Seeing Other People

My husband Jake is back on the show to discuss our journey thus far as a married couple. We reflect on our four-years together and discuss how we've changed individually throughout our relationship. We discuss surviving Valentine's Day single and we answer listener questions about navigating friendships when you dislike a friend's partner, handling being a +1 at weddings, and identifying red flags...

We sit down with Dr. Tara Suwinyattichaiporn , a sexologist and professor, and her husband Brent Estabrook , an artist, to explore their unique love story. The couple recounts their initial meeting on a flight in 2019, their evolving relationship during COVID, and how they navigated their way from friends with benefits to a committed relationship. They discuss important themes such as the signific...

Ricky Liorti joins us to discuss how he's made his single years some of the best years of his life, even while navigating the emotional impacts of a breakup. Ricky shares how he turned his rollercoaster of love and heartbreak into art through his book Heartbreak Love . He opens up about therapy, the importance of prioritizing oneself, and the critical role emotional support plays in relationships....

Vanessa Gordon , CEO of East End Taste Magazine , shares her journey of reentering the dating world after her divorce. From being married for 17 years to discovering casual dating in Europe, Vanessa opens up about her personal growth, challenges, and the newfound freedom of being Vanessa 2.0. She discusses the significant impact of her past relationships on her identity and offers advice for other...

On today's episode, Julie Krafcik and Yue Xu of the Dateable Podcast return to discuss their new book, ' How to Be Dateable .' They delve into the importance of vulnerability, self-knowledge, and authenticity in modern dating, addressing the traps of contemporary dating culture such as the 'settling paradox' and 'relationship chicken.' They emphasize the significance of showing up and being intent...

I'm joined by a woman in her thirties living in a small mountain town, who opens up about her experiences navigating singlehood, repeated heartbreaks, and the complexities of dating in a small town close-knit community. She delves into the impact of infidelity, unrequited love, and emotionally unavailable partners, as well as the challenges of moving on while constantly encountering exes. Despite...

Renee Reina , founder of ' The Mom Room ' and host of ' The Mom Room Podcast ,' joins the show to discuss the expectations versus reality of marriage and the dynamic shifts in relationships after having children. Drawing from her background in psychology and her experiences as a mother and content creator, Renee offers insights into balancing personal goals with relationship responsibilities, the...

A former anonymous Unfiltered guest is back to share her experiences with the importance of self-validation, solo traveling, and the nuances of modern friendships. The guest, who recently lost her job, shares insightful anecdotes on maintaining self-esteem and navigating life amidst singlehood and uncertainty of what lies ahead. We emphasize the significance of meaningful relationships and how to...

In this episode, we sit down with Thais Gibson , an attachment style expert and founder of The Personal Development School. Thais shares her background and how her chaotic childhood inspired her to delve into the world of relationships and attachment styles. She explains the four major attachment styles—secure, anxious, dismissive avoidant, and fearful avoidant—and their origins and effects on adu...

Carli, a former Unfiltered guest, is back to share her recent experience dealing with "the shift" AKA a sudden communication change in the early stages of dating someone new. She shares how she's approached the shift by managing her anxiety, being upfront, and communicating her needs. We share advice on how to approach dating when things start to feel off, and we answer listener questions about ma...

In today's episode, we welcome Nicole Pellegrino and Caroline Crawford Patterson , co-hosts of the podcast Honey, We're Home . The conversation covers everything from the unexpected depths of friendships formed in adulthood to the evolving dynamics of long-term relationships. Caroline and Nicole share personal anecdotes about meeting their partners in college, dealing with life's unexpected challe...

We welcome back Erika Ettin to get her best dating coaching tips. Erika takes us through her journey from tracking her own online dating experiences to becoming a top dating coach and building her thriving business 'A Little Nudge'. We delve into her approach of giving hard truths with kindness, managing dating app messages, and offering effective online dating strategies. We'll explore modern dat...

We're getting deep for our annual EOY episode. Camila Vola (my fabulous editor and associate producer) interviews me as I reflect on one hell of a year. I open up about what I've struggled with, the challenges I face with my job, and what I wish I could do differently. We talk about the highs and lows of wedding planning, how I've grown and what I've added to my life in 2024 that I'm bringing into...

Jenn and Robbie are here to inspire you with their incredible journey of long-distance love. They share how they met through an app across state lines, navigated the complexities of a relationship between New York and Austin, and overcame the odds to build a life together. They also offer practical dating advice, emphasizing the importance of following your gut and the right timing in relationship...

In this episode, relationship therapist Mackinzie Rummell returns to discuss crucial topics in dating and relationships. Mackenzie shares insights on dating intentionally for marriage, managing vulnerability and anxiety in relationships, and handling conflicts both early and in long-term dating. We also answered listener questions, including dealing with snooping on a partner's internet history, b...

I welcome Mackinzie Rummell , a relationship therapist based in California, to the podcast. Mackinzie shares her journey into therapy, spurred by personal relationship crises during college. She delves into her background, her passion for helping couples, and her transition from chaos to clarity. Mackinzie discusses her previous engagement and the difficult decision to break it off before meeting...

Today I'm joined by Max Davidson , an award-winning magician. Max shares his captivating journey into magic, inspired by a childhood experience, and discusses the unique human connections and surprises that magic facilitates. We dive into Max's hit New York-based show 'Stand Up Magic,' which merges comedy and magic for an affordable, high-quality experience (perfect for date night). Max also revea...

I'm joined by Paige Crutcher , host of Adultish Wines , to discuss modern relationships, dating apps, and personal growth. We kick the episode off with one of Paige's hilariously wild dating stories, and then dive deeper into a discussion about people-pleasing, relationship statuses, coping mechanisms, handling rejection, and maintaining a positive mindset in the dating scene. Haven’t been in a re...

Today I'm joined by Wren Woodson and Mabel Kabani , hosts of NEWSGIRLS . We discuss their journey from meeting at 60 Minutes to creating their own news podcast aimed at young audiences. We explore the decline of dating apps, the rise of in-person events, friends in different life stages, the art of being a wingwoman, and more, Want more dating advice? Check out this playlist filled with episodes a...

I'm joined by Lizzie, a 28 year old who opens up about falling for a narcissistic sociopath and finding out he married someone else while they were dating. She shares how he isolated her from her family, how they planned to move in together, and the warning signs she missed along the way. We hear what led her to think he might be hiding something and how she went about finding proof before confron...

Dara Pollak , content creator, writer and former food blogger, returns to discuss her journey through a devastating breakup and her path to healing. Dara shares her emotional and transformative story of being blindsided in a serious relationship and how she managed to reclaim her life. She offers practical advice on dealing with breakups, including the importance of therapy, the benefits of no con...

In this episode, a 30-year-old single veterinarian resident shares her challenges of dating while pursuing a demanding career in veterinary medicine. She discusses the complexities of maintaining relationships, setting boundaries, and the regional differences she observed in dating cultures as she's lived in three parts of the country throughout her medical journey. She also offers advice on movin...

Today we're joined by Noam Raiter , a content creator, doctor, and host of You Are Not Too Busy podcast to discuss how she balances her demanding medical career with her relationship, friendships, and daily life. She shares her journey into medicine, the struggles of maintaining a social life, and how her relationship with her boyfriend Sam has thrived despite her busy schedule. Additionally, Noam...

So you're probably wondering why I'm in your feed today. I wanted to share my new favorite podcast, FML Talk. If you’ve been royally f%cked over in life, this is the place for you. Host Gabrielle Stone had the rug ripped out from underneath her not once, but twice, by the paws of shitty men. But instead of landing flat on her ass, she built a career out of it. Penning her best-selling tell-all, Ea...

In this week's solo episode, I’m catching you up on my life and answering listener questions about navigating societal and family pressures. I share an exciting and intimidating update, reflect on embracing stillness after a busy season, and talk about the pressure to “keep up” with milestones like marriage, babies, and houses. Later, I offer advice to a listener feeling stuck in her late twenties...