Scott Kiloby’s Podcast - Natural Recovery from Suffering

In the podcast, Scott respond s to a question from someone he's training in KI who wondered if clearing emotional repression would make them selfish. Scott explained that, in reality, the opposite is true. He emphasize s that selfishness or narcissism stems from holding back emotions, which leads to the creation of false identities and strategies for gaining love and approval. Scott highlight s th...

In this podcast, Scott delves into the concept of authentic relating, emphasizing that true connection is hindered by buried emotions. He explains that when we are driven by unconscious needs for safety, love, and other essentials, we create suffering in our relationships. Many people tend to seek external solutions—like practices or other individuals—to alleviate this suffering, but these attempt...

In this podcast, Scott discusses how unmet childhood needs for love and safety unconsciously lead us into bypassing on spiritual or healing paths. He explains that suffering, deeply rooted in the unconscious body, shows up in relationships, causing disconnection and prompting us to seek relief through various practices. However, because of buried emotions, these practices often become ways to avoi...

In this podcast, Scott explains how buried emotions drive addictions, yet we remain unaware of these drivers, allowing shame and the cycle of addiction itself to distract us from the root of it all - for safety and love. Some of our best intentions to recover or help others recover are coming from buried rage. Scott shares his personal experience of growing up ashamed and with anger repression - a...

In this episode of Scott's podcast, he delves into the nuances of emotional release on the spiritual healing journey. Scott discusses how, in our quest for spiritual experiences, we may inadvertently focus on releasing emotions that feel safer, rather than addressing the deeper, buried emotions that truly drive our suffering. This emotional repression can lead us to believe that these safer releas...

In this podcast, Scott explores authentic listening and its connection to emotional repression - especially buried anger. He explains that when emotions are buried, it's challenging to listen authentically, as people often freeze, shut down, or flee during difficult conversations. Scott reveals that the common feeling of not being heard actually stems from this emotional repression. He clarifies t...

In this episode, Scott shares his journey as a non-dual teacher who bypassed buried anger, leading to chronic nerve pain that almost became a "death sentence." He and other teachers have inadvertently encouraged this bypass in millions of people. Scott reveals how he dissolved the pain by making unconscious anger conscious. He explains why simply resting with deep contractions or chronic pain ofte...

In this podcast episode, Scott explores Sam, a codependent therapist with buried anger who enters relationships with women who have narcissistic tendencies due to their inability to show empathy. He disconnects from them due to his avoidant nature and then teaches others to maintain repression by labeling less empathetic people as narcissists, reinforcing a narcissism shadow. To work with Scott, v...

In this podcast, Scott explains that addiction feels as essential as water or air because it helps the system feel safe and loved by keeping buried emotions hidden. The cycle of addiction continues because the need for safety and love stems from these suppressed emotions. Traditional recovery programs and Eastern practices often fail to address this, allowing both addiction and suffering to persis...

Scott is in rare form, clarifying the difference between before and after emotional repression with regard to the timeless human experience of telling others to fu*k off. To work with Scott directly, visit https://kiloby.com/scott

Scott humorously notes that you'll never find an angry monk or a vulnerable dictator. What we reject is often within us. By embracing all qualities that create separation, we find freedom and authenticity, instead of being trapped in dualistic mirrors. Listen to this light-hearted, impactful talk on true freedom . If you are interested in working with Scott, come talk to him for free: https://kilo...

Our main habit of unconsciously seeking safety and love is like gravity - it always wins - until we make the unconscious conscious. Listen as Scott explains why some people develop a regular KI practice that ends suffering and brings authenticity and others don’t. The answer lies below the surface. To speak to Scott about the 90-day program he mentions in this episode, visit https://kiloby.com/sco...

Want to manifest success, love, good health, or freedom? The unconscious seeks only safety and love thereby thwarting our efforts. Your unrealized potential is waiting for you in the one place you l’re afraid to look. Scott shares the solution. To work with Scott directly, visit https://kiloby.com/scott.

Scott points to how both our suffering and our efforts to alleviate it often come from the same hidden source. Discover his solution to this seemingly insurmountable doublebind! To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/Scott.

Scott discusses how the fundamental need to know ourselves as awareness and to allow it all doesn’t get met and we don’t want it to be met because we’re driven by an unconscious need to stay safe and get love. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott

Find the missing key to freedom but also why sabotage is just safer, frankly. Work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott

Scott shares the future of K.I. and how unmet needs become unconscious demands. We create our own suffering. To work directly with Scott, visit https://kiloby.com/scott

Scott shares his personal transformation from being a very sensitive, introverted, and disconnected kid/adult to authenticity via emotional repression inquiry. Listen for unique insights around where our sensitivity really comes from and why some of us have to hide it. To learn 3D repression inquiry on your own, here’s our do-it-yourself-course which includes live group calls: https://kiloby.com/i...

Scott picks up the brick at both ends of the emotional repression spectrum and the covert and overt agendas in teachers and helpers. When we are teaching or helping, we have to be concerned first with getting the log out of our own eye and processing any unconsciousness that drives us. If we fail to do that, we enable the continuation of the very suffering we seek to alleviate in others. To learn...

Scott shares a radical awakening path which departs significantly from what he would have called “radical” ten years ago. To learn 3D repression inquiry on your own, here’s our do-it-yourself-course which includes live group calls: https://kiloby.com/introduction-to-nrfs-course/. Here’s our seven day Mentorship Discovery Kit: https://kiloby.com/mentorship-discovery-kit/.

Scott shows listeners how to take everyday visible suffering like depression, addiction, pain, and resistance and see its connection to buried emotions. To learn KI repression inquiry on your own, here's our do-it-yourself-course which includes live group calls: https://kiloby.com/introduction-to-nrfs-course/. Here's ourseven day Mentorship Discovery Kit: https://kiloby.com/mentorship-discovery-ki...

Scott shares about Goodism and tells his own story of being a good boy and holding anger back which led to a lifetime of falseness and suffering. All the bad parts come out in this episode where Scott pulls no punches to help those who can’t yet see that the social and relational rewards of being good, peaceful, nice, or perfect carry a massive dark side. To learn 3D repression inquiry on your own...

Scott tells the short story of Troy and Sarah who both cheated on each other for the same reason but neither one could see the real reason. This special episode brings to light the issues discussed in Scott’s recent episode “The Avoidant’s Guide to Authentic Spirituality.” To learn 3D repression inquiry on your own, here’s our do-it-yourself-course which includes live group calls: https://kiloby.c...

Scott takes you first through a somatic test to reveal the avoidant programming in your body. He then shows how avoidance, avoidant attachment style, and avoidant personality disorder point to these core programs in the body for purposes of a practice. Scott then explains his guide to authenticity by inviting listeners to journal each day what is actually driving the avoidance. He gives specific i...

Scott makes the case against awareness and his prior teaching. To learn 3D repression inquiry on your own, here’s our do-it-yourself-course which includes live group calls: https://kiloby.com/introduction-to-nrfs-course/. Here’s our seven day Mentorship Discovery Kit: https://kiloby.com/mentorship-discovery-kit/. The characters in this podcast episode are fictitious and are not based on any real p...