Rori Raye Feminine Energy Radio

We’re talking about dating as opposed to deep relationships. So I think in this segment I’m going to go into if you’re deeper into a relationship and there’s so much more baggage and history when you attempt to connect rather than separate through your words, and by getting down into what it is you want when you are already so untaken care of and you have so much anger and all kinds of stuff going...

So, connection. What does connection feel like?  I’m really talking to faith-based women and non–faith-based women who can come with me into a spiritual place. And when I say a spiritual place, it’s ephemeral. It’s not concrete.  The people around you don’t know what you’re talking about. They may think you are silly. They may think you’re a “silly feeler” with spiritual leanings. I want you to re...

Your feeling state is your truth.  It’s not what you want him to do or how you wish things looked.  It’s the pulse that lives deep inside you — the craving, the warmth, the tension, the peace.  As soon as you drop down into that, everything shifts. Stop wanting him to act differently.  Stop trying to fix. Instead, notice what you feel.  Maybe it’s uncomfortable, maybe it’s even ugly — and that’s p...

 There’s something that feels almost taboo to talk about in dating, and that’s this desire for men to be more initiating. Many women wonder, Can I even want that? Can I ask for that? What I’ve noticed—especially watching something like Love Is Blind—is that people often come together because their patterns recognize each other.  On the surface, it looks like compatibility. But over time, what was...

Do you really want a man who is really hemming you in?  Because I have to tell you, there are men out there who would look at you and say, “Wow, you are amazing.”Why would you want a man who says, “I resent you… I feel competitive with you”? I love watching celebrity couples because they show us so much about what happens when two highly successful, competitive people try to build a relationship. ...

**The Question:** My boyfriend of four months is sometimes quite lazy in bed. Ha ha. Meaning he lets me do most of the work. He may be tired, but I feel there’s something deeper. He’s normally quite masculine. What can I do? From Rori: So when you say you’re “doing the work” — are you doing it on him, or on yourself? Sex is… you know, it’s many things. It can be slow and tantric. It can be touch-o...

Teal is one of my Rori Raye coach Superstars, and she has already taught two full masterclasses inside the Siren Island Community. Today, she’s back to share how she became a true “Feminifestor” — in love, in partnership, and in the way men respond to her. I don’t talk about Law of Attraction very often, and yet many of my trained coaches and so many of my clients become master Feminifestors in th...

If you’re in a marriage or a relationship with a guy who’s like a 20–30% — as a rule, anything under 50% as a rule — maybe pops up every now and then into an 80% and then he pops back down, and you just feel always like a pull towards him, like he’s pulling on you. That’s your clue. The way you deal with that marriage and make it better: you step back. You disconnect the part of you that is doing...

We’ve been taught that leadership means being in control, being the smartest one in the room, keeping everything tight and contained. But that isn’t actually where your power is. Your power is in your emotional presence. When you let yourself feel at work—joy, disappointment, pride, frustration—you become magnetic. People trust you more. They open to you. They follow you because they can feel you...

Most men — real, grounded, emotionally available men — want to treat you like a queen. They want to adore you, provide for you, and see you light up when you feel safe and cherished. The challenge isn’t finding those men — it’s recognizing them, and allowing yourself to receive what they offer. So many women attach to men who aren’t ready, who don’t want to grow — and in doing that, they stop thei...

Being messy is one of the first steps to being free. How could you possibly go from being constricted and choosing men who don’t give you real love to being free enough to have amazing relationships and an amazing life?  On the way to your feminine energy, everything comes apart.  You have to untangle the beads before you can make a new necklace.  It’s going to be messy — but that’s how you begin...

Sometimes the man you’re drawn to brings out fear, anger, or pain. And when he finally shows up, what you feel isn’t joy… it’s relief. Have you noticed that when you feel afraid most of the time, everything starts to feel heavy — even your relationships? That little rush of chemistry or passion can feel like love, but real love feels different. It feels safe. Steady. Connected. If he isn’t truly s...

We’re not broken — it’s trauma! Many of us choose partners who aren’t good for us, sometimes even narcissists or psychopaths, and blame ourselves. It’s your background, not your worth. We’ve been taught to stay small, and yet the healing begins when we expand. Try this: Stretch your arms wide. Feel the edges of the room, the mountain, the ocean. As you grow bigger, the man you’re pining for sudden...

He Wants You Mad! Some men provoke anger on purpose.  When he’s defensive or distant, it’s often guilt—he already feels he’s not doing enough.  If you explode, he gets the alibi he needs to pull away: “See? You’re always angry.” Step out of that trap. Take two slow steps back, say nothing, and let his words land.  Don’t feed the guilt loop.  The shift in energy alone can change the whole dynamic....

What saved me was circular dating. the simple decision to keep meeting people, stay social, and treat all men as equal until one puts a ring on your finger. For years I believed that once I kissed someone, I had to be exclusive. That mindset kept me stuck. Circular dating freed me to connect, to heal through being social—even coffee dates, language meetups, or just standing and letting people talk...

Why have you chosen a complicated, difficult relationship? Why are we choosing complex, difficult relationships? Because we want to. Yes—you’re afraid of intimacy.  You’re afraid of commitment. Do you choose men who make you pine for them? It is all us. It’s all you. Why do I want this complexity? We are all choosing to match what happened with our parents. The discomfort of love and relationship—...

If you find yourself taking the responsibility for the relationship and the apologeticness of the conflicts that happen all the time… if you’re always trying to solve stuff, excusing him for bad behavior, and it’s always in 60/40, 70/30 mode where you’re doing most of it—something’s wrong. The Modern Siren tools work—sometimes so well that a man who isn’t truly ready can still look like he is. Tha...

You already have a script inside you — from your parents, your school, your society, your religion. But are you actually living your life on your playbook or somebody else’s? Many women wake up in midlife realizing they’ve been following someone else’s rules the whole time. The truth is: the man in front of you may be a partner in your life, but he is not the center of your life. You are the cente...

If you ever find yourself feeling invisible in a room with your man and his friends, pause and ask: Why am I here? If this is an everyday pattern, that’s a red flag. But if he’s otherwise a great guy, don’t force yourself into his moments with his buddies. Instead, notice your feelings and share them with warmth: “I love that you have such great friends, and I also feel a little left out. I want m...

If you are pulling away from him because he’s too handsome or you’re pulling away because he’s not handsome enough, ask yourself, “Okay, this is a free therapy session with a man who showed up. Let’s find out his message and let’s treat him like a good person.” Breathe. You don’t have to go home and wash your hair. Just learn whatever you’re there for. Think of it as a spiritual experience, and pr...

Why do we care what he thinks if you pay or you don’t pay?  Why are you making a big deal out of it? … This is the old thing about wanting him to like us.  I’m gonna do this so he’ll like me.  This is not what Siren is. Feminine energy is not about making the best choice to get the best man —  That’s not what attraction is.  Attraction is authenticity. Your authenticity in that moment is that you’...

Vulnerability is scary, intimacy is scary—no matter how much we say we want it. But today, how we shift our words to be soft, to be inviting, to be siren-y, like the Siren concept of creating a healing, creating the desire to make things happen. It’s activism, it’s girl power, it’s the inner strength of who we are as women. And yet, until we’re able to strip down, de-armour ourselves, really, we c...

A man who can’t meet you emotionally… can’t. He just can’t. But he still may be a good partner. Perhaps. Everywhere I go—and I’ve talked about this before—I meet women who’ve divorced men, left men, or are still in relationships with men they’ve just discovered are actually clinically on the autism spectrum. If you’ve ever watched Love on the Spectrum , it’s a fabulous show. You’ll learn so much—h...

Once you are vulnerable and somebody shuts you down because they don’t know what to do with it, you’re going to have double reactions: “Oh, I shouldn’t have done that.” That is a clue that, number one, he might be wrong for you — he just can’t get you. But more than that, he’s simply not used to it. He doesn’t know what to do. He’s afraid. He’s afraid that if you’re crying, it means he did somethi...

Men will tell you, "Well, how can I trust you if you’re seeing other men?" It's all just just not true. Your grandmothers had dance cards.  This is something new that men have concocted. Exclusivity and It's all to their benefit, not to yours! You want to be available to men everywhere until a man just wants you and jumps up at you and offers you everything. If there's any co...