Rising After Divorce | Emotional Healing, Reclaiming, Starting Over, Trusting God

HOW TO UNBLOCK YOUR BLESSINGS: A Path Back to Love 💕 Feeling like love has passed you by? Wondering if you're too broken, too damaged, or too late for the blessings God has in store? This episode is your reminder that your blessings aren't lost - they're just waiting for you to clear the path. THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU IF: You're divorced, separated, or healing from heartbreak You feel unworthy of...

Are you struggling with setting healthy boundaries as a Christian? Do you feel guilty saying no or find yourself people-pleasing instead of being honest? In this episode, we dive deep into James 5:12—'Let your yes be yes and your no be no'—to discover what the Bible really says about healthy boundaries in relationships.   Join my membership Dating After Divorce for Christian Women and go  FROM:  A...

HUMILIATION WOUND -THE CHILDHOOD TRAUMA THAT CREATED THIS: What Actually Happened to You: INJUSTICE WOUND - THE CHILDHOOD TRAUMA THAT CREATED THIS: What Actually Happened to You: listen to the full episode to find out if you need to heal from these traumas and how they are affecting your current adult life in general, not only your love life.   If you’d like to schedule a FREE discovery call with...

Another year has gone, let the old habits go with that year as well and welcome the new better habits this 2026   Let me teach you how....     If you’d like to schedule a FREE discovery call with me click the link below: I AM INTERESTED!    IG Account: https://www.instagram.com/datingcoach4christianmoms       🔗https://pattymartinlifecoach.kit.com/a6e831b666 Women’s Retreat 2026-Waitlist   🔗   ht...

In this episode we explore how past betrayal trauma affects your current relationships, even with good men who are doing everything right.   We discuss the self-sabotaging behaviors many of us develop as protection mechanisms—checking phones, creating loyalty tests, keeping escape plans—and why these patterns keep us trapped in a cycle of distrust.   I share Monica's story, a woman who ended a hea...

What is the Inner Child? Abandonment Wound Humiliation Wound Betrayal Wound Rejection Wound Injustice Wound   Learn:  What Creates Rejection Wounds? and How to begin to heal from it.   This episode is for you if you: You keep attracting the same type of man—different face, same problems ​​You feel incapable of choosing the right man  You give your all and get breadcrumbs in return  You don't know...

Learn What Creates Abandonment Wounds? Physical abandonment: absent parent, divorce in childhood, death of a parent Emotional abandonment: parent present physically but emotionally unavailable, neglect Conditional love: love given only when you performed, achieved, or behaved "right" How Abandonment Shows Up in Your Dating Life: Anxious Attachment - You become clingy, need constant reassurance, fe...

Spotting Narcissists Before You Fall Again Why your fear of dating again isn't about you being "not enough" 5 red flags that identify narcissistic behavior early The difference between godly love and manipulation How the Holy Spirit guides you toward healthy relationships Biblical truths to anchor your worth and decision-making   Ready to Go Deeper? Join the You Are Enough Workshop and learn how t...

Your Person Exists: Why the Wait Is Preparing You for the Love You Deserve If you've been waiting for the right person and starting to wonder if they even exist, this episode is for you. As a life coach for Christian women navigating life and love after divorce, I see so many beautiful women losing hope in their waiting season. But what if I told you the wait has a sacred purpose? Ready to Stop Wa...

Normal (short-term symptoms not long after your divorce): Divorce memory loss, can't remember after divorce, divorce fog, post-divorce trauma, healing after divorce, divorce brain fog.   Can't remember details from your first year after divorce? The fog is real. Learn why memory gaps are normal, how your brain protects you during trauma, and how to heal. The Fog is real when going through such tra...

Does This Sound Like You? ​You keep attracting the same type of man—different face, same problems ​​You feel incapable of choosing the right man  You give your all and get breadcrumbs in return  You don't know how to trust your judgment after it's "failed" you before  You're exhausted from dating apps and game-playing  You wonder if God is punishing you for what you did in the past  You're ready t...

You're successful. You've built an incredible career, achieved financial stability, and created a life most people dream of. But when you come home after a long day, there's an emptiness. The one thing missing? A loving, caring husband to share your life with. In this episode, I'm opening up about my own journey—how I had everything at 49 except the right person. I'll share how shifting to a God-l...

Dating after divorce is complicated. Dating as a Christian single mom requires additional wisdom, clear boundaries, and a lot of faith. In this episode, we explore five essential steps that every single mom should know before opening her heart again. Scriptures Mentioned: 2 Corinthians 5:17 Proverbs 4:23 Isaiah 40:31 Psalm 139 If you would like guidance in your dating journey and save yourself  ye...

Key Topics Covered: Why comparison steals your God-given identity How comparison blocks your blessings and future opportunities Why comparison dishonors God's timing and sovereignty 5 transformative questions for breaking free from the comparison trap Key Bible Verses Referenced: Galatians 2:20 Psalm 139:14 Hebrews 12:2 Ephesians 3:20 Ecclesiastes 3:1 Romans 8:28 Resources : One-on-one breakthroug...

Why being too available kills attraction (and it's not about playing games)
The unconscious message you send when you're always accessible
How to build a life that naturally creates healthy boundaries 5 practical strategies to shift from "too available" to "appropriately interested"
The mindset shift that changes everything in your dating life
Why the right men will step up when you step back Ment...

Today we're going to talk about that invisible companion that controls your life without anyone else noticing: anxiety If you wake up with a weight on your chest and don't know why, this is for you Key Points: Anxiety isn't "just stress" It's not cured by positive thinking or "getting over it" It's a prison you build yourself, brick by brick Phrase to repeat: "Anxiety convinces you that if you wor...

Your Past Traumas Are Sabotaging Your Love Life (And How to Heal Them)" In this episode we explore: Why you repeat the same patterns in relationships Signs you need to heal these wounds The first step to transforming your love life   Schedule your discovery session: LINK Follow me on Instagram: LINK

If you've ever stayed awake waiting for an apology that never comes, this episode is going to free you Stop being a prisoner of external validation Learn self-forgiveness as a radical act Learn the freedom that comes with self-acceptance Learn how to start building your new life without their blessing   If you would like guidance in your dating journey and save yourself years of disappointments do...

Divorce doesn't define you, disqualify you, or diminish your worth in God's eyes. If you've been carrying shame about your past marriage, this episode will help you break free and step into the love and life God has planned for you. Why God sees your heart, not your marital status How divorce doesn't disqualify you from God's best  Breaking free from shame vs. conviction - knowing your true identi...

The Mirror Effect: Why You Keep Attracting the Same Type of Man" Are you tired of the same relationship patterns repeating in your life? In this powerful episode, we explore the Mirror Effect - how our past relationships reflect our internal beliefs about love, worth, and God's design for us.   Discover the three types of mirrors revealing your heart and learn how to break the cycle once and for a...

Discover God's blueprint for setting healthy boundaries that honor Him and promote your healing. 🙏 What You'll Learn ✅ Why guarding your heart is a biblical command, not selfishness ✅ Practical boundaries to set with your ex-spouse, family, and yourself ✅ How to protect your heart without hardening it ✅ Signs of a guarded vs. unguarded heart during divorce ✅ How healthy boundaries affect you...

5 Questions Every Christian Woman Must Ask Ready to date after divorce? Not so fast, beautiful. Before you swipe right or say yes to that coffee date, there are 5 crucial questions you need to honestly answer. In this episode, I share the exact questions I use with my coaching clients to determine if they're truly ready for healthy love or if they need more healing time first. In This Episode, You...

Dating after divorce can feel overwhelming, especially when you're carrying the weight of grief that others don't understand. In this episode, we explore the many faces of grief after heartbreak—from mourning your future dreams to navigating family separation—and why honoring your grief is actually the pathway back to love. What You'll Learn: The 5 types of grief you experience after heartbreak (a...

Discover the six transformative habits that make mature women absolutely magnetic. This isn't about superficial attraction - it's about stepping into authentic power and irresistible confidence that can only come with wisdom and experience. Your scars and experiences are part of your power, not weaknesses to hide Boundaries aren't walls - they're gates that you control Age is an advantage when it...

  💪 The 4 Practical Steps You'll Learn: Create your "Solitude Pact" - A powerful tool for moments of weakness Transform urgency into prayer - What to do BEFORE picking up your phone Build your support network - Why you shouldn't fight this battle alone Rediscover your identity - Who you are when no one else is watching 💝 What Other Listeners Are Saying: "This episode came right when I needed it...