Pigmented Taboo

Black women have been at the forefront of LGBTQ+ advocacy, culture, and community building for decades. So why do many queer people still experience homophobia within their own communities? This week on Pigmented Taboo, we’re joined by Mide Oni for a candid conversation about the complex relationship between Black women and homophobia. From religion and cultural expectations to family dynamics, re...

Interracial dating always sounds simple until race, validation, fetishisation, and power enter the room. This episode unpacks the uncomfortable truth behind “preferences,” who gets chosen, who gets hidden, and why so many people confuse desire with proximity to whiteness. We talk dating politics, internalised bias, sexual currency, and the emotional mess of trying to separate genuine connection fr...

This month, Pigmented Taboo welcomes our first ever guest, Guh Deh Philipp, for a conversation many avoid but all recognise. In this episode, we confront homophobia in the Black community directly. We examine where it originates, how it manifests, and who it impacts most. From family expectations and masculinity to cultural conditioning and respectability politics, we dissect the tension between i...

In this episode, we talk about code switching in the way gay men actually live it. How we change how we speak, move, soften, harden, flirt, joke, or stay quiet depending on who’s in the room. How behaviour shifts around different races, genders, sexual dynamics, and social spaces without anyone consciously deciding to do it. We unpack where those switches come from, when they feel protective, when...

In this unfiltered episode, we unpack the realities of hookup culture. From the fun and freedom to the very real risks. We talk candidly about the importance of regular STI and STD testing, the stigma that still lingers around sexual health, and the ways shame can sabotage safety. Then we shift the lens to Africa, where a disturbing trend known as kito sees straight men posing as gay to entrap, bl...

From first dates to long-term love, dating as a Black man comes with its own stages, rules, and battles. We dig into how other races approach dating, the double standards in desirability, and the stereotypes that shape how we’re seen. Beyond the surface, we get real about the politics of who gets chosen, who gets fetishised, and how Black men navigate connection in a world that keeps trying to box...

We unpack how Black men are often boxed into rigid roles within queer spaces. From being fetishised by other ethnicities, to how femininity in Black men is policed within our own community. We challenge the weight of “masc4masc” culture and ask what it means for desire, freedom, and authenticity. We speak your thoughts @pigmentedtaboo across all platforms

We get into the world of down‑low culture. The secrecy, the double lives, and the unspoken rules. From hookups in hidden corners to the toll it takes on mental health, we unpack why some men stay in the shadows and how it shapes Black queer spaces. We speak your thoughts @pigmentedtaboo across all platforms

From Bible verses to backhanded blessings, this episode dives headfirst into the holy war between religion and queerness. We unpack growing up in churches and mosques that preached salvation but handed us shame, the haunting reality of conversion therapy, and how colonialism exported homophobia dressed as holiness. Can you really pray the gay away, or was it never a sin to begin with? Tune in to f...

In our debut episode, we get personal. From kitchen-table confessions to silence that said it all, we unpack the mess, magic, and madness of coming out as Black queer men. We talk family, faith, fear, and the million-dollar question: is being gay really a choice? Welcome to Pigmented Taboo. We speak your thoughts @pigmentedtaboo across all platforms