Relationship Workout for Men (Members)

In this episode of Relationship Workout for Men, host Vince Vasquez interviews clinical social worker and psychotherapist Roni Maislish about the significant impact that friends and colleagues have on men's identities and relationships. They delve into the concepts of twinships and the importance of surrounding oneself with positive influences for personal and emotional growth. Roni Maislish...

In this episode of Relationship Workout for Men, host Vince Vasquez and psychotherapist Roni Maislish explore the psychological roots of addictions, focusing on the emotional voids that fuel them. They discuss how unaddressed childhood needs and feelings of emptiness can lead to various addictions, offering insights into recognizing and addressing these underlying issues. Roni Maislish is a clinic...

In this episode of Relationship Workout for Men, host Vince Vasquez and psychotherapist Roni Maislish explore the dynamics of toxic relationships and codependency. They discuss how emotional starvation, and a lack of self-awareness can lead men to see themselves and others as objects, undermining genuine connection and empathy in their relationships. Roni Maislish is a clinical social worker and p...

In this episode of Relationship Workout for Men, host Vince Vasquez and psychotherapist Roni Maislish discuss the impact of lifestyle medicine on men's relationships. They explore how holistic changes in various aspects of life, including diet, exercise, relationships, and spirituality, can lead to healthier, more fulfilling connections. Roni Maislish is a clinical social worker and psychothe...

In season 21 episode 2 of "Relationship Workout for Men," host Vince Vasquez delves into the importance of purpose in men's lives with guest expert Roni Maislish. They explore how defining a personal mission and undertaking actionable steps towards it not only fosters individual growth but also enhances men's relationships and community connections. Through this discussion, the...

In this episode of Relationship Workout for Men, host Vince Vasquez and psychotherapist Roni Maislish discuss the deep impact of childhood trauma on men's emotional health and relationships. They explore the concept of complex trauma, emotional neglect, and how addressing these hidden wounds can lead to healthier, more meaningful connections and personal growth. Roni Maislish is a clinical so...

In season 20, episode 2 host Vince Vasquez and guest Nihinlola Olowe, a psychotherapist from Lagos, Nigeria, delve into societal norms and gender roles that influence attitudes toward infidelity. They discuss how traditional and current societal expectations shape behaviors and the perceived rights within a marriage, particularly highlighting the disparities between expectations for men and women....

In episode 3 of season 20, host Vince Vasquez and psychotherapist Nihinlola Olowe from Lagos State, Nigeria, delve into the psychological underpinnings of infidelity, discussing how emotional dissatisfaction, societal norms, and the need for sexual variety drive behaviors. Nihinlola highlights the disparities in societal reactions to male and female infidelity, noting the pressures men face to sup...

In season 20, episode 4 of "Relationship Workout for Men," Vince Vasquez and guest Nihinlola Olowe, a psychotherapist from Lagos, Nigeria, explore the ethical considerations of monogamy versus polygamy, focusing on the importance of consent and commitment in relationships. They discuss how both monogamous and polygamous relationships require clear communication and mutual consent, highli...

In episode five, season 20 of "Relationship Workout for Men," titled "What if my wife doesn't want sex?", host Vince Vasquez and psychotherapist Nihinlola Olowe from Lagos, Nigeria discuss the complex issue of infidelity arising from a lack of intimacy in marriage. Nihinlola emphasizes the importance of understanding the underlying reasons behind a partner's disintere...

In season 20, episode six of "Relationship Workout for Men," host Vince Vasquez and guest Nihinlola Olowe, a psychotherapist from Lagos, Nigeria, explore the profound emotional impact of infidelity on wives. They delve into the consequences such as trust erosion, decreased self-esteem, and emotional instability, illustrating these with real-world scenarios that highlight the profound dis...

In season 20, episode seven of "Relationship Workout for Men," Vince Vasquez and guest Nihinlola Olowe, a psychotherapist from Lagos, Nigeria, delve into the often-overlooked consequences of infidelity on children. They discuss how children, caught in the emotional turmoil of their parents' conflicts, suffer deeply, experiencing confusion, loss of trust, and long-term emotional trau...

 Episode 8 dives into the complex journey of healing after betrayal with the "Relationship Workout for Men" podcast episode titled "Counseling and Recovery After Infidelity." Host Vince Vasquez, alongside psychotherapist Nihinlola Olowe, explores the essential role of counseling in rebuilding trust and navigating the emotional aftermath of infidelity. This pivotal episode offer...

In this episode 1 of Season 20, Nihinlola Olowe, a psychotherapist from Lagos, Nigeria, discusses the complex topics of infidelity, cultural and religious acceptance of polygamy, and the moral implications of these practices. She differentiates between consensual polygamy and secretive infidelity, emphasizing that true rights are actions one can confidently claim publicly. This insightful session...

In Episode Seven of "Relationship Workout for Men," titled "Talk About Sex," host Vince Vasquez and guest Luis Maimoni, a licensed marriage and family therapist, delve into the complexities of sexual relationships within the broader context of commitment. This episode challenges the conventional perceptions of sexuality, advocating for open discussions about desires and prefere...

In Episode Three "Building Trust and Commitment," host Vince Vasquez engages with Luis Maimoni, a licensed marriage and family therapist, to explore the elements necessary for cultivating trust and commitment in relationships. They discuss the practical application of the ATTUNE method, developed by relationship experts John and Julie Gottman, which includes awareness, tolerance, underst...

In Episode Four titled "Invest in Your Relationship," host Vince Vasquez discusses with Luis Maimoni, a licensed marriage and family therapist, how relationships are similar to bank accounts: what you invest, you benefit from. They explore practical ways to nurture relationships by recognizing and responding to partners' efforts with empathy and appreciation, emphasizing the importa...

In Season 19, Episode Five titled "Pay Attention," host Vince Vasquez and licensed marriage and family therapist Luis Maimoni explore the misconceptions about understanding women. They discuss how men are often portrayed as disconnected from women's thoughts and feelings, and how this contributes to a gap in understanding between genders. Luis emphasizes the importance of asking wom...

In Episode Six of "Relationship Workout for Men," titled "Grant Yourself Space to Be Yourself," Vince Vasquez and guest Luis Maimoni, a seasoned marriage and family therapist, delve into the unspoken expectations placed on men to maintain a stoic demeanor. They discuss the necessity for men to explore and embrace their authentic selves rather than conforming to societal molds....

In the first episode of Season 19 of "Relationship Workout for Men," host Vince Vasquez and guest Luis Maimoni, a licensed marriage and family therapist, discuss the multifaceted nature of love as both an emotion and a verb. They explore the importance of self-awareness in relationships, emphasizing that love involves not just feelings but also deliberate actions and commitments. The epi...

In Season 19, Episode Two: "Transitioning from 'me' to 'we,'" Vince and guest Luis Maimoni, a licensed marriage and family therapist, discuss the importance of shifting focus in relationships from individual desires to collective goals. They delve into the complexities of commitments at various relationship stages and address common challenges like assumptions, expect...

Season 18, Episode 3 of "Relationship Workout for Men" gets straight to the point, distilling the essence of a successful long-term relationship into three key desires: companionship, sexual intimacy, and honesty. This episode delves into how men can foster a deep connection that transcends physical pleasure and embraces genuine companionship, nurtured by honest communication and mutual...

Season 18, Episode 4 of "Relationship Workout for Men" examines the electrifying yet deceptive role of makeup sex in relationships. While it may act as a temporary bridge to reconnection after conflicts, the episode warns against using it as a sole solution for deeper issues. Listeners are encouraged to prioritize genuine communication over the quick emotional fix that makeup sex provide...

In Season 18, Episode 5 of "Relationship Workout for Men," the podcast delves into the intricate power dynamics of relationships, challenging the notion that power lies solely in traditional factors like income or strength. Instead, it puts forward the compelling idea that the true arbiter of power is the capacity to say "no." Through relatable examples, this episode explores h...

Season 18, Episode 6 of "Relationship Workout for Men" explores the root causes of drama in relationships, questioning whether they stem from fundamental incompatibilities or from deficiencies in relationship skills. The episode dissects various types of incompatibility and how they can lead to persistent conflict, contrasting these with issues that may be alleviated through improving re...