Recovery (Sort Of) - The Podcast

We've been reflecting on our self-imposed obligations lately, realizing they're taking a toll. Balancing work, social life, family, and personal projects feels overwhelming. There's this pressure to excel in everything, but we're dropping the ball in many areas, leaving us feeling unfulfilled. It's time for a reevaluation of what truly matters and what we can let go of. We'...

In this episode, we dive into the intricacies of relationships, self-discovery, and personal growth. We start by exploring the significance of nurturing meaningful friendships and communities, emphasizing the need to let go of relationships that no longer serve us. We reflect on the importance of taking initiative in seeking out connections that align with our values and aspirations, rather than p...

In this episode, we explore the idea of examining unspoken expectations and obligations within relationships. We realize that constantly doing favors can create resentment and inauthentic connections. We discuss the importance of clear communication and setting boundaries to establish healthier, more supportive relationships. This episode touches on a few common themes in psychotherapy: Codependen...

In our podcast discussion, we delve into the theme of uncertainty, exploring how individuals confront and manage the unknown in their lives. We share personal experiences and perspectives on faith, control, and coping mechanisms. One of us finds solace in the belief in a higher power or universal order, trusting that things will unfold as they should, while the other grapples with the absence of s...

We continue our conversation by exploring the challenges of navigating uncertainty and the fear of failure, particularly in the context of career choices and personal growth. We talk about impatience about not knowing the future, and a desire for control, despite enjoying aspects of planning. Perfectionism and the fear of making mistakes, especially when it comes to our children, are also anxietie...

In our discussion, we explored the complexities of parenting, boundaries, and the journey of reparenting ourselves. We recognize the importance of setting clear boundaries in parenting, acknowledging that children thrive when expectations are established. However, we also admit to the challenges of balancing our children's desires with the needs of the family as a whole. Generational differenc...

The podcast episode explores the challenges of navigating relationships with family members, particularly parents, in the context of recovery and mental health struggles. The hosts share personal experiences and insights about setting boundaries, dealing with triggers, and engaging in self-reparenting processes to heal past wounds. They discuss the complexities of maintaining relationships with pa...

This episode dives deep into the complexities of attachment styles and their influence on romantic relationships. In talking about our own relationships, we delve into communication difficulties and struggles to connect. When one partner feels unheard and unseen when trying to express their needs, it can lead to a cycle of blame and resentment. identifying their attachment styles as "avoidant...

We take on a question about sponsorship in a 12-step recovery program, around the topic of helping sponsees who have relapsed, and it takes a turn into the question we all face: "Where am I allowed to stop?". We question how much help to offer, feeling conflicted and guilty about whether we are doing enough. We grapple with the competing desires to follow our authentic self and fulfill e...

We're striving to cultivate a psychologically safe space for our children, where they feel emotionally validated and comfortable expressing their vulnerabilities. Witnessing our past interpersonal conflict may have unintentionally created an inhibitory environment for open communication. We acknowledge our own emotional dysregulation and limited capacity for affective connection, which could b...

The discussion revolves around understanding how our nervous system regulates our responses to emotions and how this influences our behavior. It emphasizes the crucial role parents play in shaping their children's emotional responses by modeling their own reactions. By recognizing and addressing our own emotional patterns, the conversation suggests that we can guide our children toward healthi...

Continuing the conversation about near enemies, we explored the intricacies of cultivating virtues such as sympathetic joy, equanimity, and loving-kindness. We considered the challenge of experiencing sympathetic joy for individuals who may have caused harm or whom we perceive as undeserving, highlighting the need for genuine self-reflection and effort in cultivating positive feelings. Additionall...

In the latest episode of the "Recovery Sort Of" podcast, we delve into the concept of "near enemies," inspired by Buddhist principles discussed in Brene Brown's book, "Atlas of the Heart." Near enemies are behaviors that may outwardly resemble positive or moral actions but originate from a less authentic or well-intentioned place. The hosts explore this concept wi...

In this episode of "Recovery Sort of," we delve into the concept of the Experimental Relationship Journal. This unique experiment, serves as a powerful tool to confront feelings of loneliness and worthlessness while fostering a deeper sense of interconnectedness with those around them. Through a straightforward approach, one can reflect on the order of daily interactions, encompassing va...

In our latest "Recovery Sort of" episode, we delve into the complexities of self-care, unveiling personal anecdotes that shed light on the ongoing struggle to strike a balance between personal well-being and life's demands. We share candid reflections on the challenges of prioritizing tasks, managing household responsibilities, and navigating internal conflicts surrounding productivi...

Welcome back to another episode of the Recovery (Sort Of) podcast! In today's discussion, we delve into the complex world of self-care, exploring the ongoing debate between prioritizing the present and investing in our future selves. Join us as we navigate the delicate balance between indulging in self-care pleasures in the present and making conscious efforts to secure a healthier, happier fu...

In part 2, we continue the conversation around our societal norms and customs with family in modern times. We shift our focus to how to recognize and address this dysfunction that is happening in our systems. We talk about the idea that rules we have been following are actually tools that we have put in place for a good life. And when they are not producing a good life, it might be time to apply a...

In this episode, we break free from the traditional script of family. We unpack the pressure to conform, question outdated expectations, and redefine what it means to belong. Join us as we explore: Boundaries with family: When to say yes, when to say no, and how to create healthy space without sacrificing love. Rethinking traditions: Are passed-down practices enriching or suffocating? Discover tip...

Finishing up with Jason telling his story, we explore the recovery years up through the present day. Jason talks about moving from traditional 12 step recovery, into trying more holistic healing methods, such as medical marijuana and magic mushrooms. Themes of validation, infidelity, shame, recovery, and healing. Jason's Story - Part 1 ⁠ Jason's Story - Part 2 Listen in to the conversation...

Continuing Jason's story this week. We move into the middle school, high school and young adult years. Rebellion, the results of a traumatic young life, whatever we call it, the downward spiral toward hopelessness continues. Lots of exploration of events and meanings. Jason's Story - Part 1 Listen in to the conversation, and then share your thoughts with us. How to find us and join the con...

We are doing Jason's story this week. We explore themes of childhood trauma, what different life events might mean for humans, and how kids navigate the world. We talk about forms of abuse, societal rules of parenting, and the fear parents can succumb to. Listen in to the conversation, and then share your thoughts with us. How to find us and join the conversation: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Web...

We are talking about some of the fundamental concepts that are explained by Attachment Theory. We look into insecure-anxious attachment, insecure-avoidant attachment, and secure and disorganized attachment to a lesser extent. We try to use real world examples to discuss what being caught up in an attachment reaction looks and feels like. We talk about interconnections to Polyvagal Theory, Internal...

We are exploring the internal battle of time for self-care versus guilt about doing things for ourselves. We touch on the world's demands, people pleasing, setting boundaries with our kids, and the idea that learning is hard. Lots of exploration of guilt, listening to our internal messages, and how to become curious about false internal messages. We attempt to answer the question: "When i...

We continue the conversation about anger on this episode. Jenny, Billy and Jason explore all the inner workings of anger, what it can feel like, when it tends to happen, what is going on underneath and inside your body, and what we can do about it. We talk about the shame cycle, how fear leads us to react, and why anger does not work in the long run. We talk about the purpose of anger, and what ca...

We are talking about anger on this episode. Jenny, Billy and Jason explore all the inner workings of anger, what it can feel like, when it tends to happen, what is going on underneath and inside your body, and what we can do about it. We talk about the shame cycle, how fear leads us to react, and why anger does not work in the long run. Listen in as we talk about anger, stay tuned for part 2 next...