School of Self-Image

Join me on the podcast this week to discover how engaging in high-value activities will bring more elegance into your life. I'm sharing the importance of your reasoning behind these activities, and what you can do to take what I'm sharing today and make them part of everything you do. Get full show notes and more information here: https://schoolofselfimage.com/225

Join me on the podcast this week to discover how elegant women create their own luck, and how resisting this idea is exactly what's stopping luck from flowing into your life. And if you find yourself thinking, "Tonya, that's impossible. Some people are really just lucky…", I'm sharing what you can do to start embodying that same energy and mindset, so you too can live a lucky life. Get full show n...

Join me on the podcast this week as I share the 10 style commandments that all elegant women hold dear and how following them will enable you to become more intentional and more self-expressed on purpose. Discover how to use these commandments when making decisions about how you want to show up, both visually and in terms of your energy, and how to truly express yourself through your style. Get fu...

Join me on the podcast this week to discover how to identify the habits and behavior patterns that are no longer serving you and the 5 ways elegant women create new ones. I'm sharing why we get stuck in these loops, where I have seen myself going wrong in making unsustainable changes to my life and routines, and how to create habits you can actually stick to in the long-term. Get full show notes a...

Join me on the podcast this week to discover the 5 areas elegant women manage like a CEO. I'm sharing how I manage these areas in my own life and what has changed as a result, how you can start cultivating the courage required to start saying no to the things that don't serve you, and how to allow more of the things that allow for progress, even when it's uncomfortable. Get full show notes and mor...

Join me on this episode of the podcast to discover the 5 time wasters that elegant women avoid. I'm sharing how these seemingly harmless things damage your experience of life in ways you might not realize right now, and the beauty that is available when you start intentionally living a life free from distractions and people who aren't serving you. Get full show notes and more information here: htt...

Join me on the podcast this week to discover why you don't need anyone else to have an enthralling romance. I'm discussing what is standing in the way of you having a beautiful and insightful relationship with yourself, why a self-made romance is more than just liking yourself, and how to start making the changes necessary to really cultivate the most important relationship you will ever have. Get...

Join me on the podcast this week to discover how to be more attractive. I'm sharing what really contributes to our attractiveness, how to develop the mind of magnetism that attracts your ideal partner, and how your own self-image plays into this whole process. Get full show notes and more information here: https://schoolofselfimage.com/218

Join me on the podcast this week to discover the secrets to the art of becoming. I'm sharing the small daily practices that go into making big changes in your life, where you need to start, and what you need to focus on to keep moving in the right direction, which is where the universe wants to take you. Get full show notes and more information here: https://schoolofselfimage.com/217

Join me on the podcast this week to discover how to embrace failure as the most important part of living a successful and fulfilling life. I'm sharing why we're so afraid of failure, why that fear is creating nothing in our lives, and what your life could look like if you're willing to cultivate the mindset required for embracing failure. Get full show notes and more information here: https://scho...

Join me on the podcast this week to discover the power of scheduling your dreams. I'm sharing why so many people avoid scheduling, what that practice is not serving you, and what is possible in your life when you put your dreams on your calendar and make time for them. Get full show notes and more information here: https://schoolofselfimage.com/215

It is my firm belief that the world orchestrates to fulfill that which you think about yourself, so we need to start thinking of ourselves in the best way imaginable.  On the podcast this week, I'll be sharing my own story of transformation, how I worked to change my self-image and began creating the life that I always dreamed of but never dreamed was possible, and how you can start doing the same...

Join me on the podcast this week as I present my word of the year that I plan on embodying over the next 12 months. I'm also sharing how you can discover your own self-image word of the year, and how to apply it in every single thing you do, creating a life you truly love along the way. Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/213

Join me on the podcast this week to discover how to create a sense of calm when it seems like the world around you is going crazy, and instead of indulging in it, make time for the things you truly love. I'm sharing the mindset shift that it takes to see solutions instead of problems, and what's possible when you prioritize feeling good and experiencing pleasure in front of everything else. Get fu...

Join me on the podcast this week to discover how to create a sense of calm when it seems like the world around you is going crazy, and instead of indulging in it, make time for the things you truly love. I'm sharing the mindset shift that it takes to see solutions instead of problems, and what's possible when you prioritize feeling good and experiencing pleasure in front of everything else. Get fu...

Join me on the podcast this week to discover how to start living an amazing life, one that challenges you while taking you in the direction that you want to go. I'm sharing how to tune out the negativity in the world that holds so many people back, and why 2020 could still be your best year yet. Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/210

For over 10 years, I have been writing love notes to this community. I've shared some of them in emails. Others I've posted on social media. But today is just a very small collection of these love notes that I have written in hopes to inspire you to live a most extraordinary life. Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife.com/209

Gratitude is easy when things are going the way you think they're supposed to go. You've hit your goals, everybody's behaving the way you want them to behave, the weather is great, life is good.  But what about having gratitude when things get challenging? Tune in this week to discover the impact of choosing gratitude and living your life from that space. Get full show notes and more information h...

When I look around at my life, one of the things that's had the biggest impact for me is how I feel about myself. I am truly in love with me. And if you think that sounds arrogant or narcissistic, I want you to listen in closely this week because I truly believe that loving yourself is the only option if you want to live an extraordinary life. Get full show notes and more information here: https:/...

We all have moments where we feel like giving up. We set goals, and in that process, we have a vision in our mind of how our life will look once we've achieved them. However, the reality of the journey is never that simple. But if you can just hold onto that vision that you have for your future self no matter what, the wisdom of coming from that place will always guide you in the right direction....

Join me on the podcast this week to discover how you might be lying to yourself and why this habit is keeping you from experiencing the true joy that life has to offer. As my grandmother told me when I was a little girl, the truth will set you free, so I'm sharing the lies I used to tell in my own life, and the pure magnificence that honesty has brought me since. Get full show notes and more infor...

Are you at a place where you're finding it hard to create lasting results in your life? When it comes to losing weight, maybe you're great at losing 10 pounds, but before too long, you've put it back on. Maybe you are making progress in a business and find yourself thinking it's too good to be true, and you start making decisions that don't serve you. If this sounds familiar, this episode is for y...

Join me on the podcast this week to discover why being beautiful is a choice, and how you can start making that decision for yourself right now. I'm sharing how to surround yourself with beauty now, instead of waiting until one-day-when, and what you can do to create your own standard of beauty: one that never goes out of style. Get full show notes and more information here: https://frenchkisslife...

Join me on the podcast this week to discover the difference it makes when you stop playing small and start setting yourself extraordinary goals. I'm sharing why it's okay that your extraordinary goal feels impossible, and what you can do right now to stop getting caught up in the how, and start living a life that challenges you to grow and evolve every single day.​ Get full show notes and more inf...

Tune in this week for the how-to guide on making extraordinary friends and cultivating meaningful relationships that move and inspire you. I'm sharing where your thoughts might be preventing you from attracting the kind of friendships you want in your life, and what you can do to work on your contribution to a friendship, so others genuinely want to share their experiences with you. Get full show...