Seeing Other People

On this Unfiltered episode, I sit down with a man whose infidelity and the guilt surrounding it led to him and his wife getting divorced. We hear what his life was like before he cheated, why he decided to do it, how the truth came out, and what happened next. He shares how this impacted his self-worth and his personal relationships, and whether or not he’s been able to forgive himself and move fo...

I kick off this Valentine’s Day special by sharing tips for making the most out of the holiday if you’re single. At 10 minutes, I’m joined by Fran Mariano from Barstool’s Chicks in the Office to chat celebrity couples, on-screen romances, and public breakups. We share our favorite tv, movie and music couples, celebrity couples we admire, and couples we wish lasted. We discuss the pressure and stre...

On today's episode, I sit down with Diana, a 37-year-old woman who is happily single. Diana opens up about growing up as a Jehovah’s Witness, how her views on marriage changed as she got older, and how she’s navigated different dating phases of her life. Diana shares how she’s learned to embrace singlehood, love herself, enjoy her timeline, and not let societal pressures force her to settle. Overc...

On this episode, I’m joined by Candice Horbacz aka Eva Lovia. We hear about Candice’s rise to fame in the adult film industry and what her career taught her about intimacy and relationships. Candice shares how she and her now-husband navigated their open relationship, worked through moments of jealousy and made it work despite the unique challenges they faced. We discuss what it takes to have a he...

In this episode, I'm joined by a 27-year-old woman who has never had sex before. We hear about why she’s never had sex, what it’s like to date as a virgin, how dates react when she tells them about it, how others judge her and how she judges her self because of it. She shares her fears around losing her virginity and how our sex-obsessed culture causes her to feel isolated. Mindset Wellness CBD's...

On this episode I’m joined by Jen Lauren, host of Dare to Self Care. We discuss the importance of balancing your relationship and friendships, maintaining your independence and sense of self throughout your relationship, and continuing to practice self-care when you're in a relationship. Jen shares how she and her boyfriend went from “high school sweethearts” to serious partners in the real world,...

On todays episode, I sit down with Aliana Michals who shares her story of how her happy and healthy relationship was directly affected by the national dialogue surrounding the pandemic, vaccine efficacy and hesitancy. Aliana’s upcoming poetry collection, In Defense of Science, is a direct reflection on her how despite how in love she and her partner were, they ultimately chose their values over ea...

On this episode, I’m joined by Jonny Lazarus and Justin Kapelmaster from The Latke Room . We discuss why your date or partner probably doesn’t know what you’re thinking, what an Instagram story view really means, how to slide into the DMs, why gender roles shouldn’t matter but social cues should, and why some people think they have to prioritize their career over their relationships. We answer lis...

On today's episode I'm joined by a 25 year old man who recently went through a breakup when his ex-girlfriend's parents found out that he has Aspergers Syndrome. He shares what having Aspergers is like, how it does and doesn’t impact his daily life and relationships, and what common misconceptions are of those with this disability. We hear about what his relationship was like, how the breakup unfo...

On today’s episode, I’m joined by Blaine Anderson, aka Dating by Blaine , who is a dating coach for men. We hear about the biggest challenges men face in modern dating, ways men are misunderstood in dating, and how Blaine ended up helping men with their dating lives. Blaine shares tips for dating apps profiles, approaching a woman IRL, sliding into her DMs, and texting etiquette. We answer listene...

On this episode of Unfiltered, I sit down with two individuals who recently took 'Date Smarter' – Logan Ury's six-week interactive bootcamp designed to transform your love life. We discuss the stigma surrounding "learning" how to date, even though dating is a relatively new concept. They share their hesitations about signing up for the class, what they thought the other students would be like vs....

On Today’s episode I’m joined by behavioral scientist, dating coach, author, and Hinge’s Director of Relationship Science, Logan Ury. We discuss how Logan helped me change my bad dating habits, how she initially friendzoned her now-husband for years until a dating coach helped her realize he was what she was looking for, why you need accountability partners to achieve your dating goals, the import...

On this Unfiltered episode, I sit down with Zoe Scurletis, host of the podcast Solace and the City, to talk about how our traumatic experiences impact who we are and how we date. Zoe walks us through what it was like developing an eating disorder, losing a friend to suicide,  and spiraling into depression.  We discuss if, when and how to communicate your past traumas when seeing someone new, if yo...

In this episode, I sit down with Mia and Carleigh, hosts of Mostly Balanced. We discuss healthier dating habits we should develop, our predictions for dating trends this year, red flags you should avoid, and how to prioritize dating. Mia shares the important conversations that she and her fiancé are having to ensure their marriage will have a strong foundation, and Carleigh opens up about is embra...

On this year’s final episode, I sit down with my producer, Camila Vola, to celebrate Seeing Other People's 1st birthday by reflecting on everything that happened in 2021. I open up about how this was one of the hardest years of my life, my fears and hesitations around losing my co host and doing the show solo, the biggest accomplishments and the scariest challenges I faced, where I am in my career...

On todays episode I sit down with a 26 year old man from London. We hear about his recent transcontinental whirlwind romance, what it's been like dating during covid, dating while living at home with his parents, the struggles of being a hopeless romantic in today’s dating world, and more. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choice...

I’m joined by the amazing Katie Dombrowski and Victoria Bruno , hosts of The Moral Hangover Podcast , to break down everything that happened in dating in 2021.   We dive into how the pandemic changed our dating lives for the better, what really happened with #shotgirlsummer, and our biggest red flags and green flags when going on dates. We look back on the many surprising celebrity couples and dat...

This episode may be triggering for those who sensitive to suicidal thoughts.  On today’s episode, I sit down with a man who shares his story of being blindsided with a breakup six years into a relationship with his girlfriend who he lived with. This happened during covid while he was already going through a challenging time in his life. He shares had a break up impacted his mental health and what...

Therapist Jamie Genatt, and boyfriend, Taylor Adwar, join us to talk about how they built a successful partnership and healthy relationship over the last six years. We hear about how their movie-worthy meet-cute, the challenges they’ve overcome in their relationship, and the pros and cons of dating a therapist. They share how they navigate big life transitions, how they support each other, how the...

On today's episode, I sat down with a woman who recently experienced being ghosted for the first time by a man who lived a few doors down from her. We hear how she processed being ghosted, how she didn’t feel the way social media and people in her life were telling her she should feel and how she used this experience to go down a path of self healing and self discovery. Later we find out what happ...

This episode is for the boys who want to be gentlemen, and for the girls who want to get inside a gentleman’s brain. I chat with James (Levon The Gent) Nichols II, founder of The Gent Code, who helps men become the best version of themselves in life, in dating, and in relationships. We discuss what it means to be a gentleman, the biggest dating pain points that men face (and how to overcome them),...

On today’s episode I sit down with a woman who shares her experiences being cheated on, later meeting the other women, and realizing they were not the ones to blame. We discuss how she found out she was cheated on, what it was like learning to trust again, and how she and these women helped support each other. We discuss why being cheated on has nothing to do with you, whether or not you should le...

I’m joined by the hilarious Erica Spera and Molly DeMellier, hosts of Shooters Gotta Shoot . We’re diving into the results of the Instagram polls you’ve voted on, debating the winners, and sharing our own opinions on each. We break down what happens at the end of a date, being a guest or bringing a guest to the holidays, first date deal breakers, how much someone’s relationship history matters, if...

Krista St-Germain is a mom, grief expert and life coach for widowed moms and host of the Widowed Moms Podcast. She joins the show today to discuss sex, dating, and love after experiencing the traumatic loss of a partner or any individual in your life. We discuss the grieving process and why it isn’t linear, knowing when to start dating again, navigating the guilt around searching for a new partner...

Lindsay and Emily Stetzer are sisters living with obsessive-compulsive disorder and anxiety, which led them to create Presently, a mindfulness jewelry company that helps you redirect your thoughts and return to the beauty of the present moment, wherever you are. Lindsay and Emily walk us through the different types of OCD, how their diagnoses impacted them, and how their OCD does and doesn’t affec...