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I do believe there is a Cosmic JuJu that exists in the Universe. But, using it to explain everything that happens is wild.

We all have those things that make you squint your eyes and look at someone sideways; and no. Mr. Rogers would not appreciate being called feminine, and Amelia Earhart did not appreciate being called masculine.

Every Mom deserves their flowers. Happy Mother’s Day to all of us 🖤💐.

You’re allowed to change your mind. Don’t let anyone try to tell you different.

Being so burnt out that you walk away from everything, and a different perspective on your co worker friend.

Don’t be chief (or bud). We can be boss, but never be chief.

We all know not everything is going to be smooth sailing all the time, but there is no reason for all these work environments to be so toxic, while trying to barely pay you. Stuff’s bonkers; it’s not a constant horror show. It really isn’t. But, you’ll never know that until you’re actually in somewhere and see that it’s not. Majority of these places advertise the job in a very attractive way, then...

(One of) The best way(s) to responde when the interviewer does not know how to talk to people.

Unlearning a behavior you subconsciously developed to survive a crap situation.. takes time, but it can be done. You’re going to be fine.

It’s not that you don’t want to do the “thing”. You literally can’t, and thankfully there are better tools available to help us with our day-to-day, and to do the damn thing. Mel Robbins is to thank for the 54321 method. Stumbled upon that years ago, and it has helped me immensely.

Jobs in general can be stressful, but you shouldn’t be stressed out on your days off.

Even after becoming an adult, we all still have a touch of immaturity.

We all need a little reminder from time to time. No more crumbs. Period.

Always getting flaked on, or always the one initiating conversation are also great examples of why people will withdraw. P.s.- repeatedly being shown you don’t matter, from a young age, is exactly how a narcissist is born. P.s.s- and no (about the disorder matter) I don’t want to hear anything about “they’re just not well informed and are ignorant to the subject”. Balderdash. That person knows how...

Stuff is wild in there- purposely damaging property? Stringing someone along because you can’t stand your own company? “Punishing” someone because you weren’t their first choice???

This is a few of the things that stick out to me that I just don’t understand when it comes to dating. Personally, I enjoy actual connection, but people like me are out numbered; there is way too much going on in there, and I’m staying away from that thing until further notice. Also, something I forgot to mention, anyone who apologizes without changed behavior? That is manipulation at its finest,...

Make no mistake- this is manipulation.

And “flat Earthers”. The Earth is not a perfect sphere. Too much happening within it, but it sure as hell is not flat.

“An it do no harm, do what you will”. I’m over here in my own lane doing me. How this silly broad, or anyone else feels about it, is none of my business.

More to this point, “because I don’t want to” or “I don’t feel ready” are entirely acceptable responses.

Driving just irritates the crap out of me now. I’m at a point where if I can’t knock out what I need to do in one trip I’m staying the hell home; someone is not a gold digger just because they took you up on your offer to be “spoiled”; music is not “just noise”, and I have a headache from this arrogant ass bitch co worker of mine, the fucking cow. Felt like this one needed some sprucing up. Hope w...

With all the things happening on this Earth I know there’s something out here that will actually work for me so I can just sleep. There just has to be 😫.

The dumbassery I dealt with to get some important paperwork submitted. Nothing terrible happened, thank flippin’ goodness. Was just one of those “man, I would’ve been alright if that wasn’t part of my day”; not much you can do when someone wants to be a big bitch and take something that was never about them, and make it about them.

Nature is fascinating. I will definitely give someone that much, and those of you who call others selfish because they don’t kids? The majority of you have no business making them in the first place. But that’s not what we’re talking about here.

None of this is any particular order. Just sounding off on some stuff. If you or anyone you know has been having a hard time lately you can dial 988 for 24/7 crisis support. If texting is easier you can text GOT5 to 741741. It’s O K to have a hard time turning your brain off. It’s O K to not be O K. I’m rootin’ for ya. I’m rooting for all of you.