Reflections of The Father’s Heart

In this episode, Sandi Derby explores the themes of faith, discomfort, and transformation through the lens of the church in Smyrna and the significance of myrrh. She emphasizes the importance of embracing crushing seasons as a means of spiritual growth and restoration, drawing parallels to the art of Kintsugi. The conversation highlights the role of community in healing and the lessons learned fro...

In this episode, Sandi Derby explores the complexities of family systems, the resistance to change, and the impact of these dynamics on personal healing and growth. She discusses the roles individuals play within toxic family systems, the concept of homeostasis, and how these patterns can lead to cult-like behaviors. Sandi emphasizes the importance of honesty, breaking generational curses, and the...

In this episode, Sandi Derby explores the profound and often misunderstood concept of obedience within the Christian faith. She reflects on her personal journey with obedience, discussing its biblical significance and the transformative power it holds in our lives. Through the lens of historical persecution, particularly the Church of Smyrna, she emphasizes the importance of obedience as a respons...

In this episode of Reflections of the Father's Heart, Sandi Derby explores the theme of going deeper with Jesus amidst the superficial distractions of modern life. She emphasizes the importance of understanding our purpose, the dual nature of Jesus, and the journey of healing and revelation. Sandi encourages listeners to embrace their true identity in Christ, navigate mental health challenges, and...

In this episode of Reflections of the Father's Heart, Sandi Derby discusses the complex topic of idolatry and its impact on our relationship with God. She emphasizes the importance of understanding the journey of sanctification, distinguishing it from justification, and encourages listeners to approach their spiritual growth with curiosity rather than condemnation. Through personal experiences, Sa...

In this episode of Reflections of the Father's Heart, Sandi Derby explores the profound themes of faith, God's goodness, and the journey of healing. She emphasizes the importance of understanding God's unwavering presence and love, even amidst suffering and family dynamics that may challenge one's faith. Sandi encourages listeners to embrace their calling, recognize the power of choice, and naviga...

In this episode, Sandi Derby delves into the topic of witchcraft, exploring its implications for believers and the church. She emphasizes the power of words, the historical and biblical context of witchcraft, and its modern manifestations. Through personal anecdotes and scriptural references, Sandi highlights the dangers of witchcraft, the importance of spiritual awareness, and the need for prayer...

In this episode, Sandi Derby explores the complex topic of sin within the Christian faith, addressing the confusion and condemnation often associated with it. She shares her personal journey from a background devoid of God to a deeper understanding of grace, the law, and the transformative power of Christ. Sandi emphasizes the importance of viewing sin through a lens of grace rather than condemnat...

In this episode of Reflections of the Father's podcast, Sandi Derby emphasizes the importance of perseverance in faith, encouraging listeners not to give up despite challenges. She discusses the significance of God's promises, the journey of faith, and the necessity of obedience. Drawing lessons from King David's life, she highlights the power of impact and purpose in fulfilling one's calling. The...

In this conversation, Sandi Derby explores the intricate relationship between humility, choice, and healing. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing our need for community and the dangers of a victim mindset that can hinder our healing journey. Through personal anecdotes and scriptural references, Sandi illustrates how faith and empowerment play crucial roles in overcoming obstacles and embra...

In this episode, Sandi Derby explores the complex relationship between Christians and demonic influence, emphasizing that while Christians cannot be possessed, they can experience oppression. The conversation delves into the process of sanctification, the importance of inner healing alongside deliverance, and how trauma can fracture the soul. Sandi highlights the need for believers to confront the...

In this conversation, Sandi Derby explores the controversial question of whether a Christian can have a demon. She delves into the origins of demons, the nature of spiritual warfare, and the importance of understanding inner healing and sanctification. Through personal testimony, she illustrates the transformative power of recognizing and addressing spiritual bondage, emphasizing the need for know...

In this episode, Sandi Derby delves into the profound impact of beliefs on our identity and faith. She emphasizes the importance of understanding our foundational beliefs, which are often formed in early childhood and can significantly influence our perceptions of ourselves, others, and God. Sandi discusses the role of crisis in revealing deep-seated beliefs and the necessity of confronting these...

In this episode of Reflections of the Father's Heart, Sandi Derby discusses the impact of the religious spirit on faith and community, particularly in light of recent events in California. She emphasizes the importance of understanding God's love and the dangers of legalism and judgment within religious contexts. Sandi explores the historical roots of religiosity, the misinterpretation of the law,...

In this episode, Sandi Derby explores the journey from coping with empathy to using it as a gift. She shares her personal experiences with trauma and healing, emphasizing the importance of understanding the burden that empathy can bring. Sandi discusses how to navigate the balance of empathizing without taking on others' pain, the significance of healing through connection, and the necessity of re...

In this episode, Sandi Derby discusses the themes of new beginnings and the importance of forgiveness as we transition into 2025. She emphasizes the layered nature of forgiveness, the necessity of releasing burdens, and the significance of community in our spiritual journeys. Sandi encourages listeners to prepare for the promises of God and to expect abundance in their lives while navigating the c...

In this episode, Sandi Derby discusses the significance of new beginnings as we transition from 2024 to 2025. She emphasizes the importance of hope, faith, and the need to release burdens that hinder our growth. Through biblical examples, she illustrates the challenges of stepping into new seasons and the necessity of keeping our focus on Jesus amidst difficulties. Sandi encourages listeners to em...

In this episode, Sandi Derby explores the concept of abundance through her personal journey and understanding of Jesus. She reflects on her past experiences, the struggles she faced, and how they shaped her understanding of what it means to live a life of abundance. Sandi emphasizes that true abundance is not merely about material wealth but is deeply rooted in connection with God and others. She...

In this episode, Sandi Derby explores the complexities of marriage, focusing on the themes of authority, submission, and the misuse of scripture. She shares her personal journey, detailing the struggles she faced in her marriage and the harmful teachings she encountered. Sandi emphasizes the importance of understanding God's heart for marriage, advocating for mutual submission and love rather than...

In this episode, Sandi Derby explores the themes of lifelong learning, the journey of healing, and the complexities of perfectionism. She shares her personal experiences with addiction and recovery, emphasizing the importance of deep connections with God and the Holy Spirit. Sandi delves into the roots of perfectionism, discussing how it can stem from childhood experiences and the need for accepta...

In this episode of Reflections of the Father's Heart, Sandi Derby explores the complexities of trauma bonds, attachment styles, and the importance of enjoying the journey of healing. She emphasizes the need for awareness to lead to compassionate action rather than justification of unhealthy behaviors. Through personal testimony, Sandi illustrates the significance of breaking free from unhealthy bo...

In this conversation, Sandi Derby interviews Dana Cole, a registered social worker and certified grief recovery specialist. They explore Dana's professional journey from child protection to private practice, emphasizing the importance of engagement and understanding grief and loss. Dana shares her personal experiences that shaped her career, the impact of unresolved grief on mental health, and the...

In this episode, Sandi Derby explores the concept of trauma bonding, its implications, and how it can be weaponized by the enemy. She discusses the essential nature of bonding in human experience, the different types of trauma bonds, and the detrimental effects of unhealthy attachments. Sandi emphasizes the importance of healing from these bonds and the need for a deep connection with Jesus for tr...

In this episode, Sandi Derby continues her conversation with Dominic Wickey, who shares his profound journey of growing up in an Amish community marked by trauma, abuse, and cultural silence. Dominic recounts his experiences of childhood abuse, the shame and anger that followed, and the struggles he faced with identity and belonging. The discussion delves into the cultural practices of shunning wi...

In this podcast episode, Sandi Derby interviews Mishka Murad, a certified grief recovery method specialist, who shares her inspiring journey from growing up in Pakistan to working with students in the U.S. Mishka discusses the impact of losing her mother at a young age, the cultural challenges she faced, and how these experiences shaped her identity. She emphasizes the importance of emotional heal...