Seeing Other People

In today's episode, our anonymous guest from Louisiana shares the intense and tumultuous story of his longest relationship, which lasted four years. What begins as a typical college romance soon takes a series of shocking turns, uncovering dark family secrets, emotional turmoil, and betrayals that test the limits of trust and love. From unsettling revelations about his ex-girlfriend's upbringing t...

I sit down with author, podcaster, and relationship coach Allison Raskin for a raw and insightful conversations about love, heartbreak, and moving forward. Allison opens up about her broken engagement that left her blindsided—and how she rebuilt her life, redefined her self-worth, and unexpectedly found love again. We discuss why some breakups feel impossible to move on from and how overthinking c...

Time for a solo episode! ’m catching up with you on everything that’s been on my mind—dating, friendships, and some personal struggles I’ve been working through. I dive into defining the relationship, why second thoughts in dating are totally normal, and how to overthink a little bit less. Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me here Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at n...

Therapist Laura Caruso joins us to share her perspective on why so many people feel like the dating pool is worse than ever, the biggest mistakes people make, and how to break free from unhealthy patterns. Laura discusses the pressure of finding a partner, why women should consider dating outside their age bracket, and when to have the tough conversations about commitment. We dive into emotional a...

Erica Borsak opens up about the realities of living alone, dating with a food allergy, and why she decided to freeze her eggs. She shares her experiences navigating dating apps, the pressure of singlehood, and how focusing on herself changed her perspective. We discuss independence, setting personal milestones, and the challenges of modern dating. Plus, Erica reflects on health struggles, societal...

Greg Grippo opens up about life after The Bachelorette , his journey through grief, and finding happiness on his own. He shares why he took a year off from dating, the pressure of finding “the one,” and how therapy reshaped his mindset. We discuss emotional independence, slowing down in relationships, and the lessons he’s learned about love. Plus, Greg reflects on anxiety, personal growth, and wha...

Your best friend, sibling, or coworker is pregnant or just had a baby—now what?! If you’ve ever wondered how to support a friend through pregnancy, postpartum, and the transition into parenthood (without being annoying), this episode is for you. I sit down with my friend Jamie, a new mom, to get the unfiltered scoop on what to say, what NOT to say, and how to actually show up for your friends in t...

In this episode, Diego Perez aka Yung Pueblo shares his journey from personal struggles and substance abuse to becoming a celebrated author and meditation advocate. He dives into his new book, How to Love Better , and explores how emotional maturity and relationship dynamics shape our connections. We discuss the balance of privacy and openness in relationships, the transformative power of meditati...

Stephanie Pavone joins us today to talk about her journey through heartbreak, growth, and self-discovery. She gets real about everything from crying in the Equinox locker room in 2017 to finding happiness and learning to love herself. Stephanie shares her story of getting married young at 22, making the tough decision to part ways, and how she rebuilt her life. She also dives into her book Clarity...

Tired of dating apps? Elle Wilson, founder of Met Through Friends shares how bringing a friend to a singles event can change your dating luck. We dive into why speed dating actually works, the biggest mistakes people make at in-person events, and how Elle met her fiancé just before lockdown. We also chat about the mindset shift that makes dating easier, why meeting through friends feels more natur...

Allie Mazur, founder of Beyond Herpes discusses the importance of normalizing conversations about genital herpes, to overcome the associated shame and stigma. She shares her personal journey, contracting herpes at age 23, and the emotional impact it had on her. Allie delves into how herpes reshaped her dating life, leading her to pursue higher-quality relationships and adopt a healthier lifestyle....

Devyn Simone , matchmaker, dating expert, and Tinder's in-house relationship expert, joins us to dive into the world of online dating. We discuss the biggest mistakes dating app users make—from swiping and messaging to crafting the perfect profile—and share expert tips for improving communication, emotional availability, and taking a more holistic approach to dating. Devyn also opens up about her...

Today we welcome Dr. Victoria Grinman , a therapist and trauma-informed practitioner, to discuss her professional insights and personal journey through marriage and divorce. Dr. Grinman shares what motivated her to become a therapist and how her own divorce reshaped her approach to therapy and relationships. We explore the complexities of pursuing authentic connections, managing the fear of uncert...

My husband Jake is back on the show to discuss our journey thus far as a married couple. We reflect on our four-years together and discuss how we've changed individually throughout our relationship. We discuss surviving Valentine's Day single and we answer listener questions about navigating friendships when you dislike a friend's partner, handling being a +1 at weddings, and identifying red flags...

We sit down with Dr. Tara Suwinyattichaiporn , a sexologist and professor, and her husband Brent Estabrook , an artist, to explore their unique love story. The couple recounts their initial meeting on a flight in 2019, their evolving relationship during COVID, and how they navigated their way from friends with benefits to a committed relationship. They discuss important themes such as the signific...

Ricky Liorti joins us to discuss how he's made his single years some of the best years of his life, even while navigating the emotional impacts of a breakup. Ricky shares how he turned his rollercoaster of love and heartbreak into art through his book Heartbreak Love . He opens up about therapy, the importance of prioritizing oneself, and the critical role emotional support plays in relationships....

Vanessa Gordon , CEO of East End Taste Magazine , shares her journey of reentering the dating world after her divorce. From being married for 17 years to discovering casual dating in Europe, Vanessa opens up about her personal growth, challenges, and the newfound freedom of being Vanessa 2.0. She discusses the significant impact of her past relationships on her identity and offers advice for other...

On today's episode, Julie Krafcik and Yue Xu of the Dateable Podcast return to discuss their new book, ' How to Be Dateable .' They delve into the importance of vulnerability, self-knowledge, and authenticity in modern dating, addressing the traps of contemporary dating culture such as the 'settling paradox' and 'relationship chicken.' They emphasize the significance of showing up and being intent...

I'm joined by a woman in her thirties living in a small mountain town, who opens up about her experiences navigating singlehood, repeated heartbreaks, and the complexities of dating in a small town close-knit community. She delves into the impact of infidelity, unrequited love, and emotionally unavailable partners, as well as the challenges of moving on while constantly encountering exes. Despite...

Renee Reina , founder of ' The Mom Room ' and host of ' The Mom Room Podcast ,' joins the show to discuss the expectations versus reality of marriage and the dynamic shifts in relationships after having children. Drawing from her background in psychology and her experiences as a mother and content creator, Renee offers insights into balancing personal goals with relationship responsibilities, the...

A former anonymous Unfiltered guest is back to share her experiences with the importance of self-validation, solo traveling, and the nuances of modern friendships. The guest, who recently lost her job, shares insightful anecdotes on maintaining self-esteem and navigating life amidst singlehood and uncertainty of what lies ahead. We emphasize the significance of meaningful relationships and how to...

In this episode, we sit down with Thais Gibson , an attachment style expert and founder of The Personal Development School. Thais shares her background and how her chaotic childhood inspired her to delve into the world of relationships and attachment styles. She explains the four major attachment styles—secure, anxious, dismissive avoidant, and fearful avoidant—and their origins and effects on adu...

Carli, a former Unfiltered guest, is back to share her recent experience dealing with "the shift" AKA a sudden communication change in the early stages of dating someone new. She shares how she's approached the shift by managing her anxiety, being upfront, and communicating her needs. We share advice on how to approach dating when things start to feel off, and we answer listener questions about ma...

In today's episode, we welcome Nicole Pellegrino and Caroline Crawford Patterson , co-hosts of the podcast Honey, We're Home . The conversation covers everything from the unexpected depths of friendships formed in adulthood to the evolving dynamics of long-term relationships. Caroline and Nicole share personal anecdotes about meeting their partners in college, dealing with life's unexpected challe...

We welcome back Erika Ettin to get her best dating coaching tips. Erika takes us through her journey from tracking her own online dating experiences to becoming a top dating coach and building her thriving business 'A Little Nudge'. We delve into her approach of giving hard truths with kindness, managing dating app messages, and offering effective online dating strategies. We'll explore modern dat...