Scott Kiloby’s Podcast - Natural Recovery from Suffering

Scott discusses the otherworldly and extra-dimensional details of his latest e-book which is free if you join his Instagram chat group here: https://www.instagram.com/channel/AbZebuk7cyuIHeCL/

In this episode, Scott speaks to the overlooked reality behind the spiritual search, addressing how the hidden shadow is completely missing from the beginning of most spiritual paths. He explores how contemporary spirituality contains both seekers and " finders —both of whom have missed the true root of suffering. This blind spot inevitably creates toxic trauma bonds between teachers and students,...

Back by popular demand following the Insider’s View of an Avoidant social media shorts, Scott Kiloby dives deep into how the avoidant attachment style subtly hijacks spirituality. This episode explores the hidden mechanics of spiritual bypassing, showing how the pattern remains completely invisible to those running it because it is driven by deeply buried emotions and unmet childhood needs. If you...

Are you constantly chasing safety, validation, or love from the world around you, only to find yourself still feeling empty, anxious, or in pain? In this episode, Scott Kiloby dives deep into Needism—a profound exploration of how our unmet emotional needs drive adult suffering. Scott answers frequent listener questions about how we can finally meet our own internal needs by properly processing our...

Scott gets down and dirty about his own rage and how not speaking up directly in relationship produces suffering in the lives of rage holders. To start this work for Free, visit repressiontest.com.

In this podcast episode, Scott discusses the anxious attachment style and unmet needs that go with it. Transformation happens when we find safety and love within. The anxious attachment style sabotages itself by looking outside of itself. The process of self compassion and skillfulness ends the suffering for the anxiously attached. But there are a lot of bumps and hurdles along the way. Only the e...

Scott and Dan, the co-developers of KI Emotional Repression Inquiry, are reuniting for an electrifying and groundbreaking podcast episode that you won't want to miss! This time, they’re tackling the provocative topic of dying paradigms, diving deep into how traditional structures are crumbling as individuals engage in transformative somatic work. The concept of existence independent of us is being...

Join my friend ​and co-developer ​⁠​⁠@danmclintock and I for our second podcast on the oversights and dangers of conflation in both the mental health and political paradigms. Join us for our Addiction & Authentic Recovery Workshop Oct 18th at link in bio.

In this episode, Scott explores Barbara Oakley’s concept of Pathological Altruism and dives deep into the world of repression inquiry. Scott explains how many acts of service, often perceived as altruistic, are actually driven by a hidden need to feel safe and gain love or approval. By burying these unconscious motivations along with difficult emotions, we create false identities based on being “g...

Join ​⁠Dan Mclintock and myself as we define, point to and deconstruct our tendency as human beings to conflate! Learn more at repressiontest.com (free test for buried emotions)

Scott is taking a break from podcasting for a while as he feels called to explore other endeavors. The work is now accessible for everyone to start for FREE at repressiontest.com. He is focusing on one-on-one mentorship and is in the process of developing a new six-month course titled "Becoming Unbound," which will be released soon. In the future, you might hear a short episode announcing his retu...

In this episode, Scott delves deeper into his Tik Tok series growing in popularity called, "The Insiders' View of an Avoidant." He reflects on his lifelong tendencies to avoid emotional intimacy and how his most recent relationship transformed his perspective. Through this partnership, he discovered the value of secure connections and experienced firsthand what it means to be with someone who also...

Is “super empath” a heightened state of consciousness or just another identity that keeps people safe and gets them love? Scott explores this question. Start this work for free at repressiontest.com. Join Scott’s News Channel for Helpers: https://www.messenger.com/channel/kiloby/AbYi5fJHbUQXx31t/

Scott explains how KI specializes in dissolving self-sabotage. The secret is revealed. Start the work for free: https://repressiontest-meta.lpages.co/repression-test-opt-in-page-website/.

Scott focuses on the richest treasures of deeply transformative work and the indispensable aspects of the path. He also answers criticisms and questions about the work. To join his jumpstart group starting May 18, visit https://kiloby.com/jumpstart

In this episode, Scott and Toshi talk about how emotional repression can cause you to see, hear, and believe only what feels safe—protecting you from feeling or expressing certain emotions. This can make it difficult to hear or understand work that addresses emotional repression, as the mind filters out anything that might threaten the protective barrier against those emotions. To work with Toshi,...

Take this test and listen to this full podcast episode so that you can remove all doubt as to the question of whether you’re a narcissist. Join my Jumpstart group starting May 18th: https://kiloby.com/jumpstart

In this podcast episode, Scott explores the common experience of oscillating between “I’ve got it” and “I’ve lost it” on the healing journey. He discusses how seeking intense experiences can trigger survival mechanisms due to unresolved emotions, leading to a cycle of temporary relief followed by suffering. This cycle is a natural part of our evolution for survival. Scott emphasizes that transform...

Scott shares about the cycles of suffering that come from hurt and sadness repression with a special focus on the shame/rage response. The key to ending suffering for hurt and sadness repressor is hidden in plain view. To start this work for free, visit https://repressiontest-meta.lpages.co/repression-test-opt-in-page-website/

In this episode, Scott uncovers the often-overlooked self-sabotage associated with the anxious attachment style. He discusses how individuals with this attachment style struggle to process their emotions independently, which hinders their personal growth. People report having difficulty doing this work on their own when they have this attachment style. This emotional repression not only affects th...

Scott tells the story of the positive people around him who are suffering. To start this work for free, visit https://repressiontest-meta.lpages.co/repression-test-opt-in-page-website/.

In this episode, Scott explores the profound connection between unmet needs and buried emotions. He reveals how our lifelong defenses shield us from confronting core suffering, leading us to seek fulfillment through false means. This compulsion to gain validation from others stems from holding back our authentic selves since childhood. Drawing on powerful insights from spiritual traditions, Scott...

Scott weaves together personal, political, spiritual, and other themes relevant to emotional repression for a raw and personal episode. To begin emotional repression Inquiry for free, visit https://repressiontest-meta.lpages.co/repression-test-opt-in-page-website/.

Scott and Toshi talk about their experiences with mindfulness and how it can serve as a form of bypassing. They discuss the pitfalls and limitations of mindfulness, particularly when it is used to avoid emotional repression. Mindfulness is explored as a practice that can be beneficial, but also potentially limiting if not approached with an awareness of its shortcomings. Practiced alone, mindfulne...

Join Scott for a fun exploration of how his life was split for many years due to repression. In an open relationship, Scott found himself grappling with a BDSM addiction, which served as a means to explore unconscious, buried anger in the submissive role. This journey was driven by a fear of intimacy, which Scott later recognized as directly connected to his personal relationships. Come and listen...