Self Care and Chill With Maui

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This episode we talk about having sex too fast. Is there a time limit? What should we look for when dating someone? How do I know of things are moving too fast or if this person is worth my time? I hope you enjoy! Follow on social media at @selfcarexchill @maui_w @thesoftestlife

This episode is for single people who are just tired of being by themselves. I feel you, I understand you and I get it. It will be worth it in the end knowing that you didn’t settle! Use the code LOVE at mauithewriter.com for free shipping on my relationship books

This episode we talk about not feeling considered or appreciated within your relationship. Something that I feel is super important in order for a relationship to prosper and work. We also talk about how lonely and ugly your self love journey can be in the beginning stages when you are trying to figure out who you are. This journey is not about being perfect, it is about making progress to be a be...

Today we did a Q&A and just some mini advice and words of encouragement for anyone who has been wasting their time with someone who doesn’t want any tittles. Use code MAUIDARES at Dare To Have Hair for your hair!! Happy self care Sunday!

So on this episode we discuss what exactly is cheating, what are the dos and do nots while on a break and guys who are nice but do not want to be in a relationship. Make sure you follow on Instagram at @selfcarexchill and @maui_w

This episode we talk about splitting responsibilities in the household. The bills aren’t my issue, it’s the men who do not realize that they are requiring their women to do all of this housework and still GO TO WORK.

The title says it all. Today I am talking about staying in a relationship after your partner has cheated and trying to navigate that relationship. Make sure you follow on Instagram @selfcarexchill and Maui The Writer on YouTube

This episode we talk about getting through feeling alone, not liking who we see in the mirror and learning to feel better about ourselves. Make sure you subscribe to the YouTube Maui The Writer and follow the instagram pages @selfcarexhill and @thesoftestlife

This episode I answer a listener’s question about her relationship she currently has with a man that is married. What should she do? Should she move on or is it okay because he isn’t happy? Make sure you run into this episode. Follow on social media @selfcarexchill and @thesoftestlife

This episode we discuss some things we can work on to make our relationship better and healthier. Make sure you follow on Instagram @selfcarexchill and follow @thesoftestlife

This episode I talk about what my self love journey looked like in the beginning for me, what I learned in some relationships and what made me start it. I hope someone needed to hear this today. Make sure you follow on Instagram @selfcarexchill and @thesoftestlife

This episode is for the ones who are always nice to everyone when they like someone or are dating. Liking people way too fast, doing the most and not thinking of yourself. Meet me in Wilmington De 8/31. Make sure you follow on Instagram @selfcarexchill and @thesoftestlife

Todays episode I talk about making sure you can reciprocate what you require. A lot of people are looking for other people to show up in areas in their life where they lack and looking for void fillers. Being honest and accountable if this is us in relationships and doing the work to change that. Make sure you follow on Instagram @selfcarexchill and @thesoftestlife

This episode we talk about how do we know when it is time to leave someone. Knowing our worth, creating boundaries and not allowing people to treat us how they see fit. Hopefully this is confirmation for someone who has been trying for far too long to make something work with a person who continues to do things to jeopardize everything. Make sure you follow @selfcarexchill and @thesoftestlife on I...

On this episode I am talking to the people who are finding it hard to let go of someone because the sex is good or they have caught feelings for someone who they only have been having sex with. Realizing that the standards we have for ourselves should be more than how well someone can have sex with us. Make sure you follow these instagram pages @selfcarexchill and @thesoftestlife

This episode we talk about all of the social media talk we hear about women needing to be this or be that for a man. There are too many posts telling women how to treat a man and not enough statements to help women understand what type of man deserves that type of treatment or helping men understand women more or treat them better. But have no fear, Maui is here and she has an opinion. Make sure y...

This is one of my favorite episodes I have did in a while. I went through messages sent to the self care page and many of them were very sad relating to what people are settling for in relationships. On this episode we talk about what we love ourselves more than. I hope someone really needed to hear this today. Check out the instagram page @selfcarexchill and make sure you check out @fitbeads.co a...

So you have been talking to someone for months and they still aren’t ready for a relationship? Well here is what I think about wasting your time by allowing someone to string you on. This episode also features our partner @fitbeads.co where you can use my code MAUI20 for 20% off your first order of waist beads.

On todays podcast episode we discuss the people who have sex too fast during the dating stage. YES, you can do what you want with your body but it’s also okay to wait until you’re comfortable. I also have partnered with @fitbeads.co and you can use my code MAUI20 for 20% off your first order of waist beads, you know we love a good discount 💙

This episode we talk about the people who are choosing to be in relationships with people who do nothing for them. The people who are laying next to someone right now who couldn’t help them with an electric bill or the candles they will need when they are in the dark. Let’s rescue these people from the bare minimum.

On this episode we talk about what real partnership is in a relationship and what that looks like to you. What could you or your partner be doing to make sure that you both are showing up as team players everyday?

This episode we talk about not wanting to be hurt so we walk through life trying to avoid the very thing that we continue to attract. So what can we personally do differently, so that we can receive different outcomes? Make sure you follow on instagram at @selfcarexchill

This episode is a short one to give my favorite podcast listeners a recap on what has been going on with me, I hope you enjoy. You can also check out @womb.ish on instagram for doulas and also doula training.

Today we discuss people showing no effort, we also discuss men lacking the leadership qualities that it takes to allow women to be in tune with their softness and femininity. Two of the books I’m reading are Sacred Woman by Queen Afua and Taming the Tiger Within by Thich Nhat Hanh. Also check out @Anpu1.1 instagram page this is the live that I have been checking out lately.