Rori Raye Feminine Energy Radio

You're stuck. Literally stuck. In a situation with a bad boss. A company that's going to fall apart. And you can see it coming... This is probably true for 99% of you. The people in power have absolutely no concept of what's actually being run by the people who know what they're doing. This is the state of existence. This is the world. So what do you do? Start your own choir. It do...

We all get stuck. So the first step is always --fall in love with it. Fall in love with the stuck. It's like a log jam. Things get piled up. Things get barricaded. You've been in one emotion for a long time. And the log jam isn't the problem. Fighting it is. Stop resisting it. Pretend you're floating on your back in a sea of stuck. Let the water flow. Let the logs float. Feminine e...

We are in a new era. Women everywhere are rejecting men because of their values. Women are jumping away from the idea of relationship. And the problem is -- we don't have the framework to keep ourselves in a high level place while we sort it all out. So what does feminine energy actually feel like? It's not living from your head. It's living from down low. From your anchor. From your p...

You want to be 100% vulnerable Except that’s your nervous system telling you if you’re open, you’re gonna get mowed down. Your feminine energy is ferocious. It is powerful. It is protecting yourself in a different way than your masculine energy does. Your masculine energy protects you by closing yourself down, pushing him forward, staying mental, staying strategic. Your feminine energy goes: “I ju...

Life is a process. You are a process. You are a work in process. A work in progress. What’s progress? What’s the endpoint? There is no beginning. There is no end. I’ve been thinking about happiness. It’s really an interesting word. We take it for granted. “I’m happy.” Certain things make us happy that seem external: dancing, music, experiences, people. But try to zero in on the feeling itself when...

How can you find a man who is a giver rather than a taker? A man who is masculine rather than feminine? What do you do if you have a history of being attracted to men who are in their feminine? What do you do if you’re in a long-term relationship that you’re no longer happy with and you want something different? Trust starts internally—with trusting yourself, your intuition, your ability to make d...

Can I trust you with me? Can I trust you with the real me? I can trust you with the me that can do everything. I’ll take care of everything and you can just be there. And if I can’t trust you some of the time, I’ll just shut down and that’s okay. That’s, I think, the way most of us live. I don’t really trust you. So I’ll just be my ‘10 self’ around you a lot of the time. And when you leave the hou...

See everything as giving to you , which naturally places you in a position of receiving. Imagine walking around all day receiving from the walls, the rugs, the doors, the food, the refrigerator, the cat, the dog, the man standing in the corner — no matter what he’s doing. The man on the phone or on Zoom — no matter what he’s doing — energetically, you're on the receiving end of everything. For...

The only thing you can trust, to start the process of trusting the external, is the internal. That means you. If you are like 99.9% of women in the world, you’ve been taught since birth to other-esteem. We are constantly on the lookout for gathering our self-esteem through others — how they look at us, how they respond to us, whether they move toward us or away from us. When we don’t allow ourselv...

Marriage means you change. You start to open up and stand up for yourself, and suddenly you feel irritated and unsure. It’s not just him anymore—it’s everyone—and you keep asking: what do I want? I lost my dog and realized how much I had been ignoring my own wants because other people didn’t approve. I thought being “free” meant giving myself up. When I finally chose what I needed, everything shif...

Do not allow any unavailable man to take any of your time, period. That's the law. Don't do it. If he stops calling, if he stops making dates, lean back and see if that's you trying to push him out of your way. But mostly he's got to really try hard for you. And if you are not encountering men who are trying hard for you, that's because you're not letting those guys in beca...

The only way you're ever going to get the love you want is if you're able to receive it. If you're busy giving, wanting, and chasing — there's no room for you to receive. You're not as big as you want to be. Leaning back isn't about playing games. It's about becoming the kind of woman men can actually move toward. Even if you're an extrovert with a big personality —...

Here's the Question: I want to be friends with a recent ex, and I know that we want different things romantically, but how can I build back the trust and support as friends when he refuses to talk to me? From Rori: All right. You may hate me, but don’t. Don’t do it. Stop it. Too much energy. Ridiculous. For your real wants. He’s a friend. He’s not going to help you. Forget it. Plus, you’re try...

Everything’s getting better, but it’s still not working. What’s going on? Here’s what I really want you to hear what you’re saying to yourself, okay? You’re saying: X, Y, Z has happened, therefore it will continue to happen. But truthfully, haven’t you ever felt breakthroughs continually in your life? You couldn’t figure out a problem all of a sudden. Have you ever felt like shut down and all of a...

The process of dating, online dating, going on dates, talking to men—that is like exposure, the psychological technique for healing anxiety. If you’re terrified of elevators, you get into the elevator and you deal with your anxiety from a very knowledgeable place until, guess what? The anxiety reaches a level… and then it goes down, if you’re paying attention. So as a Siren, as a modern Siren on S...

Decentering men is about this: Right now, you see out there a political movement to basically demolish the patriarchy in all of its ramifications—everything that it does to women who want to succeed in life beyond the typical… what is said women are supposed to do. You know—be mothers, have children, take care of the house. And listen—women can be successful and have everything else they want. Tha...

Look at all the women you admire out there. Beyoncé. Come on. No matter who Taylor Swift is with, she's going to make more money than that person. She's going to be more successful. She's a legend. So if she can have love, can you? Yes. Of course you can. What it means is this: you accept a man for who he is, what he is, and what he makes. And you don't make a big deal out of it —...

I want you to take your power back. Everybody sees that differently. So stick out your arms. There was a guy who broke up with you once. You invested in him, and you left pieces of yourself still in him. Take them back. Just invite them back. Just go on, do it. Just invite back from that guy who broke your heart. That job, that boss who said something nasty to you — just take your power back, beca...

If a guy says, “What do you do?” or “How’s your work?” or “What are you doing at this party?” the first thing that happens is a thought like, What’s the best answer? What will he like the most? What will turn him on the most? That’s subconscious.  You don’t have to judge yourself for it.  Why judge it? But we do. We judge it, then try to shove it down.  It’s just your subconscious coming up and ou...

If you don’t think you’re controlling… you probably are. You’re just not doing it in an aggressive way. You’re not doing it in a way that other people would easily recognize. But if you leave a date and you don’t feel high… you feel kind of icky instead… That’s normal — when you didn’t actually feel good in that person’s presence, but you tried hard. You tried to be liked. You tried to be chosen....

How do we actually deal with rejection? How do we signal a man from our soft, confident feminine… when inside we’re feeling vulnerable, exposed, and deeply afraid of rejection — whether that looks like his clear “no,” a sudden hardness in his eyes, or the feeling of not being seen, felt, or met? And here’s the surprising truth: the pain doesn’t come from rejection itself. It comes from trying. Try...

It takes a while — sometimes a year, year and a half — for men to decide that it’s correct, that you’re it, right? So what are you going to do during that time? Do you consider yourself a sexual being, and you need a sex partner? That’s me. I want a sex partner, and I’m okay having sex with somebody that I don’t marry. If that’s not you — and you’re faith-based or something, and you don’t want to...

We fall into relationships all the time… and we often have no idea what the details actually are. We enter vague relationship deals. So here’s the question: Why do we accept such vagueness from men? This would make an incredible masterclass topic, because the situation often determines what that vagueness looks like and what it’s really about. But underneath it all, it stems from something deeply...

The need for validation, clarity, and connection often comes out as a question—because a question feels harmless. But what we’re really doing is throwing a spear at him. We’re literally throwing something at him. He’s completely off base—not because he doesn’t care, but because he was probably thinking about sports… or work… or whatever was already in his mind. He wasn’t thinking anything close to...

Look at your hand.  Look at the bracelet you’re wearing.  Look at the shirt you’re wearing. Anything that inspires you to feel grounded, or the floor, or centered — or any of those words we always use — or an object you can touch, that you can feel engaged with. The table right here, the desk, your knee.  Hold your hand. See if you can feel engaged with that. And then see the man, see your boss, s...