Pursue HER

Have you ever looked at your marriage and wondered, "Why does it feel like I'm pursuing God differently than my husband?" In this episode of the Pursue HER Podcast, we're talking about a conversation that doesn't happen nearly enough in Christian marriage circles. We often hear about marriages where one spouse is saved and the other is not, but what happens when both husband and wife love God, yet...

Have you ever felt overwhelmed by motherhood and wondered if you're the only one struggling? In this heartfelt episode of the Pursue HER Podcast, Kelley Bell speaks directly to the mom who loves her children deeply but feels emotionally exhausted, mentally drained, and overwhelmed by the weight of motherhood. Whether you're a single mom carrying everything on your own, a married mom feelin...

Have you ever felt like your mind just won't slow down? The overthinking, the worry, the constant "what if" scenarios can leave you feeling mentally exhausted and emotionally drained. In this episode, I sit down with the creator of the C.A.S.T.™ Anxiety Cards to have an honest conversation about anxiety, faith, and mental wellness. We discuss what anxiety really is, why it affects bo...

In this episode of the Pursue HER Podcast, we’re having an honest conversation about children struggling with low self-esteem, insecurity, body image issues, and confidence. As parents, it can be heartbreaking watching your child compare themselves to others, dislike parts of who they are, or slowly withdraw emotionally because of how they feel about themselves. This episode dives into practical p...

What if the thing affecting your marriage the most is not what you’re saying… but how you’re showing up? In this episode of the Pursue HER Podcast, Kelley unpacks the power of a wife’s conduct through the lens of The Holy Bible and why our actions often carry more weight than our words. This conversation is not about being silent, weak, or pretending everything is okay. It is about becoming so con...

Feeling stuck in life, marriage, or your spiritual walk? In this episode of the Pursue HER Podcast, we unpack the truth behind stagnation and why it may not be that God isn’t moving, but that He’s preparing you for more. Kelley J. Bell shares powerful biblical strategies for women who feel overwhelmed, distracted, and disconnected from God. Learn how the enemy uses busyness as a tactic to keep you...

Summer break is here, but let’s be real, mama , it’s not just a break, it’s a setup. If we’re not intentional, our kids can fall into habits that are hard to break, too much screen time, no structure, and days filled with just “passing time.” And while rest is important, idle time without direction can lead to lost learning, poor habits, and unnecessary exposure. In this episode of the Pursue HER...

Have you ever thought, “This is not the man I married…”? In this episode of the Pursue HER Podcast, we’re talking about what happens when your husband changes after marriage. If you’re feeling disconnected, confused, or wondering why your husband isn’t the same, this conversation is for you. We’re unpacking red flags you may have missed, patterns that haven’t changed, and what to do when affection...

What does it really mean to be a pastor’s wife? Many people see the title, the smile, and the Sunday presence. But behind the scenes, there is often a woman navigating expectations, supporting ministry, and still trying to walk fully in the calling God placed on her own life. In this episode of the Pursue HER Podcast, Kelley sits down with a pastor’s wife, Kristi Owens, who is also a mentor and co...

Motherhood requires a lot, but one of the most powerful tools a mom can develop is consistency. In this episode of the Pursue HER Podcast, we’re having an honest, empowering conversation about why consistency matters as a mom, where it’s most needed, and how to build it even when life feels overwhelming. If you’ve ever felt frustrated because you start strong but struggle to stay consistent with d...

Let’s have a real conversation. You might not think you gossip, but have you ever walked away from a conversation feeling off? Like something in your spirit said, “That wasn’t right”? In this episode of the Pursue HER Podcast, we’re talking about the hidden danger of gossip, what it actually is, how it shows up in everyday conversations, and why it’s more serious than we often realize as believers...

Disagreements in marriage are inevitable, but how wives respond in those moments matters. In this episode of the Pursue HER Podcast, we talk honestly about what wives should do when they don’t see eye to eye with their husbands. We explore common areas of disagreement like finances, parenting, communication, and decision-making, while unpacking biblical wisdom and practical strategies that help wi...

Ever told your child, “You’re fine,” and instantly felt that pang of guilt? You’re not alone, mama. This episode is for every mom who’s doing her best to connect but sometimes feels unsure how to handle all those big emotions. In this heartfelt conversation, we’ll talk about: Why validation is key to emotional safety and connection What happens when children’s feelings are dismissed (even unintent...

What do you do when life hands you a diagnosis you didn’t expect? In this powerful episode of the Pursue HER Podcast, we’re having a real, honest conversation about motherhood, faith, and navigating an autism diagnosis. I’m sitting down with a strong, faith-filled mom who shares her journey of raising a son on the autism spectrum, and how what once felt overwhelming became the very thing that birt...

Let’s be real… you can love God deeply and still feel overwhelmed in your body. You can be praying, showing up for your family, handling your responsibilities, and still feel anxious, overstimulated, and mentally exhausted. And for many women, that disconnect can feel confusing, because spiritually you feel strong, but physically and emotionally you feel drained. In this powerful and eye-opening e...

Are you helping your child… or unintentionally holding them back? In this episode of the Pursue HER Podcast , we’re having a real conversation about something many moms don’t realize they’re doing, defending and doing more for their children than they’re developing them. This is not about guilt… it’s about growth. Because while we love our kids deeply, we have to ask ourselves:Am I raising a child...

What does it really mean to nurture your husband, and is it okay to do so in today’s world? In this episode of the Pursue HER Podcast, Kelley J. Bell speaks directly to women who desire to get things right in their marriage. Not perfect. Not performative. Just aligned with how God designed love, partnership, and connection to work. If you’ve ever wrestled with whether nurturing makes you weak, ove...

Betrayal hurts most when it comes from people closest to us. In this episode of the Pursue HER Podcast , we talk honestly about how to identify the Judases in your life without becoming bitter, guarded, or fearful. Using biblical wisdom and real-life application, this conversation helps women recognize modern-day betrayal, discern red flags in relationships, and understand why discernment is essen...

In today’s powerful and heartfelt episode of the Pursue HER Podcast, we’re redefining what it means to be a “stay-at-home mom.” Because let’s be real, many women feel unseen, underestimated, and mislabeled in this season of life. But what if motherhood at home isn’t a limitation… it’s a divine assignment? I’m sitting down with an incredible woman of God, a wife, mother of 4, former military servic...

Marriage is one of the most prayed-for desires, yet one of the least prepared-for roles. In this episode of the Pursue HER Podcast, we’re having an honest, necessary conversation about what it truly means to be a wife who lives by Christian values. This episode goes beyond wedding day excitement and social media expectations to unpack the real responsibilities, spiritual posture, and personal grow...

What do you do when your adult child starts making choices you don’t agree with, and your heart feels torn between truth, fear, and unconditional love? In this episode, I’m speaking directly to Christian mothers who are navigating the emotional weight of parenting adult children. Maybe you raised them in church. You prayed. You taught them the Word. And now, their decisions around faith, relations...

Have you ever felt God place a dream on your heart that excites you, but also scares you? A dream so big it stretches your faith and forces you to trust God beyond your comfort zone? In this episode of the Pursue HER Podcast, we’re talking directly to Christian women who know they’re called for more but feel the weight of fear, doubt, and responsibility that comes with God-sized dreams. This conve...

Are you showing up in your marriage as a coach or a cheerleader? In this episode of Pursue HER, Kelley breaks down the difference between guiding your husband with wisdom and encouraging him with support. Discover the pros and cons of each role, hear real examples of what “coach mode” and “cheerleader mode” sound like, and learn how to find balance with biblical wisdom. ✅ Practical marriage strat...

What do you do when love isn't enough to hold your marriage together? In this powerful episode of the Pursue HER Podcast, Kelley J. Bell sits down with a couple, Greg and Carolyn Napier, whose story goes beyond romance and dives straight into redemption. They’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, spiritual disconnection, divorce, and the hard decision to fight for restoration, and they cam...

As parents, one of the hardest but most important conversations you’ll ever have with your kids is about sex and pornography. The reality is, if you don’t talk to them, the world will, and what the world teaches is far from God’s truth. In this episode of the Pursue HER Podcast, host Kelley Bell shares: ✅ Why parents must be the first voice when it comes to sex, purity, and pornography ✅ When to...