Resilient Reiner

This changed everything for me! What if the secret to conquering your fears isn't about getting rid of them, but about where you put your focus? In today's episode, I'm sharing a game-changing realization from my horsemanship journey: it’s not about eliminating fears and anxieties but about directing your focus toward what truly matters. When I shifted my perspective, everything transformed. I lea...

Have you ever felt like you don’t fit into the typical mold of a rider because you don’t compete, or maybe you don’t even want to?  Do you sometimes feel like your journey with your horse lacks a place in the western world?  Today’s episode is dedicated to those riders who often feel unrepresented – the ones who ride for the love of the horse, not for the ribbons or accolades. In this heartfelt ep...

Have you ever considered that the pros are just like us? Do you think they handle their horses differently than the everyday rider? Do you wonder if pros ever have to build confidence, overcome anxiety, or take lessons of their own? Do they have mentors, and how do they handle pressure? Sometimes trainers seem like school teachers, where the stereotype is that teachers sleep under their desks at s...

Are you pushing yourself just enough to grow, or are you tipping into the territory of too much?  Do you treat yourself with the same compassion you’d offer a friend or your horse? In today’s episode, we dive deep into the psychology of hurt, healing, and resilience, exploring the fine line between productive struggle and overwhelming challenge. As riders, we’re often steeped in the ethos that pai...

Are you wondering if you're really improving or just floundering?  What if I told you that these messy, uncomfortable moments are actually signs that you're leveling up??! Today, we’re diving into the messy, exhilarating process of leveling up as a rider. Improvement isn’t always pretty, and it often feels like everything’s falling apart right before the breakthrough. But how do you know you’re on...

Do you struggle with fear when working with your horse?  Does even the thought of getting back in the saddle make your heart race? Today’s episode is all about turning that fear into confidence, one small step at a time. We’re diving into a journey that many riders face but few talk about openly – overcoming fear. Whether you've been in the horse world for years or are just starting out, fear can...

Ever have one of those days when you and your horse just can’t seem to get it right? Whether it's the high stakes of the NRHA Derby or just a regular ride that’s not clicking, today’s episode is exactly what you need. Today, I’m excited to share some game-changing strategies to help you reset and refocus. This week, I’ve been coaching clients preparing for the Derby, and we’ve tackled what to do w...

90% of riders make this mistake. Do you?  Are you stuck in a loop of self-criticism after a less-than-perfect ride?  In today’s episode, we’ll explore a familiar scenario for many riders: the internal struggle that follows a run that didn’t quite hit the mark. Imagine stepping off your horse and immediately replaying every misstep in your mind. It’s easy to get caught in a cycle of self-doubt and...

Life with horses is full of contradictions.  Power meets gentleness and trust coexists with fear. Join me as I discuss how subtle cues can evoke powerful responses from our horses and how building trust means facing our fears together. We'll look at why failure is a stepping stone to success and how the freedom of riding demands both control and discipline. This episode is about more than just rid...

Won’t it make your horse anticipate if you ride patterns at home? Won’t it ruin your horse and you won’t get an honest effort in the show pen? But at what cost? Do you ever feel like you don’t really know what you’ll get when you enter the show pen because you don’t ride full patterns at home?  Can you tell me you truly feel prepared and know yourself, know your horse, know the strengths and weakn...

"Nothing's changing!" Feeling frustrated with your training progress and questioning why you’re not seeing immediate results? In today’s episode, we dive deep into the power of consistency and how it shapes our journey as riders. We’ll explore why those daily efforts, even when they seem to show no visible improvement, are crucial to long-term success. Together, we'll break down how regular practi...

Feeling overwhelmed in the warm-up pen before your big competition? In today's episode, we dive into the chaos of the warm up pen and how to transform that critical time into a smooth, productive experience. Join me as I share what I’ve personally learned over the years to feel more in control, less stressed and have a more successful warm-up pen experience - no matter how crowded or chaotic it is...

Feeling down after a disappointing show?  Today’s episode dives into the rollercoaster of emotions riders face and how to manage them effectively. Ready for practical strategies to help you shake off the bad mood and get back on track?! Join me as we unpack simple yet powerful strategies to manage those post-show blues. From understanding what really triggered your mood to taking action and making...

How can you keep progressing even when you're not in the saddle? This episode is for you.  Maybe your horse is laid up with an injury. Maybe you're headed on a grand summer vacation. Maybe you're just looking to optimize your skills with one horse and limited time. Today, we’re diving into 5 game-changing strategies to elevate your riding skills without needing a horse. Yep—no horse required! We’l...

"Think like a general—ride like a champion." Today we are bringing Sun Tzu’s legendary tactics from the battlefield to the riding arena! We'll explore how preparing like a general can transform your approach to competitions, turning every ride into a masterfully strategized campaign. You’ll discover how ancient tactics can sharpen your competitive edge, help you connect more deeply with your horse...

Mental performance in action. So what’s it like to apply all this mental performance stuff in an everyday ride? What’s it like to apply resilience, confidence, focus, & emotional regulation when your horse is doing their own thing? Which isn’t what you had in mind… I share a story from my own recent experience about what it’s like to put all this to use and how that can be oh so challenging wi...

Have you ever dreamed of riding with the confidence of a champion? Today, we're going to show you how!   In today’s episode, where we’re offering you a special gift: the $1 Million Confidence Blueprint, absolutely free. This isn’t just for seasoned competitors; it’s for anyone who’s ever faced doubts or barriers, in and out of the saddle.   Together, we'll uncover powerful tactics that help quiet...

What do you mean a fancy horse & full training doesn’t solve all?!?    *shocked pikachu face*    I’m getting vulnerable in this podcast, you guys. I share 3 hard won lessons I had to teach my brain.    In this episode, we’re stepping beyond the typical training advice to tackle the real game-changer in any rider’s journey: your mindset.   Join me as we debunk the myth that success in the arena...

Feeling stuck in the saddle?    If you've ever found yourself replaying a ride gone wrong and wondering why you can't shake off the negativity, this episode is tailored for you. We dive into the mental traps that all riders face—those subtle forces that can undermine both your performance and your joy in the arena.   What if the secret to breaking free from these traps was not about pushing harder...

Ever wonder why you always put on one boot first and not the other? Habits. We all have ‘em. Habits of action, and habits of thought. As our competitive horse show season ramps up, we explore the critical role of your mental habits—both the ones that hinder you and those that can help you excel.     I share insights from a longtime client who struggled with competition stress and how reshaping her...

Ever faced a moment so tough you felt like giving up?   In this special episode, we celebrate the launch of Resilient Reiner Academy , a new chapter for every western rider who's ever needed a boost of confidence. I've been through those lows myself, where quitting felt closer than carrying on. But as we'll discuss today, it's these very moments that forge our resilience.   Today, I’m sharing insp...

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It comes down to this, cowboy.    Ever wondered why your horse rides better with a pro?   What if I told you that the key to unlocking your horse's best performance lies within your own mental shift?    In this episode, we’ll delve into the mindset that separates the best riders from the rest, and learn how you can apply these insights to improve not just your riding, but your connection with your...

4 mental hacks to make your next show smoother.    Ever wondered what truly sets apart a smooth show day from the rest? It's not always the meticulous training or even the flawless execution; sometimes, it really is all in your head! In this episode, I share 4 strategies that can make or break your performance in the arena.    Ready to challenge the status quo of competition day nerves and step in...

Episode Overview: Ever caught yourself dreaming of the perfect escape where your passion meets your daily grind, and somehow, everything just balances out? This episode is your ticket to that reality. Dive into the heart and soul of the equestrian world with Kasey "Kase" Merced, a horsewoman who’s blending family, competition, and a deeply rooted passion for making the equestrian world accessible...