Raising Teens with Collett Smart

All views expressed in this episode are personal to Michelle Basson. Michelle Basson  is a dedicated school psychologist actively working in both public education systems and the academic sphere associated with university settings. Her role involves providing comprehensive support and counseling to students across multiple school environments, including both primary and high schools. Michelle...

Key Takeaways: The process of raising children aims to prepare them to thrive independently rather than keeping them at home. Transitioning to an "open nest" allows for relationships to evolve, fostering a friendship between parents and young adults. Parents have the opportunity to deeply appreciate who their children are becoming, while children gain newfound appreciation for their parents. Famil...

Key Takeaways: Transition from Authority to Ally: Empowering parents to shift their roles from strict rule enforcers to supportive allies, improving the parent-teen relationship. Control and Instructions: Highlighting the risks of micromanaging older teens, emphasising that too much control can create distance instead of fostering growth and maturity. Effective Connection: Suggesting practical way...

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Key Takeaways: Recognise Behavioral Changes: Learn to identify key signs of a teen in crisis, such as withdrawal, risk-taking, diminished school performance, and expressions of hopelessness. Maintain Calm and Support: Discover the importance of staying calm and curious, not reactive, to offer a safe environment where teens feel supported. Focus on Connection: Prioritise emotional safety and connec...

Key Takeaways: Teens distancing from parents is a normal developmental phase as they seek independence. Parents should provide a "steady presence" and adapt to their teen's communication preferences. Emotional regulation and repair after conflicts are vital to maintaining trust. Giving teens some control over their choices within healthy boundaries can foster connection. Family connection, though...

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Key Points: Understanding legal responsibilities is crucial when teens commence driving alone. Assessing a teen driver's experience and confidence helps gauge their readiness. Safety must be a priority, especially when younger siblings are passengers. The approach to driving should be gradual, with trust-building measures. Continuous communication about safe practices reinforces learning and respo...

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Key Points: Encouraging teens to consider counseling should be a gentle process that respects their need for control and privacy. Parents should emphasise the confidentiality of counseling, reassuring teens that professionals will maintain their privacy while sharing critical concerns. Involving teens in the decision-making process, such as choosing a counselor, can increase their sense of ownersh...

Krysten Bisby is an esteemed counselor and advocate for animal-assisted therapy, harnessing her extensive experience with animals to support mental health and well-being. With a background in competitive horse riding, she has drawn on her lifelong passion for animals, including her therapeutic partner Cruz, a certified therapy dog, to enhance her counseling practice. She is notably involved in par...

Key Points: The "invisible load" involves the mental and emotional planning needed to keep a family running smoothly, disproportionately handled by mothers. When recognised and verbalised, this load can be redistributed among the family, easing stress and fostering a more collaborative environment. Collett emphasises how engaging teens in managing this load fosters their independence and reduces p...

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Key Takeaways: Predictability Matters : Building a predictable environment can significantly reduce stress for neurodivergent teens as they start a new school year. Collaborative Support Systems : Engage teens in their support planning, which increases their comfort and trust in their school environment. Focus on Emotional Regulation : Prioritise emotional well-being over academic performance to h...

Lisa Maltman brings sleep health education to thousands of Australian teens and parents. She reveals why 70% of teens aren't getting enough sleep, tackling technology designed to keep them scrolling, packed schedules treating sleep as leftover time, and sleep disorders mistaken for ADHD. Collett and Lisa discuss the "Can't Sleep vs Won't Sleep" framework, social jet lag from weekend sleep-ins, and...

Collett Smart wraps up the year with one of her most honest episodes yet. After taking time away from the podcast, she's back to share what really happened during her break – and it's not the polished story you might expect. In this vulnerable ep, Collett opens up about the reality of juggling her work as a psychologist, caring for elderly family members, and keeping her marriage strong afte...

Collett sits with the host of Troubleshooting (a podcast for the 20-35 year olds for all things technology) and discuss the social media ban which has come into effect recently.  Key Takeaways: Legislative Impact: Australia's new laws ban under 16-year-olds from accessing many social media platforms, intending to offer kids more time for childhood development away from digital distractions. P...

Key Takeaways: Parents should model emotional regulation and prioritize checking in on their own mental health to support their children effectively. Engage in open yet age-appropriate dialogues with children, allowing them to process their emotions and ask questions about the crisis. Limit media consumption to protect mental health, as repeated exposure to distressing news can exacerbate anxiety...

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Introducing She Wasn't Born Yesterday (SWBY) a podcast for women 40+ fabulous! SWBY is hosted by Janet Evans, a senior advertising creative and Jenni Woodhouse a semi retired social worker. This episode which chat about teen axiety. About the Guest: Lyn Worsley  is a renowned clinical psychologist and the director of the Resilience Centre . With nearly 30 years of experience, Lyn has contribu...

She Wasn’t Born Yesterday tackles the many unique issues affecting women who are 40+ fabulous. Click here to follow this podcast Janet Evans and Jenni Woodhouse tackle adult parent-child relationships on "She Wasn't Born Yesterday" with Dr Jenny Brown, a family therapist with 35+ years helping Aussie families. Jenny shares game-changing strategies for staying curious instead of reactive duri...

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To hear more Money: Faith & Finance, click on this apple podcast link:  https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/money-faith-finance/id1656825243 Teenagers earning money and paying you board? What about adult kids living under your roof? Joni asked Pete and Ben to get stuck into the family affair of working out if your kids with jobs need to stump up. So they did, diving deeper than their kn...

About the Guest: Dr. Jay-Lee Nair is an esteemed Australian sports psychologist with deep expertise in performance anxiety among young athletes. Residing in Singapore since 2012, she specializes in strategies to help high achievers and perfectionists thrive in competitive sports. Her impactful work in psychology and sports spans from her educational pursuits in the United States, where she earned...

For more episodes of "Undistracted with Laura Bennett" subscribe here on Apple Podcasts and Spotify Join host Laura Bennett as she delves into parenting with psychologist, teacher, and author Colett Smart. Explore strategies for managing school-related stress, fostering children's identity beyond academics and activities, and maintaining healthy family dynamics. Colette shares insights into balanc...