Ruken

Reunite with Self Podcast

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LIBERATION & PARENTING My mission is to help create CLARITY and guide you to start creating YOUR INCREDBILE LIFE. Because I know what has truly stopped me from playing full out (truly) in life and what was hidden that actually were the source of so much confusion, hidden self sabotage and staying in the hope of someday my life changing to start living my incredible life where I felt like I was using my energy truly for things that mattered to me.  I have learned it the hard way not to play small to accommodate others.  And here in this podcast, it is my intention to share all the wisdom, coura...

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Ruken

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Education

Latest episode

Feb 20, 2026

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Episodes

It Only Gets Darker Before It Gets Super BRIGHT! 23.11.2023

My gorgeous listener, I hope this will be a great reminder Episode for you whenever you feel any kind of challenge in your life. You are not alone in this journey. I know this Episode will be kind & good to your heart and soul. Let's Have You Create Your Incredible Life. I love you. I will see you inside the Episode. FREE 13 Questions QUIZ: To See If Someone You Know May Have Narcissistic...

9 WAYS Why Your Need Doesn't Get Met with PEOPLE-PLEASING 16.11.2023

My gorgeous listener, in this Episode;  I walk you through 9 WAYS/REASONS why you are hoping for in that dynamic/moment/relationship actually never gets met when you are in the mode of PEOPLE- PLEASING. I'll see you inside the Episode. Please share this Episode with a friend who you know is compassionate and empathic. You never know how much you support someone with small actions like this. F...

The ONE THING That Calls in Love, Money, Ease, Support 09.11.2023

My gorgeous listener, in this Episode we dive into what the ONE THINGS is that calls in all the Love, Money, Abudance, Ease, Support and whatever gives you true FULFILMENT in your life. In the Episode we talk about 3 things that this thing brings in and the 3 things that are the required foundation for this journey to begin. Let's have you start creating YOUR INCREDIBLE LIFE! I love you and I...

Why FORGIVING comes last- not first? 02.11.2023

In this Episode, we dive into why it is not realistic, and actually very toxic to ask someone to forgive the other person before they even express truly what happened and how they have felt. Especially if it is about someone from the family they come from; a parent, a sibling etc. We talk about WHY forgiving first (before going through the journey of healing) is not possible. And I walk you throug...

3 STEPS to SELF ACTUALIZE: STEP 3! 26.10.2023

In this Episode we conclude the 3 STEPS for the Journey of SELF ACTUALIZATION. I actually call it the 3.3 Steps and I explain why in the Episode. In the Episode, I also explain and go into why the journey of SELF ACTUALIZATION no matter how challenging, exhausting :) or what hurdles you get in the way; always holds a SOFT EMBRACE/ a SOFT GROUND. And I explain in the Episode. See you in there. I lo...

3 STEPS to SELF ACTUALIZE: STEP 2 12.10.2023

In this mini series, I am walking you through the MUST 3 STEPS for you start SELF ACTUALIZATION. Today's Episode is Step 2.   Change doesn't happen over time. Change actually happens in a moment. And with shares from my own personal experience as well, I am walking you through what Step 1 and Step 2 looks like and why you need to apply them in this order and how they support one another....

3 STEPS to SELF ACTUALIZE: STEP ONE (the most crucial one) 05.10.2023

In this 3.3 STEPS for you to SELF ACTUALIZE, I will walk you through the 3 STEPS that are necessary and MUST for you to start creating your incredible life. In this bite size Episode, I am sharing with you the Number 1, most important step of the journey. And without this step, none of the others truely functions. For you to start living life feeling like you are using your full potential, for you...

6 Points on How the Mind of the Narcissist Works 28.09.2023

My gorgeous listener, in this Episode, we explore the 6 ways the mind of the narcissist works. This applies most if not all of the narcissists- some might surprise you or might just make sense right away. By seeing how the mind of the person who has narcissistic tendency works, you will see clearer on why they do/don't do.  On to clear CLARITY! CLARITY saved my life and my intention with this...

How You Tried to Be Loved as a Child Might Be Your Stuck Point + 3 STEPS to Turn it Into Your Magic Maker 21.09.2023

Wow! This is a powerful Episode. I am sharing with you my insights on freshest of an experience today. And it was sparked by this quote I came across: 'How You Tried to Be Loved as a Child, is Most Likely Your Stuck Place in the Present.' and I add '& How You Can Utilize This to Turn it Into Your Gold/ Your Superpower' I am sharing with you 3 x 3 way in  How You Might Be St...

What is the 1 Common Symptom/Result of Being Raised by Narcissistic Abuse? And How to Heal It. 14.09.2023

This Episode is very special. Something I am still in the journey of healing.  And it is profound. If you were raised in a family where there was any narcissistic tendencies/behavior, then this one is for you!! See you inside the Episode. Share with a compassionate, empathic friend. You never know how much you might help someone with small things. FREE 13 Questions QUIZ: To See If Someone You Know...

What is the 1 Thing That's More Important Than Having Great Relationship With Family? 07.09.2023

This comes to all the highly sensitive, empathic, compassionate souls. What if I tell you that your idea and motivation to have a great relationship with family might be the thing that keeps you stuck or not starting to create your incredible life? And why is that? Let's dive deeper. See you inside the Episode. FREE 13 Questions QUIZ: To See If Someone You Know May Have Narcissistic Tendency...

2 Main Reasons WHY This Was The First Vacation of My LIFE! 31.08.2023

Wow! In this Episode, I am sharing with you why I feel as if this was the first true vacation of my life. See you inside the Episode! Share with a friend who is empathic, compassionate and loving towards you! FREE 13 Questions QUIZ: To See If Someone You Know May Have Narcissistic Tendency : Grab it for FREE HERE : ⬇️ https://rukenlesimdianladim.myflodesk.com/freequiz Take a screenshot of this epi...

Why I Don't Believe in Criticism! Even 'Constructive' Criticism!! 24.08.2023

This is something I am very passionate about. I know the number 1 thing that is holding you back today in any shape or form is the 'constructive' (or whatever they wanted to call it) criticism you received from your parents. PERIOD. In this Episode I share with you why I don't believe any kind of criticism in work life, personal life, any area of life, and that I don't believe...

What Kind of Parent Creates What Kind of Individual? The 4 TYPES! 17.08.2023

This Episode is fascinating. In this Episode I am sharing with you a knowledge I have learned from an incredible book Celestine Prophecy. A section of the book talks about the 4 TYPES of people and what kind of children they create when they become parents? So what type of parent creates what type of pattern for their children's life when they become parents? This is really fascinating, even...

If You Have Any Kind of Resistance with a Family Member.. Listen Up! 10.08.2023

If you have any kind of feelings/thoughts around a parent/ family member: - They don't full understand me. Not in every are of life. - They don't fully believe in me. I know this deep down. - I wouldn't be fully comfortable or wouldn't leave the conversation feeling empowered if I share my deepest desires or fears with them. - They have really broken me in the past in certain a...

What is Self Trust? 03.08.2023

In this Episode, we are uncovering what Self Trust is. Something that I am learning in a deeper level. What is Self Trust? and what is Self Confidence? What is their difference? And how can you spot if you are having any kind of resistance or challenge in life that might seem like a different topic but it might be actually related to Self Trust? How does it show up when you are having a moment of...

If You Haven't Found Your Passion, Listen Up! 27.07.2023

This is a very powerful and useful episode, if you think you haven't found your passion yet. Maybe you have this one idea (or couple) in your head but you haven't started acting on it, you haven't made a clear decision, maybe you are considering it, maybe you think you are clueless on where to go, how to begin, or what your passion or path is in this lifetime. This episode is very p...

The 3 BIG STEPS If You Had Narcissistic Tendency in Family 20.07.2023

In this Episode, I am sharing with you the 3 BIG STEPS that are MUSTS if you want to start creating your incredible life. Meaning the life you envision for yourself, the life you know lies in your heart & your soul. Well, that life is actually your true nature. And these 3 POWERFUL steps will exponentially help you to start creating YOUR INCREDIBLE LIFE if you had any kind of narcissistic tend...

Quick Test To See If Someone Has Narcissistic Tendency 13.07.2023

Here is a quick test for you to see if someone in your family, or in any area of your life might have Narcissistic Tendency, Behavior towards you. This easy quick test would apply to many different types of narcissistic personalities, lifestyles, the way they do what they do. However subtle their technique is or not :) this test is a clear indication that this person might actually have narcissist...

3 Things Narcissism in Family Do To You 06.07.2023

In this Episode, we are going to the basics and talk about what are the BIG 3 Things Narcissism in Family do to you- what is the result, how might it be playing out today in your adult life if you had any narcissistic tendency, behavior in family. And What are the MAIN 3 BIG Steps for you to  Change Your Life Massively today for a Fulfilling, Incredible Life. Life is sacred and you are here to pla...

The Cost in Your Business If You Had Narcissism in Family 29.06.2023

In this Episode, I am sharing with you  a very recent challenge I had in my business journey. Here we talk about only one (and a very costly one) of the huge costs if you had Narcissism in family. Any narcissistic tendency, behavior etc. Whether you are a business owner, have a job, want to have your business one day, or just in work space, this will be super helpful! Let's dive in. FREE 13 Q...

3 Things That Changed My Life Massively 22.06.2023

In this short & sweet Episode, I am sharing with you 3 Things I am implementing in my life that changed my life massively. On another level! And I know these tips will inspire you to find your own groove to REALIZE YOUR FULL POTENTIAL. Because you are actually ready today to start creating YOUR INCREDIBLE LIFE! I'll see you inside! Share with an open-hearted, sensitive, empathic friend wh...

Why Supporting The Gaslighted in Family is LIFE CHANGING! 15.06.2023

In this Episode, we dive into the 7 main reasons how supporting the person who is gaslight or abused in any kind of way changes everything for them. Let's dive into 7 ways in which your smallest support (and this might surprise you in the episode) will CHANGE THE PERSON's life who is being Gaslight. We also clarify on this Episode: - What Gaslighting is? How it looks like? - Who Gaslight...

Might There Be Narcissism In Your Family? 3 Signs 08.06.2023

My intention is for this Episode to reach the highly sensitive, highly empathic, compassionate souls that want to make a big shift in their lives but they are looking at the wrong places to make that shift. My intention is for this Episode to find those that need it the most- the highly sensitive souls that will create their incredible lives and make great impact on other's lives. The world n...

The Sneaky Self-Sabotage: The Paralyzed Days When You Don't Do Anything 01.06.2023

Do you have days where you don't take the actions you know you MUST take in order to move the needle? To have a more fulfilled life? For you to get to the next level? Or in your work, you feel stuck? You feel frustrated; maybe you take actions but you don't see any difference, or you somehow don't feel the 'motivation' to take these actions. Whether it is visible or hidden...

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