Seeing Other People

Ken Reid returns to 'Seeing Other People' to discuss various pieces of dating advice. Together with we delve into the pros and cons of popular dating tips and phrases, offering different perspectives on what might work, what doesn't, and why context is crucial. Topics include the validity of statements like 'if they wanted to, they would,' 'the best way to get over someone is by getting under some...

In this episode, Avi from California opens up about his experience with cheating and the profound self-reflection journey that followed. He delves into the initial stages of his relationship, the lead-up to his infidelity, and the addiction-like behaviors that ensued. Avi candidly discusses the aftermath, the steps he took to understand and change his behavior, and how therapy and vulnerability pl...

Jackie Shames , friend and co-host of Fill Your Cup is back to chat all things confidence, learning from past relationships, and staying true to who you are. Jackie shares her experiences dating between Miami and New York, how the seasons have been impacting her dating life, and the challenges of balancing personal and professional life. We discuss the the New York influencer scene, friendship dyn...

Bethany and Walter share their heartwarming real-life journey of meeting on an app and building a relationship over the past 1.5 years. They delve into their initial dating struggles, including catfishing and ghosting, and their eventual connection that sparked over a phone call and FaceTime. The couple discusses the importance of open communication, handling financial changes, how they support ea...

Felix Levine , entrepreneur and host of Unlike Me , joins the show to discuss his journey in podcasting, the dynamics of his relationship with Serena Kerrigan, and his personal growth. Felix and Ilana delve into why he started his podcast during a challenging time in college and the lessons learned from interviewing successful individuals. Felix shares insights on the importance of genuine connect...

Harry returns to the show after two years to discuss his life journey, highlighting the lessons learned from navigating singlehood, personal growth, and embracing new passions like photography. Throughout the conversation, they explore Harry's experiences with dating, the societal pressures of relationships, and his journey to understand and accept his neurodiversity. The episode emphasizes making...

In this episode, Rebekah Lipsky , a therapist specializing in major life transitions, joins us to share her personal experience of calling off her engagement and wedding after a five-and-a-half-year relationship. She delves into the emotional challenges of such decisions, the importance of aligning one's values, and her journey of self-discovery post-breakup. The discussion includes insights on ha...

Adrian, a self-identified 27-year-old male nerd from Canberra, Australia, shares his experiences and insights on dating, offering a male perspective. He discusses his dating history, including early high school relationships and the impact of a serious breakup at age 18. Adrian explains his cautious approach to dating apps and reflects on the challenges of dating as an introvert. He emphasizes the...

The incredible Suzy Welch joins us today to discuss how uncovering your values can help you find and build lasting relationships. Suzy is a public speaker, author, and professor of NYU's infamous "Becoming You" course. Suzy shares her journey of self-discovery through her 'Becoming You' methodology along with her life-changing decision making method 10-10-10 (yes, you can apply it to making decisi...

Brandon shares his story of how his marriage to the love of his life ended in divorce. He opens up about his growth and healing journey post-divorce, and what it was like to reenter the dating world as a man in his early 30s who hadn’t dated someone new since 2010. Brandon shares how he has since moved halfway across the country and started a new job while navigating the complexities of modern dat...

In this episode Ilana chats with Gab Saper , a personal stylist who focuses on building confidence and body acceptance through fashion. They discuss the challenges millennials face due to past diet cultures and explore dressing for body types without aiming to look skinnier or taller. Gab shares her unique love story, beginning with a childhood camp romance that rekindled years later in New York,...

In this warm and engaging episode, Ilana welcomes her parents, Barbara and Chuck, to share their charming courtship story, personal insights on love and marriage, and how they met on a hot summer night at an Israeli bond fundraiser. Reflecting on their journey together, they discuss relationship dynamics, parenting, and the evolving landscape of dating from their pre-internet days to the present....

In this insightful episode, relationship coach Lucy Price discusses navigating the emotional turbulence of breakups and finding empowerment. Lucy shares her journey from corporate marketing to becoming a breakup expert. The episode covers processing feelings, challenging self-blaming thoughts, and creating closure independently. Lucy offers practical advice for gaining emotional regulation and sup...

Ilana catches you guys up on her travels, her personal wins, and what she took away from a recent experience. Then, Ilana and bff  Carly Silverman  dissect historical dating rules to see which stood the test of time. Then they go through more modern, viral dating rules they've heard of and debate where they stand on them. 33 minutes in, they share dating rules that they broke when they found love....

In today's episode, I'm thrilled to have Lindsey Schafer , a licensed couples and sex therapist, with us. Lindsey delves into the importance of normalizing conversations about intimacy, relationships, and sexuality. She shares her personal journey of overcoming her embarrassment about her unique initials to embracing her identity. We explore the dynamics of name changes after marriage, the stigma...

In this solo episode, answer listener questions covering the intricacies of dating, such as how to deal with texting anxieties, ending relationships respectfully, and managing the dynamics of dating someone within your friend group. I also dive into how to handle relationships when dealing with controlling in-laws and the importance of setting boundaries. Want more dating advice? Check out this pl...

Counselor Ken Reid joins us for an insightful discussion on attachment styles, particularly focusing on avoidant attachment. Ken delves into the complexities of avoidant and fearful-avoidant attachment styles, explaining their origins and how they manifest in adult relationships. He shares his personal journey and professional expertise, highlighting the importance of self-awareness and the challe...

Ryan P. Hall joins the podcast to discuss his experiences dating and maintaining relationships as a busy 44-year-old single professional. He reflects on his 13-year relationship, and shares the challenges of balancing work and personal life. Ryan also touches on growing up with a single mother, the impact of his demanding career on his social and dating life, and offers his best piece of dating ad...

Bradley Steven Perry , known for his roles on Disney Channel's 'Good Luck Charlie' and 'Mighty Med' and cohost of The Sit and Chat podcast joins us to discuss his journey as a child actor, his love for acting, and how he keeps himself creatively engaged. Bradley touches on the unpredictable nature of the acting industry and the importance of consistency in his life. He candidly shares his experien...

In this Unfiltered, our anonymous guest shares her journey through a confusing relationship that began as a friendship and turned toxic. Despite emotional attachment and unclear boundaries, the relationship was marked by lies, invalidated feelings, and constant back-and-forth. After years of trying to move on, a pivotal moment led her to finally break free and prioritize self-worth. Now thriving,...

In this episode, we welcome special guest Sabrina Zohar , a dating coach and host of The Sabrina Zohar Show . Sabrina shares her intriguing journey from a dissatisfied fashion professional to a dating maven and content creator. We discuss Sabrina's personal experiences with anxious attachment, the impact of her past relationships, and her transformative path through therapy and self-discovery. We...

On this Unfiltered, I'm joined by Sam, a man who opens up about his experience recognizing and accepting his asexuality. He shares what his early experiences with sex and dating were like and how he came to realize that sex isn't something he needs to feel connected to somebody. He shares his journey of finding himself and finding the love of his life. Plus, we hear about his experience coming out...

Aleeza Ben Shalom , Coach, Matchmaker, and Host of Netflix’s Jewish Matchmaking , joins us to talk about what goes into finding a love that will last. Aleeza opens up about how she and her husband met, and how assumptions almost ruined their chances at a relationship. She shares her expertise on what holds people back from finding love, why you should “date ‘em till you hate ‘em,” the benefits of...

Danielle Farage joins us to share her experience leaving both a toxic relationship and a toxic work environment. We hear how all-consuming these situations were, how they dimmed her light, and why she felt trapped in them for so long. She shares how she realized she wasn’t in healthy situations and how she came to terms with walking away from both. We discuss what to do if you feel like your frien...

I’m joined by Dating & Relationship Anxiety Hypnotherapist Danielle Hatton to dive into rewiring you brain to feel calm and confident instead of anxious and panicked. Danielle opens up about how her decision to call off her engagement led to healing her codependency, exploring her independence, and becoming the best version of herself. We bust myths about hypnotherapy and discuss how to build...