Secluded Thoughts

The reason you're afraid to pray and ask for what you REALLY want is because you're considering what's realistic for YOU. But God is not on your level ma'am. Pray like you're praying to the WAY MAKER. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #90 - Ask BIG and stop living in mediocrity JOURNALS Self Reflection Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/sel...

It's easy to worry and think things aren't going your way. And it can also be tempting to accept CRUMBS because something is better than nothing. But God has a better plan for you if you just wait a little longer. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #84 - When things don't go your way JOURNALS Self Reflection Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/self R...

Are you mindful of the content you consume on a daily basis? Does it align with the type of life you want to live? Or are you allowing all of these distractions and gossip to fill your mind and deter you from the things you’re working on? JOURNALS Self Reflection Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships Vision Journal:  https://s...

"No expectations, no disappointments" is a scam. It's not realistic. You will still be disappointed. But if you adopt this perspective that will change. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #89 - Stop "hoping for the best but expecting the worst" JOURNALS Self Reflection Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal:  https://se...

Time management is a DISCIPLINE that you NEED to develop to have a fulfilling life. You might feel like time is slipping away from you or your job or something is taking up too much of your time so you're not able to do the things you love but in reality you just need to work on your time management skills. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #82 - You DO have e...

Your life isn't about arriving at a specific destination whether that be some financial goal or career goal. That's only a small part of it. Don't get so caught up in your goals that you forget to enjoy your life. JOURNALS Self Reflection Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships Vision Journal:  https://secludedthough...

This episode will change the way you think about worrying and the kind of things you ask God for. It's normal to worry and be anxious about the future but you'll second guess the next time you find yourself worrying after listening to this clip. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #85 - Worrying is a waste of your time JOURNALS Self Reflection Journal:  http...

This strategy might sound weird to you at first but it has actually helped me a lot in getting my ego in check. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #68 - Are you being controlled by your ego? JOURNALS Self Reflection Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships Vision Journal:  https://secludedthoughts...

Some of us only have a routine or relationship with God when we need something because we've spent so much of our lives in survival mode so that's what we were used to. But what does your routine with him look like when he blesses you? Do you drift apart from Him? Are you too busy for Him now? MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE EP #6 - How a victim mentality almost killed me Deanna's Tiktok - @...

Miss girl... you do know that in order for God to bless these big dreams of yours you actually have to make some moves of your own right? He can't bless it and magnify it if you never start. Stop procrastinating and get it done! If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #88 - Stop begging and start preparing JOURNALS Self Reflection Journal:  https://secludedthoughts....

When you come to the end of your life, make sure your last thoughts aren't about all of the things you wish you would've done or said. Life your life to the fullest. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #86 - Don't settle for "what if..." JOURNALS Self Reflection Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal:  https://secludedth...

The difference between the girlies who get it all and those you don't is your self esteem. We date at the level of our self esteem. It's the reason why you keep seeing these repeating patterns with the people you date. You accept what you think you deserve. JOURNALS Self Reflection Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships...

Sis, don't you DARE run back to what you LEFT because you're worried about having none or that something better won't come. Remember you left for a reason and hold your head up and bsfr right now. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #85 - Worrying is a waste of your time JOURNALS Self Reflection Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Jo...

You want it so bad you pray for it everyday and affirm it over your life. But are you ACTUALLY prepared for it? Do you know how to handle the things you're praying for? If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #88 - Stop begging and start preparing JOURNALS Self Reflection Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com...

This week's prompt is from the  Self Reflection Journal .  Remember to honest with yourself and take accountability where necessary. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: EP #82 - You DO have enough time, you just don't use it wisely WANT MORE JOURNAL PROMPTS FOR ACCOUNTABILITY? Choose which topic you need to start reflecting on: Self Reflection:   https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationships:   h...

It is not noble to always try to pour from an empty cup. It's time to establish boundaries around how you help others so you're not spreading yourself too thin. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: EP #72 - It's time to put yourself first JOURNALS Self Reflection Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships Vision Journal:  https:/...

Sometimes we're so blinded by what we want that we don't realize that we're begging God for the bare minimum and he has a much better plan for our lives. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #84 - When things don't go your way JOURNALS Self Reflection Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/relat...

I know you don't want to hear this but we all have the same 24 hours in a day. Stop mismanaging and wasting yours and then complaining that you have none or thinking other people have an advantage over you. You need to manage your time better sis. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #82 - You DO have enough time, you just don't use it wisely JOURNALS Self Re...

This week's prompt is from the  Self Reflection Journal .  Remember to honest with yourself and take accountability where necessary. WANT MORE JOURNAL PROMPTS FOR ACCOUNTABILITY? Choose which topic you need to start reflecting on: Self Reflection:   https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationships:   https://secludedthoughts.com/relationship Your Ideal Life:  https://secludedthoughts.com/vision...

You can't freely give and discount your grace and patience when it comes to other people, especially those who don't deserve you.. but then when you need it you're hard on yourself. If you can gather up the delusion to see potential in someone who later embarrassed you you should find some for yourself when you're having doubts about your goals. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: EP #57 -...

When you start leveling up you'll start losing people and it'll take a toll on you. It's not easy trying to build something and dealing with failing relationships but it's an unfortunate part of the process. Let's talk about how to navigate through that. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #66 - For when you feel like giving up JOURNALS Self Refl...

When life starts weighing down on you and you feel like quitting it's not realistic to think of the 10 year plan and your big dreams. Sure, it sounds great in theory but even with knowing your why things can get hard and giving up can look appealing. But here's something that has helped me through even my lowest points in life. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episod...

This week's prompt is from the  Self Reflection Journal .  Remember to honest with yourself and take accountability where necessary. WANT MORE JOURNAL PROMPTS FOR ACCOUNTABILITY? Choose which topic you need to start reflecting on: Self Reflection:   https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationships:   https://secludedthoughts.com/relationship Your Ideal Life:  https://secludedthoughts.com/vision...

After everything you've been through and sacrificed to get to where you are.. why are you letting other people think they have the authority over you to make you explain yourself and justify your success? MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: EP #57 - Will you have an excuse or a testimony? EP #60 - You've been too comfortable EP #35 - This is why you think you're behind in life JOURNALS Self Ref...

Some behaviors like pettiness, manipulation and wanting to get people back are a result of a bruised ego. Some people think they're in control but they're actually being ruled by their ego. What about you? If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #68 - Are you being controlled by your ego? JOURNALS Self Reflection Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relat...