Psychology In Seattle Podcast

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda and Bob review a case in which a therapist was unethical. (Intro) The full episode is available to patrons of the podcast. Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Merch: https://teespring.com/stores/psychology-in-seattle Cameo: https://www.cameo.com/kirkhonda Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psycholo...

[Rerun] Have you had moments that changed your life forever? Dr. Kirk Honda discusses his developmental milestones. (Intro) The full episode is available to patrons of the podcast. Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Merch: https://teespring.com/stores/psychology-in-seattle Cameo: https://www.cameo.com/kirkhonda Instagram:...

Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails. 00:00 Bob's Return to Butler Syndrome and Other Things 00:35 Betrayal trauma 03:10 Emotionally distant 04:59 Butler syndrome 31:21 Charities & OPP 34:33 Kirk & Bob's first impressions of each other 35:48 Resentment 40:30 Colleen's retirement 42:33 Tics but not Tourette's 46:52 Multiple diagnoses 51:07 Minimizing romantic anxiety 54:33 Difficulty identifying em...

Dr Kirk and Rebecca react to Reddit. 00:00 Drunk, Judgy, Stressed Therapists 01:15 Broken trust in therapy 09:42 Feeling judged by therapist 18:30 Shamed in therapy 22:26 The new chair! 32:00 Vinyls & estate sales 42:28 Stress in the profession 47:22 Holding trauma for clients 1:17:55 Burnout & CBT language From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/...

Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails. 00:00 Lightning Round Rantings 00:36 Tragedy & empathy 03:11 Biggest lesson in our careers 06:52 Relational trauma & anger 20:38 Therapist secretly testing clients 22:13 House of the Dragon 23:34 Self-compassion 27:43 C-PTSD 30:42 Influential albums for us 36:01 Preoccupied attachment 49:12 Having two therapists at once 59:13 Reddit & Ethics 1:06:02 White ther...

[Rerun] Has civilization ruined our lives? Should we be living as hunter-gatherers? Is it against our evolution to have houses and cellphones? Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Dr. Christopher Ryan (author of Sex at Dawn) who answers these questions in his new book, Civilized to Death. Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Merch: ht...

[Rerun] We discuss a listener's complaints about their therapist. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirk Get started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Merch: https://teesp...

Nazanin Nour explains why the protesters in Iran are fighting and dying for their freedoms. You can find Nazanin on Instagram @iamnazaninnour and Twitter @NazaninNour. 00:00 Mahsa Amini & Iranian protests 14:44 Viral support & previous movements 27:40 Experience with morality police Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Merc...

What makes Armie Hammer tick? What is vore fetish? Dr Kirk and Humberto watched the new documentary on Discovery+ and have a lot to say. 00:00 Armie Hammer intro 06:07 Backlash to documentary 13:12 Love bombing 25:50 BDSM 30:33 Grooming 37:54 Sexual Sadism 57:18 Generational Psychopathy 1:11:49 Love Bombing pt. 2 1:24:56 Vore Fetish 1:36:24 ChArmies 1:49:43 Negative reviews 1:59:26 In summary Beco...

Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails. 0:00 Suffering Therapists, Suicidal Teens, and Bob Friendship 0:10 Suffering therapists 7:09 Eckhart Tolle & Mindfulness 11:43 Asking your therapist to learn something 16:09 Suicide & Parenting 38:13 Dr. Kirk & Bob's friendship 50:52 Clinician notes & nuance From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirk Get sta...

[Rerun] Are furries sexual deviants? What's up with them? From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirk Get started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Merch: https://teespring.com...

[Rerun]Was Tony Soprano a psychopath? Why did he have panic attacks? Are mobsters inherently sociopathic? How can we explain his behavior and attitudes? Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto explore these questions and more. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirk Get started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automa...

Dr Kirk and Humberto talk about various things. 00:00 The rise & fall of Dan Price 29:05 OPP 32:39 Constance Wu & Twitter 53:12 Gifts for Humberto 58:39 Health anxiety 1:08:28 Self ID frustration 1:21:18 Jury selection and racial demographics From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirk Get started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discoun...

Dr Kirk answers patron emails. 00:00 Attachment Theory Critiques and other Patron Questions 00:03 Reacting to 'Has Attachment Theory Gone Too Far' on Refinery29 38:29 Secure attachment 42:21 PIS website redesign 43:59 Diagnosing a community 47:23 Children's mental health 59:15 Dr. Kirk's approach to Attachment Theory 1:06:21 Psychologists prescribing medications 1:13:33 Feeling like a loser From o...

Dr Kirk and Humberto review the Netflix documentary, I Just Killed My Dad. 00:34 Anthony Templet 02:42 Emotion myths & Amanda Knox 09:20 Trauma responses 12:27 Attachment 22:00 Flat affect 38:30 Police incompetence 45:32 Child-parent violence 49:14 A license to kill? 1:02:33 Truancy 1:09:20 Munchausen's 1:17:17 System failure From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://...

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Humberto about the psychology of Roseanne Barr. From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirk Get started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Merc...

Dr Kirk reacts to Andrew Tate being interviewed by Chian on Stand Out TV. 00:13 Toxic masculinity 10:40 Alpha males 17:35 Biology & the inner Andrew Tate 26:48 Andrew Tate's social world 36:22 Indoctrination 41:59 Inferiority & gender socialization 50:39 Cheating hypocrisy From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirk Get started today and enjoy 10...

Dr Kirk reacts to Andrew Tate being interviewed by Chian on Stand Out TV. 00:23 Self-confidence 04:50 Conservative traditionalism, male privilege, and sexism 09:02 Insecurity & Narcissism 19:28 Accusations & Lying 27:45 Male hierarchy, insecurity, & high-value men 35:13 Manosphere echo chamber 38:08 Pretty privilege 43:55 Resentment towards women 49:05 High-status male From our sponsor, BetterHelp...

Dr Kirk and Bob answer random questions from the listeners. 00:43 Psychotic partner 07:00 No romantic desire 13:52 Family therapy screening 16:27 Dating an avoidant 24:33 Finding a new therapist 28:42 Icky provider 29:47 Starting a private practice 42:40 PIS Live Event 47:52 Self-soothing 52:08 Insomnia 59:08 DBT 59:45 Pinpointing your attachment style 1:01:19 Favorite artists 1:04:51 Theory patho...

[Rerun] This is the first deep dive in the Loneliness Deep Dive Series. (Intro) The full episode is available to patrons of the podcast. Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Merch: https://teespring.com/stores/psychology-in-seattle Cameo: https://www.cameo.com/kirkhonda Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychologyinseatt...

Dr Kirk and Bob answer random questions from the listeners. 00:00 - Random Internet Questions 3:05 Parenting disabled children 5:14 Decompressing after work 8:20 Irreverence therapy 16:59 OPP 18:38 Handling failures 36:55 Abuse in therapy 45:44 Bob's practice 50:01 Tips on starting out in mental health 53:23 Personality disorders and mental illness From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? T...

Dr Kirk and Humberto analyze the family system of The Beatles. 00:00 The Beatles Family System 00:20 Beatles Family System Analysis 17:58 Beatles success and hubris 27:33 Beatles archetypes 29:05 OPP 30:00 Humberto guesses celebrity's favorite Paul McCartney songs 39:52 Top 10 McCartney songs 46:08 Anonymous patron's list of sad songs 48:15 Dr. Kirk's Talking Heads concert film experience 54:54 To...

Dr Kirk Honda answers patron emails. 00:12 - Regression 04:15 - Academic anxiety 10:50 - Codependency with narcissists 14:30 - Post-coital dysmorphia 20:30 - TEAM-CBT 21:37 - Can I bond with my dad? 25:34 - Narcissistic mom sexually objectified me 27:22 - Is it okay that I don't love my parents? 31:19 - How to deal with online harassment 33:20 - Dr Kirk's and online harassment (and the cancellatio...

[Rerun] Is the enneagram personality test valid? Why is it so popular? Can it be used to help people improve their lives or is it just pseudoscience? Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto explore these questions and more in the mini deep dive into enneagram. (Intro) The full episode is available to patrons of the podcast. Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psycho...

[Rerun] What’s the difference between psychopathy and sociopathy? Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Merch: https://teespring.com/stores/psychology-in-seattle Cameo: https://www.cameo.com/kirkhonda Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychologyinseattle/ Facebook Official Page: https://www.facebook.com/PsychologyInSeattl...