Pursue HER

Are you afraid to start over? Maybe you've experienced disappointment, failure, or unexpected changes, and the thought of beginning again feels overwhelming. You know it's time to move forward, but fear keeps reminding you of what happened the last time you tried. Whether you're navigating changes in marriage, motherhood, career, or your personal life, starting over doesn't mean yo...

Are we making motherhood harder than it needs to be? Between gentle parenting, mom guilt, endless parenting advice, and the pressure to raise emotionally healthy children, it's no wonder so many moms feel overwhelmed and exhausted. But what if some of our motherhood burnout isn't coming from what our children actually need, but from the expectations we've placed on ourselves? In this e...

Have you ever experienced a season in your marriage when you genuinely didn't know if you and your husband were going to make it? You love your husband, you believe in marriage, but you're exhausted, discouraged, and wondering how things will get better. I've experienced challenging seasons in my own marriage, and one prayer that helped sustain me was, "God, help me to see my husb...

Have you found yourself thinking, “Why am I so emotional lately?” Maybe you are crying more, becoming overwhelmed more easily, or feeling things you have never experienced before. You know something feels different, but you are not sure why or what to do with it. Before you tell yourself to get over it and keep pushing, pause. Your emotions may be revealing something that needs your attention. In...

You love your children. You love your husband. But somewhere between school schedules, practices, meals, homework, bills, college decisions, and everything else that comes with raising a family, your marriage can quietly start getting whatever is left over. And sometimes, you don't even realize it's happening. In this episode of the Pursue HER Podcast, we're talking about what happens...

We spend years raising our children to grow up, become independent, and eventually leave home. But nobody really prepares moms for what it feels like when they actually do. In this episode of the Pursue HER Podcast, we’re talking about the grief that can come when your children begin leaving home, even when you still have other children to raise. How do you honor what you’re feeling without allowi...

Have you been explaining, defending, and trying to prove what God placed inside of you because other people cannot see it yet? You do not need everyone’s approval before you obey God. However, walking confidently in your calling does not mean becoming prideful, unteachable, or unwilling to receive wise counsel. In this episode, Kelley discusses the difference between godly confirmation and constan...

Are you tired of feeling like you're carrying the weight of your marriage? Maybe you're making the decisions, initiating the conversations, managing the responsibilities, and wondering why your husband isn't leading the way you hoped he would. You never wanted to be in this position, but somewhere along the way, it felt like someone had to step up. If that's where you are, this epi...

Motherhood is a beautiful part of who you are, but somewhere between taking care of everybody else, managing the schedules, meeting the needs, and carrying the mental load, it can become easy to lose sight of the woman behind the title of “Mom.” In this episode of Pursue HER, we’re talking about what happens when motherhood becomes your entire identity and why rediscovering yourself does not mean...

What did Jesus really mean when He said, "Blessed are the poor in spirit," "Blessed are the meek," and "Blessed are the peacemakers"? In this episode of Pursue HER Podcast, we're taking a deep dive into the Beatitudes found in Matthew 5:1-12 and exploring how these powerful teachings apply to our everyday lives as Christian women. As daughters of God, we are calle...

Have you been carrying something in your marriage that your husband doesn't know about? Maybe it's a hurt you've never fully expressed. Maybe it's a need that isn't being met. Maybe it's frustration, disappointment, resentment, fear, or even a struggle you've been trying to handle on your own. Whatever it is, avoiding the conversation doesn't make it disappear. In t...

Are you tired of being the strong one? Tired of carrying the weight, waiting for the promise, and wondering when it's finally going to be your turn? I know this season has been heavy, but don't let it fool you. Just because it's been hard doesn't mean God isn't working. Don't quit now. Keep showing up. Keep trusting. Keep believing. You're closer than you think, so let&...

What if one of the greatest gifts you could give your husband isn't another solution, but a safe place to be fully known? If you've ever wondered why your husband doesn't open up, struggles to be vulnerable, or keeps his thoughts to himself, this episode is for you. We're talking about how to build emotional safety in your marriage so your husband feels seen, heard, and secure enou...

Back-to-school season doesn't have to feel overwhelming. In this episode of the Pursue HER Podcast, I'm sharing practical strategies to help you prepare your family with peace and purpose before the first day of school. We'll talk about resetting sleep schedules, creating morning, after-school, and bedtime routines, getting organized without overspending, preparing for extracurricular...

Are you constantly repeating yourself, reminding your children of the same things, or wondering why they don't take responsibility? It may not be rebellion. It may be that the expectations have never been clearly established. In this episode of the Pursue HER Podcast, we're talking about why setting healthy expectations is one of the greatest gifts you can give your children. You'll le...

Marriage can be beautiful, but it can also be challenging. There are seasons when you have questions, concerns, disappointments, or burdens that feel too heavy to carry on your own. The good news is that you were never meant to carry them alone. In this special prayer episode of the Pursue HER Podcast, we spend time in prayer for marriages, husbands, wives, families, and the hearts of women who ma...

Have you ever felt like God is stretching you, challenging you, or calling you to grow in ways that feel uncomfortable? What if the very thing you're experiencing is preparation for the next season He has for you? In this episode of the Pursue HER Podcast, we dive into why personal growth, spiritual maturity, and obedience are often required before we can step into the promises, opportunities,...

Have you ever looked at your marriage and wondered, "Why does it feel like I'm pursuing God differently than my husband?" In this episode of the Pursue HER Podcast, we're talking about a conversation that doesn't happen nearly enough in Christian marriage circles. We often hear about marriages where one spouse is saved and the other is not, but what happens when both husband and wife love God, yet...

Have you ever felt overwhelmed by motherhood and wondered if you're the only one struggling? In this heartfelt episode of the Pursue HER Podcast, Kelley Bell speaks directly to the mom who loves her children deeply but feels emotionally exhausted, mentally drained, and overwhelmed by the weight of motherhood. Whether you're a single mom carrying everything on your own, a married mom feelin...

Have you ever felt like your mind just won't slow down? The overthinking, the worry, the constant "what if" scenarios can leave you feeling mentally exhausted and emotionally drained. In this episode, I sit down with the creator of the C.A.S.T.™ Anxiety Cards to have an honest conversation about anxiety, faith, and mental wellness. We discuss what anxiety really is, why it affects bo...

In this episode of the Pursue HER Podcast, we’re having an honest conversation about children struggling with low self-esteem, insecurity, body image issues, and confidence. As parents, it can be heartbreaking watching your child compare themselves to others, dislike parts of who they are, or slowly withdraw emotionally because of how they feel about themselves. This episode dives into practical p...

What if the thing affecting your marriage the most is not what you’re saying… but how you’re showing up? In this episode of the Pursue HER Podcast, Kelley unpacks the power of a wife’s conduct through the lens of The Holy Bible and why our actions often carry more weight than our words. This conversation is not about being silent, weak, or pretending everything is okay. It is about becoming so con...

Feeling stuck in life, marriage, or your spiritual walk? In this episode of the Pursue HER Podcast, we unpack the truth behind stagnation and why it may not be that God isn’t moving, but that He’s preparing you for more. Kelley J. Bell shares powerful biblical strategies for women who feel overwhelmed, distracted, and disconnected from God. Learn how the enemy uses busyness as a tactic to keep you...

Summer break is here, but let’s be real, mama , it’s not just a break, it’s a setup. If we’re not intentional, our kids can fall into habits that are hard to break, too much screen time, no structure, and days filled with just “passing time.” And while rest is important, idle time without direction can lead to lost learning, poor habits, and unnecessary exposure. In this episode of the Pursue HER...

Have you ever thought, “This is not the man I married…”? In this episode of the Pursue HER Podcast, we’re talking about what happens when your husband changes after marriage. If you’re feeling disconnected, confused, or wondering why your husband isn’t the same, this conversation is for you. We’re unpacking red flags you may have missed, patterns that haven’t changed, and what to do when affection...