Psychology In Seattle Podcast

What is the difference between being distorted and being psychotic? What do we really mean when we talk about culture? Why do some people over-function while others under-function? And what are dreams actually for? Dr. Kirk Honda explores these questions in a patron email episode. July 10, 2026 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off...

Rerun] Dr. Kirk answers patron emails about attachment. November 25, 2020 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Support us by... Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Contact us/more info... Email: https://www.psy...

Dr. Kirk and Rebecca answer patron questions about Lily Allen's latest album, coping with the death of a beloved dog, macrophilia, and one listener's question about learning how to navigate male spaces after transitioning. July 8, 2026 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Mochi's passing & the importanc...

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk answers patron emails about attachment. November 23, 2020 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Support us by... Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Contact us/more info... Email: https://www.ps...

Dr. Kirk Honda discusses the ethics of physician-assisted suicide and Medical Aid in Dying (MAID), particularly when requests are based on severe psychological suffering rather than terminal physical illness. He reviews current laws in the United States, Canada, and several European countries, examines high-profile cases that received international media attention, and explores the challenges of b...

Dr. Kirk Honda reacts to an interview featured on the BorderlinerNotes YouTube channel. In the video, NPD Therapy In Action: Consult with Dr. Igor Weinberg and Jacob, a client diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder discusses his struggles. Dr. Honda provides his clinical perspective on narcissism, psychotherapy, and the challenges of treating personality disorders. July 3, 2026 This epis...

[Rerun] Chapter 6 in Dr. Kirk’s deep dive on attachment theory. (Intro)  March 23, 2019 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Support us by... Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Contact us/more info... Email: h...

A listener explains why she sometimes wishes Dr. Honda were her father. Another listener wonders if they're sabotaging therapy by pretending not to know things they actually know. Plus, Dr. Honda discusses the growing trend of internet self-diagnosis and common misconceptions about personality disorders. July 1, 2026 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp....

[Rerun] Chapter 5 in Dr. Kirk’s deep dive on attachment theory. (Intro) March 22, 2019 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Support us by... Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Contact us/more info... Email: ht...

Dr. Kirk Honda answers three difficult emails about pedophilia. One listener discovers child sexual abuse material on her boyfriend’s computer and struggles with what to do next. Another listener realizes he is a minor-attracted person (MAP) and fears what that means for his future. A therapist writes in seeking guidance on helping suicidal MAP clients. June 29, 2026 This episode is sponsored by B...

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto talk about the pros and cons of contemporary stoicism in the manosphere. June 26, 2026 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 What has stoicism become?33:53 Is there a benefit to stoicism?  48:05 How does the framework of stoicism influence therapists? 1:03:53 How does culture influ...

[Rerun] Chapter 4 in Dr. Kirk’s deep dive on attachment theory. (Intro) March 21, 2019 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Support us by... Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Contact us/more info... Email: ht...

Dr. Kirk Honda interviews Mia Chard about surviving abuse at the hands of therapist Maurice Harker, who was later convicted. As Mia recounts her experience, Kirk discusses the betrayal of trust involved in therapist abuse and why stories like hers leave him enraged. June 24, 2026 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first mon...

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk describes how to use attachment theory in therapy. (Intro) March 20, 2019 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Support us by... Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Contact us/more info... Email...

Humberto explores why He-Man meant so much to him as a child and why, after seeing the new movie with his family, he got into a major fight with them. June 22, 2026 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 What is Humberto's history with He-Man? 18:45 Cynical storytelling in media  31:05 What led up to the figh...

Dr Kirk and Humberto answer patron emails. June 19, 2026 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 PiS Out of Context 03:08 Why might I have such intense empathy for animals? 19:47 How can I support my partner in mutual grief? 38:23 Is AI sentient? 49:37 How might therapists approach clients with AI companions?...

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk describes attachment theory in this 4 hour episode. (Intro) March 19, 2019 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Support us by... Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Contact us/more info... Emai...

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto explore the psychology of Sean “Diddy” Combs. June 17, 2026 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Sean Combs: The Reckoning  17:54 Was the documentary biased?  26:25 Revelations from the documentary  50:29 What does his MO reveal about him? 57:25 What might happen once he's release...

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk begins his deep dive on attachment theory by telling the story of the theory’s originator, John Bowlby. (Intro) March 18, 2019 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Support us by... Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon....

Dr Kirk Honda interviews his nibling, Alena Honda, about beginning their career as a therapist. You can hire Alena as your therapist at: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/alena-honda-seattle-wa/1670821 June 15, 2026 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Introducing Alena Honda 10:12 What has grad...

Rebeccasode! Kirk and Rebecca answer patron/member emails. June 12, 2026 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 How is Rebecca doing? 10:00 What does emotional regulation look like with an attachment based lens? 16:30 Do lesbians hate men? 27:24  What advice do Rebecca & Dr. Kirk have for new teachers? 38...

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk answers patron emails regarding codependency. November 24, 2021 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Support us by... Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Contact us/more info... Email: https://...

Dr Kirk Honda interviews his old work pal, Val Von Destinon, regarding what it was like working for CPS. June 10, 2026 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Introducing Valerie Von Destinon  04:04 What do people misunderstand about CPS? 09:40 Why did Valerie get involved in CPS?  21:10 How does the process w...

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk answers patron emails regarding codependency. (Intro) November 17, 2026 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Support us by... Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Contact us/more info... Email:...

Rebecca Bloom interviews Lynn Breedlove about living a queer life and the grief of surviving a devastating family tragedy. Breedlove is a musician, writer, performer, and longtime queer activist. For more info: https://youtu.be/BAIIB9OhFtM https://youtu.be/FZLidlgKeGQ https://youtu.be/TooCqm1SMvA June 8, 2026 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK...