-On, Fluctuating Sex Drives, Performance Anxiety & Sex Without Pleasure 10.11.2025

Certified Sex Therapist answers questions about strap-ons for double penetration, managing mismatched sex drives, psychological erection issues, and the importance of emotional intimacy in relationships. Heather provides insights and advice on how to navigate these personal challenges, emphasizing communication and mindfulness as key tools for improving sexual health and relationship satisfaction....

Feeling Like Roommates? How To Create Sexual Tension and Excitement (ep. 149) 03.11.2025

Stop feeling like roommates and start feeling like lovers again! Figure out how you fell into this rut and how to change up your patterns. This solo episode gets into the themes of social dynamics, charisma, and embracing healthy obstacles as a good thing for sexual attraction. Host and Certified Sex Therapist Heather Shannon discusses the importance of healthy boundaries, having your own thing go...

How To Stop Letting Past Sexual Trauma Interfere With Your Sex Life with Shannon Curtis 27.10.2025

Apply for Founding Member status and help shape Heather's new Intimacy Collective program --> https://forms.gle/hyLr3LSoxadrvusM6 EPISODE SUMMARY In this conversation, Shannon Curtis shares her profound journey of healing from sexual trauma, emphasizing the importance of reclaiming personal power, understanding shame, and fostering intimacy. She discusses her experiences with trauma, the role o...

Creating Intimacy After Loss and Heartbreak (Ep 147) 20.10.2025

In this conversation, Heather Shannon discusses the themes of loss, heartbreak, and the resilience of the human spirit. Drawing from her personal experiences, she emphasizes the importance of finding inner security and embracing vulnerability in relationships. Heather shares insights on how to navigate grief, the significance of community, and the necessity of self-reflection in fostering intimacy...

The Thing Most People Are Missing About How To Be A Great Lover! (Ep 146) 13.10.2025

Go deep on how to be a great lover! It's not the surface level stuff that we often get hung up on that makes someone "good at sex." Learn about the importance of presence and attunement for higher quality sex and better connection. --- Curious about coaching with Heather? Start out with her quickie assessment so you can identify your patterns and get an action plan to change them. The Quickie For...

Keeping Your Sexual Connection Alive In A Long-Term Relationship with Emily Nagoski (ep 145) 06.10.2025

Summary Join me and amazing guest Emily Nagoski as we discuss the complexities of maintaining intimacy in long-term relationships. Emily uses the metaphor of a garden to illustrate how sexuality requires ongoing care and attention. We cover the importance of communication, overcoming shame, and understanding the impact of upbringing on sexual expression. Emily emphasizes the need for playfulness a...

A Surprising New Framework for Finding Your Relationship’s Sexual Spark (ep 144) 29.09.2025

Join us at The Desire Revival to get past low or mismatched libidos keeping your sex life stuck. Register here: https://TheDesireRevival.com In this episode, I introduce the Target Zone Framework, a tool designed to help people evaluate their relationships based on two key dimensions: spark energy and home energy. I define both dimensions with an emphasis on the idea that home energy is foundation...

Should You Turn Your Basement Into A BDSM Dungeon? with Amy Rowan (Ep 143) 22.09.2025

Got mismatched libidos? We can fix that! Grab your free ticket to The Desire Revival at https://TheDesireRevival.com . ~ In this episode, join Heather and guest Sexologist, Amy Rowan, to explore Amy and her husband's exciting evolution from a mostly vanilla sex life to having "hard points" in the basement dungeon for rope suspension. Learn how trust, vulnerability and emotional intimacy led to sex...

6 Types of Mental Foreplay for More Frequent Sex (Ep 142) 16.09.2025

In this episode, Heather discusses the concept of mental foreplay, emphasizing non-touch ways to get in the mood for sex. Chapters 00:00 Exploring Mental Foreplay 09:40 The Power of Laughter and Fun 13:41 Physical Activity and Its Impact 16:46 Grooming and Style for Confidence 18:29 The Allure of Availability and Independence Survey Our Ask A Sex Therapist Podcast survey is still underway! Help th...

How To Seduce Your Woman Using Sexual Personality Types w/Susan Bratton 08.09.2025

Quit trying to seduce the woman in your life using your own assumptions and start approaching her based on her sexual personality type. You'll thank us for the results! In this episode, Susan Bratton (our most downloaded guest), shares 4 sexual personality types and how to strategically approach women who fall into each category. You're in for a treat! Please excuse a few audio glitches in this ep...

Embracing Your Wild Side & Sexy Surveys (Ep. 140) 01.09.2025

Hey Friends! Please take this podcast survey and accept a $10 Amazon gift card as a token of my appreciation: https://forms.gle/oRqyaTokxxumnhy47 The show is only going to be getting better : ) Thanks, Heather This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Podtrac - https://analytics.podtrac.com/privacy-policy-gdrp

Is Perimenopause Killing Your Mental Health And Sex Life? with Amita Sharma(Ep. 139) 25.08.2025

Join Heather and NourishDocs founder Amita Sharma for a better understanding of how menopause impacts your mental health, marriage and sex life and what you can do to help yourself have a smooth transition in this phase of life. Chapters: 00:00 Breaking the Silence on Menopause 02:39 Personal Journeys Through Perimenopause 05:39 Understanding Symptoms and Their Impact 08:14 Navigating Hormonal Cha...

Discover What You Really Want in Bed: A Guide to Sexual Adventures (ep. 138) 11.08.2025

In this episode, Heather guides listeners how to bring a sense of adventure and exploration to their sex lives. Understanding Your Sexual Identity How to differentiate between what you think you "should" want versus what actually excites you Recognizing that preferences can evolve and change over time Moving past shame or judgment around desires that feel "different" Communication and Exploration...

Are Porn and Masturbation Hurting Your Sex Life? With Aaron Frazin (ep. 137) 28.07.2025

Do you sometimes wonder if porn and/or masturbation are having a negative impact on your actual sex life? In this episode, Heather Shannon interviews Aaron Frazen, a sex and relationship coach, who shares his transformative journey from a successful tech entrepreneur to a passionate advocate for sexual health and intimacy. They delve into the complexities of masturbation and porn, discussing commo...

Emotional Intimacy - The Key To Better Sex! (Ep 136) 14.07.2025

Heather discusses the importance of emotional intimacy and vulnerability in relationships, particularly in the context of sexual connections. She shares personal experiences and insights on how being vulnerable can enhance relationships, both romantic and platonic. The discussion also covers the connection between emotional and physical intimacy, the significance of communication, and practical st...

Get Out Of Your Head During Sex - Jessi Marino on Embodiment 30.06.2025

In this conversation, Heather Shannon and Jessi Marino explore the concept of embodiment, discussing its significance in personal healing, relationships, and sexuality. Jessi shares her personal journey from dissociation to finding home in her body, emphasizing the importance of presence and the capacity to feel a wide range of emotions. They delve into societal teachings that view the body as a m...

EP: 134 Sexual Connection and Overcoming Dead Bedrooms with Caitlin V. 16.06.2025

TRANSFORM YOUR SEX LIFE & HAPPINESS Apply for a free Intimacy Breakthrough Call to learn about Heather’s Pathway to Passion coaching method: https://heathershannon.co/new-clients/ In this episode of 'Ask a Sex Therapist,' I welcome Caitlin V, a renowned sex and relationship coach. Caitlin specializes in helping men with erectile dysfunction, performance anxiety, and premature ejaculation, and...

Announcement: Summer Podcast Schedule 09.06.2025

Hey all! I'm switching to every other week for June, July & August. If you've been listening and not making changes yet, sign up for a Quickie Coaching Package here --> Get Unstuck In Your Sex Life! Take my Why You're Stuck In A Sex Rut quiz at https://TheBetterBedroom.com Love ya'll! And look out for my guest episode with YouTuber Caitlin V next week : ) This podcast uses the following thi...

EP. 133: No More BV, UTIs and Yeast: Restore Your Vaginal Health for Better Sex—with Wendy Strgar. 02.06.2025

DEEPEN YOUR INTIMACY & WELL-BEING Apply for a free Intimacy Breakthrough Call to learn about Heather’s Pathway to Passion coaching method: https://heathershannon.co/new-clients/ Unveiling the Secrets of Vaginal Microbiome Health with Wendy Strgar In this episode of 'Ask a Sex Therapist,' I welcome Wendy Strgar, founder of Good Clean Love and Womankind Care. Wendy dives deep into her journey of...

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