Real Conversations about Aging Parents

Welcome! In this episode we discuss navigating Elder Care Challenges with Frances Reeves In this insightful episode of 'Real Conversations About Aging Parents,' host Rebecca welcomes Frances Reeves, an accomplished attorney and author. Frances shares her deeply personal journey dealing with her parents' aging process, including her mother's dementia and her father's cognitive decline. She discusse...

Welcome! In this episode I talk about a perspective on time, who is rich with time? Who is poor? How do we slow it down, is that even possible? How does this relate to aging parents? Emotional Billionaires - Episode 67 Here is the other podcast episode I mentioned: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/all-the-hacks-with-chris-hutchins/id1560751222?i=1000689258155 Caveats: This is a judgement free...

Welcome! In this episode I talk about returning to the office after teleworking for awhile and some of the barriers or stress this may present for you or your family. Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well for you, leave the rest! This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal legal, financial...

Welcome! In this episode I talk about urinary tract infections and my very recent very close to home interaction with how serious they can be. Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well for you, leave the rest! This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal legal, financial or medical advice If you...

Welcome! In this episode I talk about the sibling dynamic that emerges in caring for aging parents. What say you, AI? In this episode of 'Real Conversations about Aging Parents,' host Rebecca Tapia delves into the complexities of elderly caregiving among adult siblings. She shares personal experiences and observations from dozens of families navigating care for aging parents. Topics include the in...

Welcome! Navigating Gratitude and Aging - Real Conversations In this episode we discusses the challenges faced by caregivers, especially during the holiday season. The discussion explores the dynamics of gratitude, or the lack thereof, from aging parents and the emotional and psychological aspects surrounding it. Rebecca delves into personal anecdotes, societal norms, and various reasons aging par...

Welcome! In this episode we.. Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well for you, leave the rest! This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal legal, financial or medical advice If you are finding value in this podcast, please share and leave a review so others can find it too! Rebecca Disclaimer...

Welcome! In this episode I am providing an analysis similar to the podcast about Joe Biden back in July - this time I ramble about my thoughts on Donald Trump. Listener beware. Hard pass if you are tired of politics! Thanks for listening Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well for you, leave the rest! This podcast is for info...

Welcome! In this episode I talk to Tracee Loran about her unique experience in splitting caregiver duties out of state for her grandmother. How does she balance everything? What thoughts are driving these decisions and efforts? She is an open book for us today and so much to learn. Enjoy! Find out more about Tracee Loran: https://traceeloran.com/ https://www.instagram.com/traceeloran/?hl=en https:...

Welcome! In this episode we talk about the HOT OFF THE PRESS topic of Medicare at Home, a new proposal to extend medicare benefits into home care, vision and audiology care. Find more here: https://thehill.com/policy/healthcare/4922425-harris-adult-caregivers-medicare-benefit-at-home-care-sandwich-generation/ https://oneill.law.georgetown.edu/delivering-on-medicares-promise-providing-a-home-care-b...

Welcome! In this episode I have friend of the podcast Lisa Powers, an Elder Law Attorney out of New York state. She has a wealth of knowledge to share, this time we focus on some specific "case studies" with good learning points. Find more about Lisa here: https://www.harrisbeach.com/people/powers-lisa-m/ In this episode of Real Conversations About Aging Parents, host Rebecca welcomes back elder c...

Welcome! In this episode I talk about the juxtaposition of worlds that are growing and shrinking at the same time, what are some of the root causes and practical solutions to find connection and support from two very perspectives Navigating the Expanding and Shrinking Worlds of Our Lives In this episode, host Rebecca Tapia delves into the contrasting experiences of different life stages, discussin...

Welcome! In this episode we talk again with Niki Feret, our resident expert on all things Medicare! AI summary: In this episode of 'Real Conversations About Aging Parents,' host Rebecca Tapia welcomes back Nikki Ferret, a Medicare expert and owner of Brickhouse Agency. The discussion delves into a comprehensive overview of Medicare, including the differences between Parts A, B, C, and D, and the b...

Welcome! In this episode, we dive into the complexities of maintaining relationships with aging parents. Our guest, Marie, discusses her challenges with her aging mother, who has exhibited concerning cognitive and behavioral changes after retirement. We explore the difficulties of setting boundaries, managing inappropriate public behavior, and striving for positive interactions while dealing with...

Welcome! In this episode I unpack my way of explaining "slow" grief, as opposed to fast grief, and how this can manifest in life, what to do about it and how it may be beneficial! AI Show Notes: In this episode, Rebecca Tapia dives into the concept of 'slow grief' experienced with aging parents, contrasting it with the more familiar 'fast grief.' She explores its psychological facets, ties it to t...

Welcome! In this episode I FINALLY talk to my own husband, David, about his point of view during our years living with the aging parent, Nana. AI Show Notes: In this episode, host Rebecca Tapia talks with her husband David about their 20-year marriage, raising children, and the rewarding yet challenging experience of having Rebecca's grandmother (Nana) live with them. They discuss the dynamics of...

Welcome! In this episode I get super emo and talk about my concept of "emotional billionaires". Yes I just made that up but it works! AI Summary LOL: Real Conversations about Aging Parents: The Emotional Wealth of an Aging Parent In this heartfelt episode of Real Conversations about Aging Parents, host Rebecca Tapia discusses the concept of 'emotional wealth' with respect to aging parents. Through...

Welcome! Do you have friction or resistance to spending time with a person who is negative? In this EXTRA SPICY episode I give you my take on dealing with debbie (or don) downers, some practical advice, and a fiery point of view (take it or leave it). Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well for you, leave the rest! This podca...

Welcome! In this episode we don't shy away from contemporary topics. Let's talk about Biden and all the rumors swirling about his cognitive function... sounds like fun to me!! AI says this is the summary: In this episode, host Rebecca Tapia takes a brief break from her saga series to provide an update on her grandmother's health and talk about a more taboo but essential topic: cognitive decline in...

Welcome! In this episode I talk about the transition to skilled nursing facility... AI summary: **Grandmother's Health Journey**: - Initial fall and subsequent hospitalization in ICU. - Progression through medical floor, acute rehab, and a skilled nursing and rehab facility. - Challenges faced in each setting, with a shift from high-intensity hospital care to less intensive skilled nursing care. *...

Welcome! And so it continues - the Acute Rehab Phase. Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well for you, leave the rest! This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal legal, financial or medical advice If you are finding value in this podcast, please share and leave a review so others can find it...

Welcome! And the story continues, live! Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well for you, leave the rest! This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal legal, financial or medical advice If you are finding value in this podcast, please share and leave a review so others can find it too! Rebecca...

Welcome! In this episode I talk about a new development - Nana falling and going to the hospital. I am sharing raw and live information about my own experience with an aging parent! Caveats: This is a judgement free zone There are no "shoulds" allowed, we live in curiosity Take what works well for you, leave the rest! This podcast is for informational purposes only; it is not intended as formal le...

Welcome! WOW, SIXTY EPISODES AND STILL GOING! In this episode, we discusses crucial topics around elder care, particularly those moments that signify irreversible changes or 'points of no return.' These include incontinence, moving into assisted living, cognitive decline, giving up driving, and the loss of physical abilities. We discuss importance of recognizing these changes and preparing for the...

Welcome! In this episode I take a deeper look at my favorite tv show, "Frasier". Let's see what AI thinks this episode is about... The Impact of 'Frasier' on Multi-generational Living & Cultural Norms In this episode of 'Real Conversations About Aging Parents,' host Rebecca Tapia delves into the influence of popular culture on societal norms, with a focus on the TV show 'Frasier.' She explores...