Rising After Divorce | Emotional Healing, Reclaiming, Starting Over, Trusting God

Have you ever found yourself scrolling through a dating app at midnight — not because you're ready, but because the silence in your house feels too loud? Friend, you're not alone. And in today's episode, we're going to talk about something nobody told you to do after your divorce — fall in love with YOU first. Before the next relationship. Before the next first date. Before anything else. In this...

Have you noticed you keep picking the same kind of man... and getting hurt the same way? In this episode, we talk about the difference between dating from a wound and dating from a healed heart — and why most women don't even realize they're doing it. You'll learn: Why you keep choosing unavailable men (and how the abandonment wound drives it) Why you hide your true self on dates (and how the reje...

Have you ever looked in the mirror after your divorce and not recognized the woman looking back at you? Not because of how you look — but because somewhere along the way, you stopped knowing what you liked, what you wanted, and who you even were. In this episode, we are talking about something most women are afraid to say out loud: I lost myself being his wife. And we are going to walk through why...

Have you ever said yes when everything inside you wanted to say no? Do you ever feel resentful after giving so much — and then feel guilty for feeling that way? What if the reason you over-give has nothing to do with generosity — and everything to do with a wound you haven't healed yet? Ready to go deeper? 💛 Join the Dating After Divorce membership — a safe community of women just like you walkin...

You keep saying you're fine. But late at night, when it's quiet... you know you're not. This episode is for the woman who has been holding it together for everyone else — and quietly falling apart alone. It's time to stop pretending. Real healing starts here. Are you tired of saying "I'm fine" when you are anything but? Have you been staying busy just so you don't have to feel it? Do you feel like...

You are not damaged goods because of your divorce....   Ready to go deeper? 💛 Join the Dating After Divorce membership — a safe community of women just like you walking this journey together.  Instagram http://relaltionshipcoach4women   📲 Come find me on Instagram — send me a DM and tell me your biggest takeaway from today's episode. I read every single one.   You are not starting over. You are...

Have you ever stayed in a situation — a relationship, a dynamic, a version of yourself — just because it felt safer than asking for more? Do you second-guess your own judgment when it comes to dating because you still blame yourself for your marriage not working? Have you ever heard "don't be picky" or "at your age you can't afford to be choosy" — and somewhere deep down, believed it?   Ready to g...

Did you do everything right after your divorce, you prayed, you cried, you kept going, and yet something still feels… stuck? You're not weak. You're not faithless. And you are absolutely not alone. In this episode, we're having the honest conversation that most people are too afraid to start, because the reason your healing is taking longer than expected might not be what you think. Ask yourself h...

Co-Parenting After Divorce: How to Protect Your Peace If co-parenting with your ex leaves you feeling anxious, angry, or emotionally exhausted — this episode is for you. One text. One phone call. One unexpected change in plans. And suddenly your entire day is derailed. Your heart is racing, your mind is spinning, and you can't focus on anything else. Sound familiar? Co-parenting after divorce is o...

Today is my birthday — and the best gift I can give you is the truth. I found real love at 49. Not by luck. Not by magic. But by doing the work — even when I didn't feel like it, even when I doubted myself, even when I wondered if it was too late. If you've been praying, waiting, and wondering why nothing is changing — this episode is for you. In this episode I share: Why passive hope is not the s...

THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU IF ✅ You feel like God stopped listening when your marriage fell apart ✅ You are angry and ashamed of how angry you are ✅ You don't recognize yourself anymore after the divorce ✅ You have stopped praying because it feels pointless ✅ You need someone to tell you healing is still possible for you   FREE GUIDE - TO HEAL YOUR HEART  https://pattymartinlifecoach.kit.com/620...

Tired of just getting through the day? Feeling like you should be further along by now — but the weight of everything divorce left behind is still keeping you stuck? Do you find yourself exhausted at night, not from living, but from simply surviving? What if the peace you've been desperately searching for... was actually closer than you think? In this episode of Dating After Divorce for Christian...

In this episode, I sit down with Jamie Love to talk about the powerful connection between physical and mental health — and why caring for both is essential to moving forward in life. Jamie shares her insights on what it truly means to show up for yourself, inside and out, and how prioritizing your well-being can unlock growth in every area of your life. In this episode, we cover: Why your physical...

Tired of living paycheck to paycheck? Feeling like a failure because your divorce has also contributed to you being behind on bills? Do you feel ashamed of not being able to manage your money?   What if the financial stress you've been carrying alone in silence... didn't have to stay that way? In this episode of Dating After Divorce for Christian Women Over 40, we're going somewhere tender — your...

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Tired of meeting emotionally unavailable men? Feeling like a failure after your divorce? Avoiding dating because you are afraid you won’t find someone who shares your faith?   In this episode of Dating After Divorce for Christian Women Over 40, we are diving deep into one of the most important and overlooked parts of divorce recovery, healing emotionally without losing yourself in the process.   T...

What happens emotionally and neurologically while you are in your mother's womb The three core questions every child is trying to answer before age three Why trauma doesn't have to be dramatic to be deeply real What inner child healing actually looks like — and why it changes everything about how you love   Ready to stop guessing and start dating with confidence? Because you deserve a love that ho...

Learn: To communication better after divorce, relationship communication, inner child healing, divorced women dating, healthy communication, trust issues after divorce, emotional intimacy Ready to stop guessing and start dating with confidence? Because you deserve a love that honors you—and it's time to believe that's possible. Click the link below and send me a DM for more information, but please...

Learn: Why your relationship status isn't your identity? The danger of an unrealistic checklist Why inner healing work is essential before partnership? Practical steps to prepare for godly love   Ready to stop guessing and start dating with confidence?     Because you deserve a love that honors you—and it's time to believe that's possible. Click the link below and send me a DM for more information...

How to stop repeating patterns when dating and begin a God-Led Relationship     Ready to stop guessing and start dating with confidence? Because you deserve a love that honors you—and it's time to believe that's possible. Click the link below and send me a DM for more information, but please do it asap before this offer closes. LINK 🔗 https://www.instagram.com/relationshipcoach4women   Similar ep...

This episode is perfect for: Women who feel guilty about having standards Women told they're "too picky" Women who need biblical validation to maintain boundaries Women tempted to settle out of loneliness   Ready to stop guessing and start dating with confidence? Because you deserve a love that honors you—and it's time to believe that's possible. Click the link below and send me a DM for more info...

Your divorce gave you something priceless: wisdom, clarity, and zero tolerance for BS. That's not baggage—that's your superpower. Shift your mindset from "I'm damaged" to "I'm refined." You're not starting over; you're starting from a place of experience and strength. Use your divorce as a filter. The right man will see your past as proof of your courage and depth, not as a red flag. Date with bou...

Praying for someone you know might feel weird. But that is how you make it real.   Ready to stop guessing and start dating with confidence? Because you deserve a love that honors you—and it's time to believe that's possible. Click the link below and send me a DM for more information, but please do it asap before this offer closes. LINK 🔗 https://www.instagram.com/relationshipcoach4women

Divorced women have something that women who've never been married don't have. Experience. Wisdom. Zero tolerance for nonsense. You've been through the fire. You know what a relationship looks like from the inside—the good, the bad, and the "oh heck no."! And that makes you dangerous. In the best possible way.   Ready to stop guessing and start dating with confidence? Because you deserve a love th...

Afraid of being alone after divorce? Learn why settling for less out of fear of missing out keeps you from the incredible relationship God has planned for you. Discover how to overcome loneliness and trust God's timing in your dating journey.   Ready to stop guessing and start dating with confidence? Because you deserve a love that honors you—and it's time to believe that's possible. Click the lin...