Real Conversations about Aging Parents

Welcome! In this episode we review social paticipation barriers for aging parents. We discuss barriers and trouble shooting for participating in social or celebration events such as graduations, weddings, etc. TIPS: 1) Notice participation issues 2) Get curious - ask questions 3) Get creative in working around barriers 4) Practice and repeat! Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "sh...

Welcome! In this episode we explore another emotion - RESENTMENT! Where does it come from? How does it feel? What does it represent? I have my ORIGINAL podcast guest, Rene, to dive deep and unpack the emotion in all its (terrible) glory. Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well for you, leave the rest! This podcast is for info...

Welcome! In this episode we deep dive a POSITIVE emotion, the fabulous concept of gratitude. We talk about various versions of gratitude, how it shows up with aging parents, and a few caveats in using the super power of gratitude. Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well for you, leave the rest! This podcast is for information...

Welcome! In this episode we visit again (see Episode 51) with Aaron Murphy of ForeverHome about the personal side of his aging-in-place passion. He and his wife have a blended family with four teenagers and four aging parents, one with advancing dementia. Let's talk about. I love this no-nonsense conversation - please enjoy! If you want to reach out to Aaron... Check out https://www.foreverhome-us...

Welcome! In this episode I have a special guest, Eryn Oruncak, who walks us through her approach to interior design including how she integrates form, function and lighting. Eryn founded Elan Design in 2016 offering services for interior design and fine art. She has completed the Science in Design certification and has a lot to share with you today! Eryn's website: https://www.elan.design/ Eryn's...

Welcome! In this episode I take a closer look at factors influencing life expectancy. There's actually some science to it! Whether you are a mega-planner and want more information or just curious about the potential changes in life expectancy, tune in! Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well for you, leave the rest! This podc...

Welcome! In this episode I run down various ways to collaborate with the healthcare team, specifically five tips: How to ask questions Executive management How to be present Being realistic Self care At the end of the day - you want everyone pulling in the same direction right? Tune in! Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well...

Welcome! In this episode we have distinguished guest Aaron Murphy of ForeverHome© and ADM Architecture near Seattle, WA. We discuss and dissect the current state of affairs for residential design - then dream about a future with a more comprehensive, person centered approach that actually creates spaces that perform well over a lifetime. Looking to connect with Aaron? Check out https://www.forever...

Welcome! In this episode I review my top reasons for creating and continuing the podcast itself: Normalizing, educating, and allowing for more connection during chaos. If you have thoughts to share or want to be on the podcast, please email me at story@rebeccatapiamd.com Thank you! Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well for...

Welcome! In this episode we take another deep dive into a highly relevant concept... uncertainty! What are some forms of uncertainty? How does our brain deal with it? What is the relevance to managing life with aging parents? Where do you fit on the "spectrum" of handling uncertainty? Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well f...

 Welcome! In this episode we dissect Medicare A, B, C and D, the various timelines to be aware of including the overall pros/cons of each option. Where do you start? What do you consider? What if you move? We have all the things here! Would you like to be in touch with Niki Feret of Chicagoland Medicare? https://chicagolandmedicare.com/ Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds...

Welcome! In this episode I dissect the different factors at play in a decision to leave home and enter a senior living community. We review different scenarios, considerations and real life examples. This is not an easy topic - but one where thinking ahead does a lot of heavy lifting! Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well f...

Welcome! In this episode we visit again with Jaylenn (episode 6) about her healing process since our initial conversation last year. We talk about the questions she has asked herself, the new conclusions she has drawn, and practical tips to get through one of the most difficult periods of life. Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what wo...

Welcome! In this episode we a deep dive to understand different types of falls, causes of the anxiety around falls, and how to prevent them. Extra Resources: CDC Checklist: https://www.cdc.gov/steadi/pdf/check_for_safety_brochure-a.pdf Medications and falls: https://ncfallsprevention.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/Medication-Fact-Sheet_FINAL_508-1.pdf AARP home fit guide: https://www.aarp.org/liva...

Welcome! In this episode we have the second half of the conversation from last week with Stephen T, only child and currently helping his father out of state. We talk about quality of life, making hard decisions, and how to honor someone in a difficult situation. Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well for you, leave the rest!...

Welcome! This is episode 1 of 2 of my real time conversation with a coworker, Stephen, who is actively managing an aging parent in a different state who is experiencing a rapid cognitive decline. Make sure to stay tuned for Part 2 of 2 next week! Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well for you, leave the rest! This podcast is...

Welcome! In this episode I am replaying a portion of an interview I completed about a year ago with Physician turned Interior Designer, Dr. Kricia Palmer. At this point I had no idea I would start my own podcast, but felt eager to start sharing my own points of view on the topic. Enjoy! Check out Kricia's work here: https://www.housecallsforphysicians.com/ Check out the full episode here: https://...

Welcome! In this episode I take a 30,000ft view of the various inpatient and outpatient rehab options following a hospital stay. This is not a deep dive but just enough to get by in a pinch! Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well for you, leave the rest! This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as...

Welcome! In this episode I take a deep dive into the concept "enough", according to whom? And how is this decided? How does this influence our own relationships and neural pathways? Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well for you, leave the rest! This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal le...

Welcome! In this episode we talk about helping to support an aging parent who lives 100s of miles away, all the ups and downs, the "on call" scenarios. We also review a very tough decision to enter a care home and dissect the feelings/reactions when we are trying our best but not "enough". Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works w...

Welcome! Happy New Year! In this episode I interview David Stewart, Founder and CEO of Ageist and fellow podcaster of " The SuperAge Podcast ". We discuss aspects of health, how it's never to late to get in the game, and the importance of self-care. You can find out more about your own approach to aging by taking the Ageist Quiz . Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allow...

Welcome! In this episode I take a deep dive into the emotion of GUILT. How does this impact our own experience, and how does it relate to aging parents? Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well for you, leave the rest! This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal legal, financial or medical adv...

Welcome! In this episode we have a heavy discussion of a complicated family situation across the Atlantic. We discuss family fractures, guilt, end of life care and how to carry on. Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well for you, leave the rest! This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal leg...

Welcome! In this episode we explore the concept of "ageism".... and we have a special guest at the end =) Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well for you, leave the rest! This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal legal, financial or medical advice My course "unSandwiched" is now LIVE If you...

Welcome! In this episode I talk to Occupational Therapist and Aging in Place Specialist Cathron Sterling. She has some wild stories about the creativity required when there are space or financial constraints for aging in place. She shares tips and tricks of the trade for you to ponder. You will hear from Cathron again in a future episode as we talk about her aging parent story. Find more about Cat...