Secluded Thoughts

Here are 3 things you can do to set boundaries and protect your energy if you're an empathetic person. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #63 - How to set boundaries and protect your energy from negative people LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube:  https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPodcast Instagram:  http...

You don't wake up with the traits and principles you need to be the person you want to be. You have to go through things in life to learn these things. You're planted, not buried. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #76 - You're planted, not buried  LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube:  https://www.youtube...

Welcome to the Clarity Corner - where I give you weekly journal prompts every Monday. These prompts will help you reflect on where you need to take accountability in your life to become the best version of yourself. You can't manifest your ideal life if you don't know what it is so these journal prompts will also help you define what success and happiness mean to you and how you can create...

In 2022 I learned what didn't work lol so here's what I'm doing differently in 2023. Some of these I've already tested out and LOVED. Topics discussed in this episode: Micro-habits & systems I'll be adopting for my goals in 2023 Creating systems to reach your goals Struggling to be productive Productivity methods that have worked for me Mentioned in this episode: Atomic Hab...

Some distractions are obvious but some sneak pass our radar and influence us without us knowing until it's too late. Are you mindful of the people and habits that are distracting you and deterring you from what you want in life? If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #59 - Be mindful of what's distracting you LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok:  https://www.tikto...

If you're a perfectionist and you have an idea for something that you're dragging out because you want everything to be perfect when you release it I have some news for you. You're focusing on aesthetics not even realizing that the biggest challenge and most important discipline you need to develop to actually make this idea successful is just around the corner and the longer you delay...

Welcome to the Clarity Corner - where I give you weekly journal prompts every Monday. These prompts will help you reflect on where you need to take accountability in your life to become the best version of yourself. You can't manifest your ideal life if you don't know what it is so these journal prompts will also help you define what success and happiness mean to you and how you can create...

Topics discussed in this episode: Gaslighting and judging yourself for how you feel Trying to be positive all the time How heartbreak numbs you How being hyper-independent has hurt you Hiding the little girl inside of you to prevent her from getting hurt Mentioned in this episode: Ep #63 - How to set boundaries and protect yourself from negative people LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok:  https://ww...

Do you want it bad enough to pass the test? Do you want it bad enough to respond in the way the best version of you would respond? When those all triggers resurface are you going to respond as the old version of you or the best version? If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #43 - How you REALLY get what you pray for LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok:  https://www.tikto...

I used to be atheist and in this clip I'll tell you why. Then God decided I had been lost long enough lol. Here's the story of the beginning of how He changed my life. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #53 - From self proclaimed atheist to Christian and how it saved my life LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube...

Welcome to the newest segment of the show called the Clarity Corner - where I give you weekly journal prompts every Monday morning. These prompts will help you reflect on where you need to take accountability in your life to become the best version of yourself. You can't manifest your ideal life if you don't know what it is so these journal prompts will also help you define what success an...

Are you aggressively working on your goals because you want to live to your fullest potential or because you want to prove a point to the people who hurt, doubted, and didn't support you? Topics discussed in this episode when my ambition and drive for success was rooted in getting revenge on people who didn't support me how my relationship with my mother led to this how my relationship wit...

It's hard enough to deal with your own self sabotaging behavior but what about the people in your circle? Do you have people who will hold you accountable for the things you need to do or will they encourage you to play it small and remain stagnant? If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #57 - Will you have an excuse or a testimony? LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok...

Most of us are spreading ourself thin because we lack clarity on what WE want in our lives and we're letting society dictate what success means. Are you doing what you really want to do or what you think you should be doing? If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #39 - Why you're spreading yourself too thin LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok:  https://www.tiktok....

Welcome to the newest segment of the show called the Clarity Corner - where I give you weekly journal prompts every Monday morning. These prompts will help you reflect on where you need to take accountability in your life to become the best version of yourself. You can't manifest your ideal life if you don't know what it is so these journal prompts will also help you define what success an...

Do you really believe God is an abundant God if you think your portion in life is to struggle from paycheck to paycheck or live in mediocrity? Why aren't you asking for what you really want? Why are you putting all of your effort and faith into the level just above where you are when you can work toward becoming your BEST self? Let this year be the last year you sell yourself short. LET'S...

You were hurt, yes. But that doesn't mean you can go around hurting people. It doesn't make you any better than the people who hurt you. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #58 - You don't have the right to hurt people to protect yourself LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube:  https://www.youtube.com/c/Seclu...

Focusing on all these goals and strategies for achieving them is only half the battle. What you get in life is based on WHO you are. So who do you need to become to get the things you want? If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #46 - Who do you need to become to achieve your goals? LET'S STAY CONNECTED! TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughts Youtube:  h...

Welcome to the newest segment of the show called the Clarity Corner - where I give you weekly journal prompts every Monday morning. These prompts will help you reflect on where you need to take accountability in your life to become the best version of yourself. You can't manifest your ideal life if you don't know what it is so these journal prompts will also help you define what success an...

You get what you expect because that's what you prepare for - so stop expecting the worst. You expect the worst because of who you put your trust in. Let's talk about what you can do to change this mentality so you don't walk around wounded in 2023. Boundaries Episode: #63 - How to Set Boundaries and Protect Yourself from Negative People Listen on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/p...

This episode is going to help you if you're feeling lost in life because you don't know your purpose. I'm going to give you a perspective that may help you realize why you haven't figured out what your purpose in life is yet. After being lost for most of my life God finally revealed my purpose to me a year ago. I'm going to share what that was like in case you're trying to...

There are probably things you want to do right now but you're worried about what people will say or how they'll receive it but my question for you is how long will you live for others? In this clip I'll share with you what it was like living for other people and finally deciding that I'd had enough and wanted to do something for me despite what people would think. I'll also let...

Welcome to the newest segment of the show called the Clarity Corner - where I give you weekly journal prompts every Monday morning. These prompts will help you reflect on where you need to take accountability in your life to become the best version of yourself. You can't manifest your ideal life if you don't know what it is so these journal prompts will also help you define what success an...

You've been praying and affirming none stop but have you been preparing? If you're praying for a new apartment, shouldn't you be packing? Are you taking inspired action and giving God something to bless or waiting on things to fall out of the sky? And what are some of the things that would be embarrassing to take into 2023 undone? Pls sis, your confidence is begging you to stop procras...

You've had this idea for how long now? And you still haven't started. As a retired perfectionist, I get it. You want things to be perfect or at least LOOK really good. But what about the quality of the information/product/service you're providing? How will you know what to improve for that if you waste all this time trying to design a logo or post quotes on your Instagram page? Stop fo...