Secluded Thoughts

Don't be the person with an excuse; be the person with a testimony. Seek out people who have overcame what you're struggling with to give you hope vs hanging around people who want to trauma bond with you and keep you in a repeated cycle of lack and struggle. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #57 - Will you have an excuse or a testimony? LET'S STAY CON...

Sis, don't F around in the last month of the year and rely on that burst of motivation that comes with the New Year to finally get your life together. Go into the new year with some progress. We are not slackers. I am not going to allow you to slack off. In this episode I talk about not losing your momentum but you gotta have some to begin with. Let's get that under control before the New...

Do you know what are the gaps between you and the things you're praying for? Let's talk about it. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #60 - You've been too comfortable LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube:  https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPodcast Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/secluded.thoug...

Sis, I don't know what phase of life you were in when you met them but with what you know today about your goals and where you're going in life, does that person still fit into what you want? Are they going in the same direction as you? At the same speed? Would the best version of you choose to be with them today? If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #59 - Be...

Get it out of the way. You will never be fully present in the moment or focused on the things you want to build in the future if you're caught up on what could have happened in the past. Don't settle for what if. Don't spend the rest of your life thinking "what if I did this when.." or "what if I said how I felt" etc. Get it out of the way. Topics discussed in this epis...

I know you have your list of excuses to justify how you treat people but in the spirit of accountability, let's talk about how owning up to that can actually improve your relationships. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #58 - You don't have the right to hurt people to protect yourself LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoug...

I'm going to give you a first hand account of what it was like when I didn't know my purpose and what I did in search of discovering it. The full episode is the absolute best thing you can listen to if you're trying to figure out your purpose because for the first time ever someone is going to give you a real life account of what it was like discovering it and how I knew when I found i...

Worrying is natural. We usually default to worrying at the first sign of things not going the way we expected it to. But what if I told you it was a waste of time? What if I told you there was a better way to look at things that would significantly decrease how much you tend to worry? Topics discussed in this episode: why worrying is a waste of your time when things DO work out when things DON&#39...

Do you focus on your personal relationship with God and making sure you can hear him when he speaks to you or are you busy condemning others for how they choose to live their lives? Is your relationship with God superficial? If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #53 - From self proclaimed atheist to Christian and how it saved my life LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok: ...

You don't get in life what you want you get in life who you are. So who do you need to become to get the things you want? Do you know what their character traits are like? Write it down and start developing those skills in yourself. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #46 - Who do you need to become to achieve your goals? LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok:  https...

We all think our way is better. We plan our life and goals and set out to accomplish these things and we feel like a failure when things don't work out the way we planned. But what if I told you there's an upside to that? Topics discussed: what to do when things don't go your way how to be optimistic when things don't go your way that time when you begged for the bare minimum in a...

You prayed for it, you affirmed it, and now it's time to implement it. Don't resort to your old ways cause life will keep giving you the test until you pass it. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #43 - How you REALLY get what you pray for LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube:  https://www.youtube.com/c/Secluded...

You struggled all your life and had to be strong because you had no choice. And through that struggle came your drive for ambition. For most of your life that fueled your motivation but when you start healing and taking yourself out of survival mode your motivation is going to disappear because the foundation it was rooted in is gone. So now what do you do? Clip from Episode #54 - It's about w...

You get really excited with these Target and mall runs but when it's time for you to invest your money in something that will teach you a new skill you really want to learn or help you grow your business or excel in your interests you hesitate. I used to do this. Here's what I learned and here's why you need to get rid of that mindset. Topics discussed in this episode: the best investm...

I'll give you some practical examples of me having FOMO for things that I don't even enjoy because society made me feel like that's what I should be doing. But it forced me to actually sit with myself and be clear on what I actually enjoy vs letting society dictate that. This is a clip from Episode 38 - Who were you before the world told you who you should be? GET 20% OFF JOURNALS USE...

You've been too comfortable. Waaaayyy to comfortable. How many episodes of Netflix are you going to binge watch when you said you'd be working on your goals? You said you wanted a better life and you're in bed all day? Nah, it's time to get up. Here's a nice little reality check for you, love. <3 If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #60 - You&#...

If you're someone who constantly feels like you have no time to do the things you want to do or have no time to pour into yourself or have a social life and do fun things because you're so "busy" this episode is for you. If you feel like your job or school or some 'big thing' is taking up a significant portion of your time and it's the reason why you can't do anythi...

It's time to be honest with yourself. Are you doing things that make you feel fulfilled or are you just spreading yourself thin in the name of 'success?' Are you sacrificing your happiness for comfort? Will it be worth it in the end? If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #39 - Why you're spreading yourself too thin LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok:  ht...

If you're the type of person who wants to do better and become the best version of yourself but your laundry list of excuses is causing you to self sabotage then this episode is for you. This is the TOUGH pep talk someone should've given you a long time ago. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #57 - Will you have an excuse or a testimony? LET'S STAY CONN...

What do you do when all that's left is you? Can you sit with yourself or do you run to another relationship or situationship to distract you? Or do you run to your friends to go out constantly because being by yourself is so uncomfortable? Let's talk about it. GET 20% OFF JOURNALS USE CODE STP20: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.co...

Faith without works is dead. Absolutely. But are you convincing yourself that you're not WORTHY of the things you want to do because your "works" are still a work in progress? Give yourself some grace. If you liked this clip, make sure you listen to the full episode: EP #54 - It's about who you are not what you do GET 20% OFF JOURNALS USE CODE STP20: https://secludedthoughts.com/jo...

Your job/career takes up a significant portion of your time and life. Are you doing something you enjoy? Are you brave enough to pursue the things you really want to do? Or are you going to stay in a position you hate and be the person who always complains about how they hate their job? Or will you spend 5,10,15+ years at a position you hate to please other people or because you're afraid of t...

When I adopted this mindset it changed my life, and I'm sure it'll change yours too. I'm sure you have your idea of what your life is supposed to look like and where you're supposed to be in life right now and the things you're supposed to have. And if your reality doesn't live up to your vision you take it out on yourself. You think you're falling behind in life becaus...

Sis, isolating yourself from everyone and everything to "heal" is fake news. You're not healing, you're just avoiding your triggers. How will you know if you're healed or not unless you get triggered and respond to it differently? Let's talk about it. This is a clip from Episode 38 - Who were you before the world told you who you should be? GET 20% OFF JOURNALS USE CODE STP...

Now sis... how many times are you going to ask God for a sign about that man and then act blind and deaf when you get it??? Let this be the last sign that helps you get it together. This is a clip from Episode 40 - Stop ignoring your intuition   GET 20% OFF JOURNALS USE CODE STP20: https://secludedthoughts.com/journals LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts You...