Self Improvement, Mindfulness and Mental Health Tips - The Coached Soul Podcast

Steve and Kenaya's discussion on embracing who we are in communication is an essential reminder that our interactions with others are influenced by how we see ourselves. If we have a low sense of self-value, we will likely behave in ways that compromise our self-respect and self-worth. We may find ourselves in toxic relationships or constantly seeking validation from others. On the other hand, if...

Steve is excited to have Kenya as the new co-host. Kenya is a musician and does music therapy to guide women to embrace their true selves, overcome past trauma, and find their unique voice. As a musician, she understands the power of tuning into your mind's voice, and she's even written a song on how to rid ourselves of "Being the Victim." In today's episode, we'll explore ways to disengage from n...

This podcast, "I'm Fine" is phrase that should depend on the context and relationship. A deeper conversation can be prompted if there is genuine concern for the person. In more casual situations, an acknowledgement with care can suffice. People should also recognize moments when "I am fine" isn't honest. Addressing emotional and psychological needs can allow for constructive solutions.

In the second part of the podcast, Steve joins Kenya to discuss ways in which individuals can overcome feelings of inadequacy. Kenya emphasizes the importance of assessing whether one's needs are being met and identifies how factors from our past may influence our present state through a specific combination of "frequency, vibration and code." She then shares strategies on how to channel a healthi...

During his interview, Steve spoke with Kenya, a co-author of My Two Cents of Self-Love, about her background of abandonment and how she overcame it. Kenya, who hails from Brazil, came to America when she was 22. Despite experiencing trauma, she could identify "magic moments" from her childhood that helped her on her path to healing. When her bio father left her at 3, Kenya internalized that as a p...

On his podcast, Steve converses with Christine Jones, who serves as a school teacher, parent, and foster parent and has also penned a a chapter to be include in an international number one best-selling book about self-love. Christine shares her insights with women on how to improve their self-love and delves deeper into her personal experiences, emphasizing the importance of looking within rather...

During his podcast, Steve interviews Christine Jones, a school teacher who shares her newfound experience of publishing in an internationally bestselling book. The conversation centers around Christine's passion for becoming a teacher and the satisfaction she derives from impacting young minds positively. She emphasizes her desire to assist parents in generating ideas to help their children and hi...

During the second part of the podcast series, Steve engages in an insightful conversation with Nathalie Villeneuve, a highly talented artist and celebrated author. Nathalie shares her personal experiences of battling with a severe medical condition during her childhood and how she surmounted the difficulties to emerge as an accomplished artist and writer. In addition, Nathalie provides valuable kn...

During Steve's interview, he speaks with an artist who uses her art to escape her world as a coping mechanism. Nathalie Villeneuve, a French-Canadian residing in Connecticut, has achieved as number one international success as a bestselling author. She collaborated with Steve on an anthology called My Two Cents of Self Love. Nathalie honed her artistic abilities and literary expertise as a means o...

Steve and Julia wish you a Happy and Safe Fourth of July. Steve discusses with Julia the importance of being mindful of this holiday. As a therapist, it is crucial to recognize that the loud and explosive nature of the 4th of July festivities, particularly fireworks, can be triggering for individuals with PTSD and veterans who have experienced traumatic events during their service. The sudden, int...

During their discussion, Steve and Julia explored alternative ways to experience the thrill of life that do not involve consuming alcohol. Instead, they emphasized the importance of cultivating positivity. By integrating positive thinking and enjoyable activities into their daily lives, individuals can have a more rewarding and fulfilling existence. This approach fosters optimism and helps people...

In the studio today, Steve warmly welcomes Dina Fortune who is among thirty other authors of a future anthology book called “My Two Cents of Self Love” being released July 7, 2023. The book focuses on journaling, writing, and inner child work. Dina emphasizes the benefits of journaling about our past, including self-awareness, emotional processing, personal growth tracking, legacy creation, and im...

Artist and co-author of My Two Cents of Self-Love, soon to be released in July 2023, discusses her work on her inner child and how she developed loving herself. Steve and Dina discuss her inner child and permit her to allow the child to speak. The inner child is a concept in psychology that refers to the childlike aspects of a person’s personality, emotions, and behaviors still present in adulthoo...

Is getting your hair done self-care or maintenance? Is going on a cruise self-care?  When faced with a crisis, staying calm and processing is essential. Determine the severity of the situation and develop a plan of action. Communicate clearly with others involved and establish priorities. Steve and Julia discuss self-care in a crisis. It is about transparency and honesty in all communications to m...

Steve and Julia have learned the reasons for emotional well-being in their professional and private lives. Do you have or practice self-care? Self-care is essential because it helps individuals reduce stress, prevent burnout, and improve their overall quality of life. It also helps individuals prioritize their needs and make self-care a part of their daily routine, which can lead to increased prod...

Steve and Julia discuss Memorial Day and grief. Prolonged grief disorder is a condition that affects some individuals who have lost a loved one, but especially those who are and have served in the military. Do you know what a quarter means on the headstone when you visit a veteran? With Memorial Day around the corner, it's important to remember the sacrifices that soldiers have made for our countr...

This week Steve discusses the Human Magnet Syndrome. The Narcissist and Codependent Human Magnet Syndrome, is a pattern of relating where individuals with codependent tendencies are drawn into relationships with narcissistic partners. The codependent is attracted to the narcissist's confident and assertive traits, while the narcissist feeds off the codependent's need for validation and approval. T...

Steve and Julia discuss anxious attachment. Anxious attachment style relates to others based on fear of abandonment and a constant need for reassurance. People with this attachment style tend to overthink and overanalyze their relationships, feeling insecure and needy. They may also be hypersensitive to signs of rejection or distance from their partner. This attachment style typically develops in...

Steve and Julia discuss disorganized attachment. One of the hardest to overcome due to narcissistic and other personality disorders are birthed. Disorganized attachment style is a type of attachment style where a person has inconsistent and unpredictable behaviors in relationships. This type of attachment style often stems from childhood trauma or abuse, and individuals with disorganized attachmen...

Steve discusses another attachment disorder. Avoidant attachment refers to an attachment pattern where individuals avoid close emotional relationships and intimacy. People with avoidant attachment often have difficulty trusting others, fear emotional vulnerability, and may minimize the importance of relationships in their lives. They value independence and self-sufficiency and may prioritize work...

Do you feel you can be free with your emotions without the fear of rejection, judgment, or abandonment? If so, you might be one of the 66% of people who have secure attachments. What is a secure attachment? It is one of the healthiest of the four attachment styles. Steve discusses how to create a secure attachment for your child and what that looks like as an adult.

Ever wonder what causes you to attract the person that you are with and then end up in a relationship that is not healthy? Do birds of a feather flock together? Steve discusses attachment styles, what makes attachment an attachment style as an adult, and where it begins. Listen to this weeks and future discussions on attachment styles.

Are your mental and medical files safe? Julia and Steve discuss personal situations about privacy and the potential dangers surrounding your privacy.

One of the most controversial subjects in the medical community is your right to privacy. Steve and Julia discuss your mental and medical privacy in a new Oklahoma state bill, 1369. It isn't what you think and what legislators want you to believe. You don't want to miss this two-part series.

Does it seem like you argue most or all the time in your relationship? What is the cause of chaos in a relationship? Julia and Steve discuss relationship chaos, which can be an addiction to most people. Tune in to this podcast to learn how to manage the chaos.